Here's the prescription:
Vine - overly dominating, needs to loosen up
Rock Water - overly rigid and argumentative about doctrines
Heather - tends to lecture others
I'm hoping he will see it here and take action.
Bach Flower Remedies are available at Whole Foods markets and high-end aging-hippie-type health food stores. Just put a drop or two in every beverage all day long, without touching the wet part of the dropper.
P.S.
And since I love to pick on Winston
here's one for him:White Chestnut - mental chatter and too many thoughts
Cerato - asking too many questions instead of listening to one's inner voice
Chestnut Bud - getting stuck in a rut by making the same mistake over and over again.