Why you should never compromise yourself to attract women

[Winston]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

Why You Should NEVER Compromise Who You Are To Attract Women By Zan Perrion

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ0dXxFBV70[/youtube]

[Rock]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

Why You Should NEVER Compromise Who You Are To Attract Women By Zan Perrion

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ0dXxFBV70[/youtube]

Read "The Unchained Man" by Caleb Jones. From that book it should become apparent why having a mission true to your heart is so important and as a side benefit will attract many women to you.

[El_Caudillo]

This is an excellent talk.


[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5wazjEtREjE[/youtube]

[Zambales]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

Why You Should NEVER Compromise Who You Are To Attract Women By Zan Perrion

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ0dXxFBV70[/youtube]

I haven't watched the video but it is true; a woman is attracted to a man on a mission and also one that appears mysterious. I also believe if a man comes across too eager or tries to sell himself, he's far more likely to be used as a tool.

[MrMan]

I don't know this guy, but he told a girl his work was more important to her, and they broke up and she's dating some other guy.

[Cornfed]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

No it's f***ing retarded.

[yick]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

Why You Should NEVER Compromise Who You Are To Attract Women By Zan Perrion

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ0dXxFBV70[/youtube]

I think women want men to be doing something - work, hobbies, interests, self improvement - the last thing women want to hear is what you are going to do and how if you aren't actually doing it - that puts women off (for some reason ).

You shouldn't compromise for a woman anyway because they can't make your life better - only in superficial ways, the right one can of course but the vast majority aren't compatible and there are a fair few who can wreck your life.

[Shemp]

This guy says that women are drawn to a man on a mission. Is that true?

No it's f***ing retarded.

For once I agree with Cornfed. It makes no sense from an evolutionary nor any other point of view for women to seek men who have a mission in life other than pleasing women, plus my own experience is exactly the opposite. That is, the times in my life when I had the most girlfriends (and was the most miserable) were the times when all I did was chase women. Prior to that dismal womanizing period, I was on a mission to get rich quick: no women in my life. Since that time, I've been on a constant travel mission, with very few women in my life though this has definitely been the happiest time of my life.

PUAs are further evidence the theory is false. PUAs are obsessed with women, running up their notch count is their only mission, and the better PUAs, like Neil Strauss, do indeed get lots of notches with "hot" skanks (hot from all the STDs they have maybe). Most PUAs are miserably unhappy, I might add.

[Kradmelder]

Most women have no interests except chasing men. No real hobbies or pursuits other than tying down some man who will provide for their needs. All of the time and money they spend on hair, clothes, shoes, diets, being seen etc is to stand out to attract male attention. And most of them as a result suffer unhappiness and low self esteem.

For a man to spend his time trying to attract women leads to the same result: unhappiness. True happiness and confidence comes from within, not from women. The feelings women give you are fleeting and come from a temporary hormone imbalance.

I as well have been the happiest in my life when my life was focused on anything else but women.

Women are not attracted to a man on a mission, just the money that mission brings them and the lifestyle for them.

I know plenty of women that go for men with bikes. They feel f all for you. They just want the thrill and lifestyle. Give uo bikes or only go riding without her and she is gone. Same for women that chase men with boats, horses, sports cars etc. They have no intention of doing it themselves, just latching on to a man's coat tails. It may seem they are attracted to such men, but in reality they are only attracted to what your mission brings them.

[Gold]

Interesting discussion. Personally I find sentiments of Kradmelder and retiredfrank sensible. I am talking to thousands of Russian and Ukrainian women through the Russian part of the blog on Elenasmodels.com (girls post 10 times more than guys, maybe even 20 times more). Most girls have interests in fashion, shopping, beauty, and, as they all insist, "creating a family" (i.e. getting married) —you call it, "chasing men". Exercising and healthy lifestyle are becoming "trendy" as interests for women in this region as well.

I think women are attracted to men on a mission for sure, which is what FSU girls call "goal oriented" or "purposeful". But this mission could be just simply enjoying life or living the way he wants to—not necessarily something oriented to "benefit the world". And no matter what, the man should show his admiration and interest in women, or they are not going to be interested in him. So, mission, apparently, is secondary (and not compulsory at all), but wanting to please women is primary, if you think of tips to impress Russian women . Similar to how it's helpful to be handsome to be successful with women but you can get plenty of girls even if your facial features are just regular.

[Zambales]

For those of you that don't believe a woman isn't attracted to guy on a "mission", I'll give you some insight and I've had over 30 years experience. Like a previous poster said, it's not a necessity - but it's far bigger positive than a negative. I suppose it's similar to having confidence.

Firstly I'm a slim to average build 6/10 looking guy, perhaps 7/10 if your eyesight's failing, and over the years I've had numerous women, better looking than me too, who become attracted to me, and this is without having a proper conversation with them.

Usually it's with women who notice me on several different occasions. For example, she could be working in a store that I frequent. Because I'm no Brad Pitt I've always wondered why the attraction.

I've concluded that it's the way I bring myself across. People I know have commented that I look like I'm always on a mission, probably because I'm a fast walker and I tend to rush around. The usual scenario when I enter a store is to get the hell out as soon as possible. I don't even look particularly happy, but I do exchange pleasantries while I pay for my stuff without engaging in any meaningful conversation. Please, thankyou, goodbye - that kind of thing.

Obviously not every woman is attracted to me - and I have to add that I've had some missed opportunities over the years mainly down to my shyness. Nowadays I'm more confident but I'm not really interested in Anglo women anymore if you know what I mean.

[Adama]

Despite whatever they say, a good woman is seeking a man she can look up to. That's what her main goal is. If she is a bad woman, her goal is only pleasure for herself. If she loves you for you, then she will take pleasure in pleasing you, and when you are upset, she will also be upset. If you do not believe this, read the last clause of Genesis 3:16 until it seeks in beyond the density.


Genesis 3:16 King James Version (KJV)

16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

When you find a woman who delights in pleasing you (whether she knows it consciously or she is just doing it without knowing), then you have a woman who may be good for you.

Or you can follow after Stifler and the American Pie series and seek to please women, like the PUAs.

A good wife is from the Lord. He decides who. You just have to figure out which women He has chosen for you.

[Adama]

I think women want men to be doing something - work, hobbies, interests, self improvement - the last thing women want to hear is what you are going to do and how if you aren't actually doing it - that puts women off (for some reason ).

You shouldn't compromise for a woman anyway because they can't make your life better - only in superficial ways, the right one can of course but the vast majority aren't compatible and there are a fair few who can wreck your life.

I used to think it was complicated, but it's not. If she loves you and you are unemployed, she will just be the one to do the work for you. You have a need, then it is her job to fulfill it.

This is the women I'm talking about:those are the women who love you when you have nothing, and they are willing to even elevate you, if they are able. A woman who loves you has no problem helping out wherever she needs to, as long as she is able.

I think the main thing is a man has to be brave, especially in the beginning, when finding the type of women who want to please him. Be a good leader, someone they can look up to and respect. As long as the woman can respect you (and I am not talking about finances, I am talking about emotionally, as her rock and leader), then she will tolerate mountains of other types of terrible things. But if she can't respect him emotionally and look up to him, then he is finished with that woman, and she will never go for or back to him.

As for compromise, I see women insisting on compromise may mostly be sociopathic women who are out to test how far they can make men go and how many fiery hoops they are worth. Once a woman starts making demands, it's over, because she's a terrorist who thinks she is the boss. That means that she thinks she's your god, rather than you being her king, which means she's basically evil. She just wants to see if you will dance for her, and she knows it is both wrong and emasculating. She delights in evil and in being the man's lord (boss). It is twisted, but that's what evil women love doing. And simple minded men will dance along with this program, thinking this is the only program available (way to do things), or that the proper way is the true terrible way or impossible altogether.

Any woman who wants everything from a man, while she never lifts a finger is an absolutely evil and despicable woman. A woman who seeks to please her husband is a treasure. It really is simple, but it is backwards from everything we've been taught. That's because the rulers of this world, and our cultural leaders, are evil people, walking against God.

[Kradmelder]

For those of you that don't believe a woman isn't attracted to guy on a "mission", I'll give you some insight and I've had over 30 years experience. Like a previous poster said, it's not a necessity - but it's far bigger positive than a negative. I suppose it's similar to having confidence.

Firstly I'm a slim to average build 6/10 looking guy, perhaps 7/10 if your eyesight's failing, and over the years I've had numerous women, better looking than me too, who become attracted to me, and this is without having a proper conversation with them.

Usually it's with women who notice me on several different occasions. For example, she could be working in a store that I frequent. Because I'm no Brad Pitt I've always wondered why the attraction.

I've concluded that it's the way I bring myself across. People I know have commented that I look like I'm always on a mission, probably because I'm a fast walker and I tend to rush around. The usual scenario when I enter a store is to get the hell out as soon as possible. I don't even look particularly happy, but I do exchange pleasantries while I pay for my stuff without engaging in any meaningful conversation. Please, thankyou, goodbye - that kind of thing.

Obviously not every woman is attracted to me - and I have to add that I've had some missed opportunities over the years mainly down to my shyness. Nowadays I'm more confident but I'm not really interested in Anglo women anymore if you know what I mean.

There is something that is impossible to define. Like sometimes I stop somewhere at a usual place, or stop because a thunderstorm came up. I go have a beer to wait it out or walk in in sodden bike kit. Women ask me to sit with them. We chat and they say they would love to go for a ride. That day or next we are shagging. I just have a happy demeanor and when they ask about my passion, bikes, they will be swayed and their legs pop the bead like a tyre pried with dishwashing liquid and a tyre lever. Of course such women never last. The only ones that last as those you must spray with anti-rust spray, let sit to work in, gradually unscrew and disassemble. Until You have them apart, see the problem, put it together, get on and ride them hard. Then you have to lube and maintain regular or it gets stripped fast.

The decent white ones are even more effort. You have to disassemble them carefully not to strip something and ruin it. But you cant compare the quality and finesse of a european ducati with the rattle and pieces falling off of a yingyang. One requires maintenance and money. The other is cheap shit to use and dispose.

Like all good heifers and bikes, the only ones worth considering for me are those originating from europe. Leave the Hondas and suzukis and such for asians. A good white man rides quality european. The feeling of a good hard ride on a finicky 150 HP throughbred temperamental KTM blasting down dirt roads at speeds that will get you fined on a tar motorway far beats the simplicity of a 60 HP Honda XR. Unless you are asian. Then he Honda is made for you. The white man must just learn to man up and have the skills to handle the raw power of the KTM when her blood is up in the dirt, rather than the smooth pleasing forgiving asian models.

Fark what women want. Do what you want and if it fits into the life of a good white man, the women will follow and spread. Sit and play faggot gaming shit, or have the woe is me, the whole world is against me attitude of some losers on here and the women will flee. To be honest, who can blame women for avoiding such bottom feeders?