lol I use to get turned off every time a girl said "looking for a friend first." And they were all saying that, it's just their way of saying I'm never going to date you, just be my male/female friend. F that. I remember I tried to be friends with a girl in Highschool I use to make out with a lot, and I recall her saying to me if I like her I will wait for her..I did that and this bitch went right back to her ex-lover...Then when I bumped into her in the hall she goes "You act like you don't want to talk to me anymore." I just looked at her and raised my brow like the Rock "are you f***ing serious?! What do I look like, your f*king number two?" Ever since then I never talked to her again. I did date this Muslim girl in Jr high but after she went to a different highschool, she cut off her long hair and went full blown hood rat with a side of feminism....I remember her talking to someone on the phone and she said "nigga." I knew right then and there I wasn't going to try to make shit work with her again. Us splitting up was unusual because all I remember is after Jr high we lost touch, she never called or visit or anything like she did when were just Pre-teens.Pixel--Dude wrote: ↑November 6th, 2022, 3:21 amYeah, when I was in school I wasn't a hit with the ladies at all. I was largely ignored at school and suffered some minor bullying in the form of name calling and petty shit like that. Mostly from girls actually. So I was never interested in dating any of these bitches.I feel like I wasted my 20s trying to meet women throughout CA, I never did go to clubs and I tried the dating online back in the early 2000s..But ever since everything started to deteriorate it's gotten harder for me to meet women at all, the motivation doesn't feel there anymore. Plus getting rejected by average females always sucked. I can understand why the attractive ones do it, and it's because of their garbage egos. But average ordinary girls doing this is even worse because many men in the West are desperate as hell for female attention and company but ordinary women will take complete advantage of this and reject every guy coming on to them.
The only time a girl did give me the time of day was a few overweight ones. Like the one I met in College, and then there was a gothic one that sent me an interest on this Gothic dating site I used a few times back in my 20s but none of them were attractive. I use to try a lot of platforms like meetup.com or tribe.net I had no luck with those either. I don't know, I just hate the games you have to play with women these days...Like that whole "don't call until after 3 weeks" and shit like this just makes pursuing women useless. I miss the jr high days when the girl had no problem calling me every day, I can kind of see why some guys wish they could legally go after under age girls, but I doubt the ones today are anything like the ones from back when I was a teenager.
It just seemed like girls were always showing interest in me in my Jr High school years, but I was such a shy person that I always ignored them. By the time I got into high school, shit really changed and girls became harder to date.
I do remember meeting this one white woman off a site once and she went to my college. For some reason she showed me a picture and was living with two other men who she referred to as "her boys." She had one child, and when I finally did meet her in person I just looked at this plain ass average looking white woman thinking to myself "God, why do I even bother anymore?" She was also a smoker, somewhat had bad teeth but not extremely bad or decaying. But for a 28 year old she looked sort of 40 already. She had no interest in me either, but I can tell judging from the photo she showed with the two cuckolding looking males on her right and left side with her in the middle that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the both of them. Plus she lived with them which was a big hell no for me aside from the fact she was also a smoker and was aging rather quickly.
I find I tend to find women the most when I'm not even looking for one. I pursue women, they reject me and then I accept being alone and even kind of enjoy it in some respects. Then a girl appears in my life and I'm in a relationship. Been single about a year now and at the moment there is only one woman I would consider dating, but she lives pretty far away.
Smokers don't really do anything for me. Like you said they age much faster and this is worse if they are big into pub culture as well. The truth is mate that a lot of women aren't even worth bothering with. A pub or dating site are okay to find women as a "quick fix" kind of thing, but often times the best ones are ones you can form a friendship with first. You get to know them and the foundation of trust, which is the most important thing in any relationship, is already firmly established.
she use to be a sweet person too, wrote nice letters, left kiss marks on each one, but society definitely ruined her after jr High. She was through once that garbage hood life culture caught on with her after hanging around with a lot of black males, plus she even got into smoking marijuana too. Shitty nigs changing a once beautiful person into another worthless female of modern society. After they got done ruining her, feminism came in to finish her off.
Well at least you won't die alone like half the people who don't even give a f anymore.
