Anyone else also into single moms?
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Those are just some suggestions r/t this topic.
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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Here again you are expressing the feminist idea that men and females want the same thing. This is not so. Parties in a marriage are supposed to be complementary, not identical. As to the rest of what you say, avoiding that stuff is why you marry outside the West. You should research traditional marriage.Splicelo wrote: ↑April 19th, 2019, 8:06 am
Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
You keep going on about feminism but you are the male equavilent of feminist. You are quite entitled. As i said before most women who are all about purity are usually religious, and usually seek out a religious man with the same standards. Think about it for a second. People usually seek out people who are more like themself.Cornfed wrote: ↑April 19th, 2019, 11:46 amHere again you are expressing the feminist idea that men and females want the same thing. This is not so. Parties in a marriage are supposed to be complementary, not identical. As to the rest of what you say, avoiding that stuff is why you marry outside the West. You should research traditional marriage.Splicelo wrote: ↑April 19th, 2019, 8:06 am
Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure
The average man is not gonna wait till marriage to have sex with a girl who believes in purity. So why would she risk things with him when she can seek out a man who have the same beliefs as her and play it safe. For example mormon girls( don't mix them up with amish people) are some of the, if not the most othrodox girls in america, they are very feminine(and thought how to be a wife and please their husband as well as being a good mother). And most are virgins untill they marry, they marry young (and have big families) and many are housewife and stay home and take care of the kids while husband works. And they have more morals than a typical south east asian woman, mormon girls are all about family. Majority of them would not date you or me, they'd a mormon guy who would also be a virgin. And trust me a mormon girl is as traditional as they come and i think she'd be disgusted by you and how casual you see sex.
Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman. They have nothing in common. Dating a woman 5 years younger is fine but when you start talking dating a girl about 15 years younger than you, you are really asking for trouble, that aint going to work. 18 year old women are not interested in 30 year old dude. This is nothing to do with feminism.. But reality
Lets face it plenty middle age men on this forum cannot find a young woman in the west to marry so they go to asia or something other third world country to find some poverty stricken desperate poor girl who will handle the wrinkles and viagra needy man if it means she will get out of poverty. And that's not really love, she is on survival mode.
Marrying outside the west is not the answer necessarily. There are good women in the west, you just need to choose the right one. Not all women in the west are about feminism. Guys like you just think dating outside west is the answer when you just had poor taste in the type of women you choose to date in the west. You can find girls in south east asia or out in other third world countries that will double cross you just the same.
I went to the phillipines not to look for love but to work, love found me. You don't see many young men going to asia looking for love, it's usually older entitled bitter men who was a loser back home. And because a poor thai girl will take him on out of desperation all of a sudden he feels the need to bash all women back in his homeland thinking he got something special.
Yes i'm dating single mom, perhaps a bad move but i do love her, she is a middle class woman. Maybe i get hurt in the long run but it's a risk i'm willing to take. Just like how you took the risk to leave the country you know to go to a in a strange land(third world country) to find love not really knowing if the girl has the right intentions.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
No, normal people seek out spouses who complement themselves. I generally have facial and chest hair, but I don’t find those attributes particularly attractive in females.
Sure there is. The female brings youth, vitality, beauty and the ability to pair bond. The man brings resources, status and worldly wisdom.Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Cornfed wrote: ↑April 19th, 2019, 1:21 pmNo, normal people seek out spouses who complement themselves. I generally have facial and chest hair, but I don’t find those attributes particularly attractive in females.
Sure there is. The female brings youth, vitality, beauty and the ability to pair bond. The man brings resources, status and worldly wisdom.Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman.
Normal people? Lol most couples don't have 10-15 years age gap either. Most people seek a spouse closer to their age group. Say the lady might be the most 3-5 years younger than the man. That's most normal couples.
Dating a woman 15 years your junior is not complementary. Just robbing the cradle. You are saying women bring youth, beauty to the pair bond. Men bring resources and status. Yes women want to bring youth BUT to a young man who is the most 5 maybe 8 years older. Not 15 years older. Look around you most 18 year old women is just not interested in 30 something year old men. She looks for a man closer to her age whom she is attracted to, and who she can build a life with. Young women typically go and do what other girls her age is doing and hang out where other young girls and young guys hang, they are not gonna want to tag along some old geezer. Most 18 year old women are not ready to marry muchless marry some guy in his 30's. As i told you before just because you like young women doesn't mean you entitled to have one. Women in their early 20's usually see men in their 40's who is trying to date them as perverts unless this guy is exceptional in money and looks which most men are not. You are kidding yourself if you believe women are not at all interested in looks.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Pretty common historically. There is value in young non-slut wives. There is value in established husbands with proven professional competence and genetics. The husband essentially takes over from the girl’s father with sexual fringe benefits, hence the tradition of the father giving the bride away at the wedding. He is formally placing his child into the care of another mature, responsible man. Sometimes this arrangement requires an age gap. BTW, recent data would tend to suggest that young Western skanks are indeed f***ing older men.
As to your proposed marriage, it is like this analogy. Imagine a carton of milk on the supermarket shelf. It sits there for several days. Periodically shoppers passing by take a swig from it. When there is about an inch of spit-infused putrid milk left at the bottom, you take it up to the counter and pay full price.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Lol, age gaps of 10-15 years were never common... unless you were some king or Viking rapist.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... ationships
Unfortunately, white people don't age very well. Some 38 year old white guy looks every bit his age. On the other hand, the skin of black people (and some Asians) does not wrinkle and show age as much as individuals from other ethnic backgrounds. Damage to the skin caused by the harmful rays of the sun is the main reason why signs of aging occur. The kind of melanin found in Black folks is called eumelanin; the more we have of it, the more UV protection we get.
Because of melanin, our bodies naturally get UV protection that is approximately equivalent to 13% SPF. This kind of protection from sun damage also extends to the eyes, since melanin is also responsible for eye color. If you have black or brown eyes, you get better eye protection from the sun’s rays than those with blue, green or hazel eyes.
Another scientific reason black people have amazing and flawless skin is collagen. You must have heard of collagen as that thing that rich women get injected into their face to get rid of wrinkles. Well, we have plenty of it in our skins already. It is the most abundant protein in the human body and gives the skin its strength and elasticity. So a black guy in his late 30s should be able to easily pull some 20 somethings female no problem.. that is if he stays in shape and isn't mental ill.
This black guy is 47 year old and does 500 sit ups a day, 5 times a week.


This white guy is 44 and does the same.

Age 49

Age 47

Age 45 /43

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... ationships
Unfortunately, white people don't age very well. Some 38 year old white guy looks every bit his age. On the other hand, the skin of black people (and some Asians) does not wrinkle and show age as much as individuals from other ethnic backgrounds. Damage to the skin caused by the harmful rays of the sun is the main reason why signs of aging occur. The kind of melanin found in Black folks is called eumelanin; the more we have of it, the more UV protection we get.
Because of melanin, our bodies naturally get UV protection that is approximately equivalent to 13% SPF. This kind of protection from sun damage also extends to the eyes, since melanin is also responsible for eye color. If you have black or brown eyes, you get better eye protection from the sun’s rays than those with blue, green or hazel eyes.
Another scientific reason black people have amazing and flawless skin is collagen. You must have heard of collagen as that thing that rich women get injected into their face to get rid of wrinkles. Well, we have plenty of it in our skins already. It is the most abundant protein in the human body and gives the skin its strength and elasticity. So a black guy in his late 30s should be able to easily pull some 20 somethings female no problem.. that is if he stays in shape and isn't mental ill.
This black guy is 47 year old and does 500 sit ups a day, 5 times a week.


This white guy is 44 and does the same.

Age 49

Age 47

Age 45 /43

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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Splicelo,
Please read the thread I just posted on how much prior sex your gf has had determines the probability on whether she will divorce rape you.
Thanks.
Please read the thread I just posted on how much prior sex your gf has had determines the probability on whether she will divorce rape you.
Thanks.
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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Marcos
Thank you for your sound intellectual advice i really appreciate it.
You said you would want a girl young girl had you been significantly older. Of course you do like a lot of older men do but what i am saying is just because you would want one doesn't mean you are entitled to one or would get one. As most young women are NOT interested in significantly older men, that is just reality. They would usually see a older man who is 20 years older and takes interest in her as a pervert and a creep. Lots of women also would prefer marry a super rich guy, doesn't mean they will get one. I didn't say it's unnatural for a young woman to be with an older man, i said it's not normal, there is a big difference. It's not unnatural for a 40 year old to get a 15 year old girl pregnant but would it be normal? No!
Large age gaps usually do not work out. And i know a lot of older men like to convince themselves that is does because they want to have that fantasy, but the truth it doesn't. And very few young women are interested in older men at all. An 18 year old woman is at different place in her life than a guy in his 30's and 40's and she is going to be looking at guys from her age to early 20's.
You also said the age gap can be beneficial to both parties, well yes if you manage to find the odd woman who is interested in much older men. Typically men have shorter life span than women, and most women don't wanna be a widow before they reach 40. And A woman's sex drive peak in their 30's. How is that gonna work out for a much older man who can barely keep it stiff. You gonna have a dissatisfied frustrated wife. And if you speaking about natural. I mean really how is it natural to have to be taking pill to keep hard to bang your young wife(who is at her sexual peak)?
So of course most men prefer women younger than them, everyone already knows that and i never denied that. It's ingrained in men and everyone is suppose to be ok with that right. But it's also ingrained in a woman to want a man with wealth and power and a lot of men tend to get sore feelings and call the woman a gold digger for wanting what also come naturally to her. But women don't want an old wrinkled man with wealth and power and limp penis, she wants a man who is going to grow old with her and can keep up with her, not man whom she will have to change both his and their babies diapers(now she has become a care taker while she is still in her prime). A young woman is gonna want to have children, and when you are slowing down, tired and feeble, do you think it would be fair for her to be running around alone with the children. Plus she will most likely live to see her grandchildren and you won't. How would that be beneficial and fair to her?
Men don't have a time limit on when they can get a woman pregnant but still as men age their sperm count also goes down and it will also be more difficult to impregnate a woman. Men younger than 40 have a better chance of fathering a child than those older than 40. Meaning that same 40 plus year old woman who is having difficulty getting pregnant, a young 25 year old dude would probably get her pregnant quicker and have healthy babies. The quality of the sperm men produce seems to decline as they get older. A lot of time women who are over 40 who cannot get pregnant, it's not always she who is unable to get pregnant. Sometimes it's her lover who is also over 40 which is also making pregnancy impossible or unsafe. The risk of miscarriage was 27% more likely in women whose partners were over 40 years of age. And men's age affects much more than female fertility. As a man gets older, his likelihood of having a healthy child will also decline. So women face issues having babies once over 40 because she is getting close to menopause and men sperm count starts to decline.
Thank you for your sound intellectual advice i really appreciate it.
You speak a lot of wisdom regarding giving me advice, however i don't totally agree with you about the age gap thing.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 2:44 pmAs far as marrying a girl who is young goes... I married a girl who was young, she was 18 when we met. But I was young, too, so that helped. I would have still wanted a young girl had I been significantly older. I do not think this is an unnatural thing at all, nor do I think age gaps are a bad thing, even very large ones. I think they can be mutually beneficial and very enjoyable to both parties.Splicelo wrote: ↑April 19th, 2019, 12:32 pmYes i'm dating single mom, perhaps a bad move but i do love her, she is a middle class woman. Maybe i get hurt in the long run but it's a risk i'm willing to take. Just like how you took the risk to leave the country you know to go to a in a strange land(third world country) to find love not really knowing if the girl has the right intentions.
Most men prefer women who are younger than them. This is ingrained in our soul by DNA, willed by Mother Nature herself. We cannot help it. Most of us end up with women closer to our age, and a lot of it just boils down to pragmatism, and likelihood, and a lot of other factors. You have your wife who is one year older than you, late thirties, she does 'it' for you, you have that special spark... so go ahead and knock her up, put a ring on her finger even if its just a symbolical one and never mind the haters.
I in no way wanted to discourage you if it makes you happy. I was just... shocked at your choice of woman, given your circumstances and infinitely better available options. So it took me some time to wrap my mind around it, so to speak.![]()
You said you would want a girl young girl had you been significantly older. Of course you do like a lot of older men do but what i am saying is just because you would want one doesn't mean you are entitled to one or would get one. As most young women are NOT interested in significantly older men, that is just reality. They would usually see a older man who is 20 years older and takes interest in her as a pervert and a creep. Lots of women also would prefer marry a super rich guy, doesn't mean they will get one. I didn't say it's unnatural for a young woman to be with an older man, i said it's not normal, there is a big difference. It's not unnatural for a 40 year old to get a 15 year old girl pregnant but would it be normal? No!
Large age gaps usually do not work out. And i know a lot of older men like to convince themselves that is does because they want to have that fantasy, but the truth it doesn't. And very few young women are interested in older men at all. An 18 year old woman is at different place in her life than a guy in his 30's and 40's and she is going to be looking at guys from her age to early 20's.
You also said the age gap can be beneficial to both parties, well yes if you manage to find the odd woman who is interested in much older men. Typically men have shorter life span than women, and most women don't wanna be a widow before they reach 40. And A woman's sex drive peak in their 30's. How is that gonna work out for a much older man who can barely keep it stiff. You gonna have a dissatisfied frustrated wife. And if you speaking about natural. I mean really how is it natural to have to be taking pill to keep hard to bang your young wife(who is at her sexual peak)?
So of course most men prefer women younger than them, everyone already knows that and i never denied that. It's ingrained in men and everyone is suppose to be ok with that right. But it's also ingrained in a woman to want a man with wealth and power and a lot of men tend to get sore feelings and call the woman a gold digger for wanting what also come naturally to her. But women don't want an old wrinkled man with wealth and power and limp penis, she wants a man who is going to grow old with her and can keep up with her, not man whom she will have to change both his and their babies diapers(now she has become a care taker while she is still in her prime). A young woman is gonna want to have children, and when you are slowing down, tired and feeble, do you think it would be fair for her to be running around alone with the children. Plus she will most likely live to see her grandchildren and you won't. How would that be beneficial and fair to her?
Men don't have a time limit on when they can get a woman pregnant but still as men age their sperm count also goes down and it will also be more difficult to impregnate a woman. Men younger than 40 have a better chance of fathering a child than those older than 40. Meaning that same 40 plus year old woman who is having difficulty getting pregnant, a young 25 year old dude would probably get her pregnant quicker and have healthy babies. The quality of the sperm men produce seems to decline as they get older. A lot of time women who are over 40 who cannot get pregnant, it's not always she who is unable to get pregnant. Sometimes it's her lover who is also over 40 which is also making pregnancy impossible or unsafe. The risk of miscarriage was 27% more likely in women whose partners were over 40 years of age. And men's age affects much more than female fertility. As a man gets older, his likelihood of having a healthy child will also decline. So women face issues having babies once over 40 because she is getting close to menopause and men sperm count starts to decline.
Thanks for your honesty.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 2:44 pm
I in no way wanted to discourage you if it makes you happy. I was just... shocked at your choice of woman, given your circumstances and infinitely better available options. So it took me some time to wrap my mind around it, so to speak.![]()
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Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Ok sureredfeather wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 7:56 pmSplicelo,
Please read the thread I just posted on how much prior sex your gf has had determines the probability on whether she will divorce rape you.
Thanks.

Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
I don't agree that men necessarily age like fine wine. It depends on the person and how they take care of themselves, their genetics their financial situation and how successful they are etc. To make a broad generalization like that is trying to toot your own horn. A woman who takes care of herself can age well too. My girlfriend is very sexy and i thought so from the first time i saw her and in fact she looks a lot better than many girls in their 20's.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 10:35 pm
Thanks brother. What will be your next steps? Keep us updated. I do hope you can make this thing work and prove the haters wrong somehow, even though of course I have my concerns. Either way, good luck!![]()
Well there's a saying that says: "Men age like wine, and women age like milk" meaning a man who takes care himself well, often ages well and looks good for his age whereas the vast majority of women, like milk, will ultimately spoil and sour. Most men are lazy and unmotivated and, as a result, tend to age poorly. So by the time they reach middle age they are out of shape, fat, balding, their sex drive lowered, their bloodflow awful and the qualifties of their erections as limp as their wrist. A lot can be done with proper diet, maintaining physical activity and keeping yourself healthy in other ways. A woman at fifty usually is rotten. Her body is a war zone of wrinkles, stretch marks and saggy tits.Splicelo wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 8:32 pmhowever i don't totally agree with you about the age gap thing.
You said you would want a girl young girl had you been significantly older. Of course you do like a lot of older men do but what i am saying is just because you would want one doesn't mean you are entitled to one or would get one. As most young women are NOT interested in significantly older men, that is just reality. They would usually see a older man who is 20 years older and takes interest in her as a pervert and a creep. Lots of women also would prefer marry a super rich guy, doesn't mean they will get one. I didn't say it's unnatural for a young woman to be with an older man, i said it's not normal, there is a big difference. It's not unnatural for a 40 year old to get a 15 year old girl pregnant but would it be normal? No!
Large age gaps usually do not work out. And i know a lot of older men like to convince themselves that is does because they want to have that fantasy, but the truth it doesn't. And very few young women are interested in older men at all. An 18 year old woman is at different place in her life than a guy in his 30's and 40's and she is going to be looking at guys from her age to early 20's.
You also said the age gap can be beneficial to both parties, well yes if you manage to find the odd woman who is interested in much older men. Typically men have shorter life span than women, and most women don't wanna be a widow before they reach 40. And A woman's sex drive peak in their 30's. How is that gonna work out for a much older man who can barely keep it stiff. You gonna have a dissatisfied frustrated wife. And if you speaking about natural. I mean really how is it natural to have to be taking pill to keep hard to bang your young wife(who is at her sexual peak)?
So of course most men prefer women younger than them, everyone already knows that and i never denied that. It's ingrained in men and everyone is suppose to be ok with that right. But it's also ingrained in a woman to want a man with wealth and power and a lot of men tend to get sore feelings and call the woman a gold digger for wanting what also come naturally to her. But women don't want an old wrinkled man with wealth and power and limp penis, she wants a man who is going to grow old with her and can keep up with her, not man whom she will have to change both his and their babies diapers(now she has become a care taker while she is still in her prime). A young woman is gonna want to have children, and when you are slowing down, tired and feeble, do you think it would be fair for her to be running around alone with the children. Plus she will most likely live to see her grandchildren and you won't. How would that be beneficial and fair to her?
Men don't have a time limit on when they can get a woman pregnant but still as men age their sperm count also goes down and it will also be more difficult to impregnate a woman. Men younger than 40 have a better chance of fathering a child than those older than 40. Meaning that same 40 plus year old woman who is having difficulty getting pregnant, a young 25 year old dude would probably get her pregnant quicker and have healthy babies. The quality of the sperm men produce seems to decline as they get older. A lot of time women who are over 40 who cannot get pregnant, it's not always she who is unable to get pregnant. Sometimes it's her lover who is also over 40 which is also making pregnancy impossible or unsafe. The risk of miscarriage was 27% more likely in women whose partners were over 40 years of age. And men's age affects much more than female fertility. As a man gets older, his likelihood of having a healthy child will also decline. So women face issues having babies once over 40 because she is getting close to menopause and men sperm count starts to decline.
No healthy young man with options wants an older woman. If he has some form of mental health problem or some mommy issues, perhaps he has a thing for 'cougars' but even those are the cream of the crop of older women and not representative of the majority of middle aged women. On the other hand it is not at all unusual to find a younger woman lusting over a far older man, someone a big greying, but otherwise fit, someone she'd fantasy about calling 'daddy'. I think this is a more common fetish than people realise so definitely, a larger age gap should work in that sense. Like physically it makes more sense for a man and a woman to have an age gap in favor of the man, with him being (significantly) older.
Fertility is also a thing, as you mentioned. Now men do not have a biological clock, obviously, and can father children sometimes as late as eighty or beyond. There are cases of men in their nineties fathering healthy children, just a few years back some man in India had his last kid at age 94. Now, is this an ideal thing? Obviously not, because the kid would be fatherless by the time he's in middle school. But if a man has a kid at, say fifty or close to it, and the father is healthy in every way, the risk to the child being unhealthy is very small and the risk of the child losing their father early is also small. The father is also likely to be wealthier and have amassed greater financial security, giving the child or children better options in life and a higher quality education, nice vacations, good things and a fine inheritence.
There are some studies that suggest men who have children at a higher age will have a larger chance of producing a child with autism, which is regrettable. I do wonder, however, how many of the men in such a study had women who were also quite old. For example a man who has a kid at 50 will rightfully be classified an "older father", but what if his wife was 45, how much was the child's poor neurological health the fault of the man's aging sperm and how much blame could be (and should be!) put on the woman's overripe eggs? In women the correlation between maternal age and defective children is much more clear; any woman over age 35 has a significantly increased chance of producing a child with Down's Syndrome, which cannot be said of men; this is an exclusive issue to advanced maternal age.
A lot of the recent studies focusing on the age of older fathers and the health of their offspring is, I feel, a part of social conditioning on some degree. I would say, and I mean no offense here at all, that your insistance on defending small age gaps and your appreciation for women close to your age, is in itself evidence of successful social conditioning on your end. I mean fatherless children are a societal issue and they cost the government money, so for single mothers to remarry and have a new man step in and take part in raising another man's DNA is very useful to the government as it allows them to not pay much anymore on the child's upkeep. So much will be made of the importance of being close in age, and the nobility of 'saving' a single mother from loneliness and the neglect of her awful ex-partner... I am not at all a conspiracy theorist but I do see something insidious in this line of thinking and how it's so strongly promoted in today's world.
I think that a lot of you men in here like to fool yourself. Young women typically do not like men far older men. You like to think they do but you know they don't. There is not a big number of young girls fantasizing the to call an old wrinkled gray hair man "daddy", that is so cringy. Just look at couples all around you. They are around the same age. Yes young women lust after older men when they are freakin 15 year old lusting after the PE teacher. But that's just infatuation. Grown women typically like men their own age meaning their age or a man 5- 8 years older.
You said "I would say, and I mean no offense here at all, that your insistance on defending small age gaps and your appreciation for women close to your age, is in itself evidence of successful social conditioning on your end."
I am not defending my appreciation for women who are close to my age. All the other women i dated were younger than me, but not 18 year old. Seriously what business would i have with an 18 year old girl? That's kinda pervy. My girlfriend is the only woman i dated which is my age. My last girlfriend was 26. My current girlfriend is way way hotter than her and more mature. Just because a woman is younger doesn't make her automatically better partner for me.
I just see a lot of men over the age of 45 in this forum going on about how women young women lust after much older men. That is so not true hahaha

You are trying to convince yourself that young women fancy older men which they don't. I am still young, i'm in my 30's. To me my girlfriend is still young and she looker younger than her age. One of the reason women marry young is to start popping out babies. My girlfriend and i don't plan to have anymore than 1 child and even if she was not able to have another child. We would be ok with that. Yes i could get a younger woman, i'm tall and good looking, in college in america lots of girls liked me, and i'm not balding, i don't have a nerdy look, not graying and i get women hitting on me. But i happen to love my girlfriend.
My girlfriend is not a cougar hahaha. She is infact less than a year older, not quite a year. We are the same age.
When a man is still in his 30's he might be lucky and get girls in their early 20's. But once he start hitting over 45, he is no longer in his prime.
Focusing on health of older father is not social conditioning. There is actual countless amount of research done to back that up. As you age your sperm count goes down. I didn't say you are infertile but your body is not in it's prime like when you were in your 20's.
Women have more chance of having issues to have a child after age 40. But guess what that doesn't stop the odd woman have children over age 50.
So it goes both ways. A man sperm count starts to lower when when he reaches age 40. And guess what that doesn't stop the odd 80 year old man from being getting some girl pregnant.
The only thing i can understand about what you guys find weird is that i picked up a single mother. IT's odd but for some reason i like single moms. And that i can understand it's not your thing. People have their own thing which they like. So we i have issues which is i like single mom for some reason and you guys on here have issues that you are delusional that even though you are over 45 and about you think some 18 year old girl is gonna take you on.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
"Researchers analyzed over 3,000 couples for the study, and found that the larger the age gap between a couple, the more likely they are to get divorced. So it seems that a one-year age gap is the ideal difference in a romantic relationship. ... Men, however, prefer women in their early 20s, regardless of their own age.
According to a 2014 study from Emory University, couples with a one-year age difference have a mere three percent chance of getting divorced. When you bump the age gap up to five years, the chance of divorce goes up to 18 percent.
A 10-year difference is 39 percent, and a 20-year age gap has a jaw-dropping 95 percent chance of ending in divorce. Researchers analyzed over 3,000 couples for the study, and found that the larger the age gap between a couple, the more likely they are to get divorced."
Rest of the article.
https://www.elitedaily.com/p/whats-the- ... nk-9639561
According to a 2014 study from Emory University, couples with a one-year age difference have a mere three percent chance of getting divorced. When you bump the age gap up to five years, the chance of divorce goes up to 18 percent.
A 10-year difference is 39 percent, and a 20-year age gap has a jaw-dropping 95 percent chance of ending in divorce. Researchers analyzed over 3,000 couples for the study, and found that the larger the age gap between a couple, the more likely they are to get divorced."
Rest of the article.
https://www.elitedaily.com/p/whats-the- ... nk-9639561
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
Women Prefer Men Their Own Age And Men Only Like 20-Year-Olds: New Study https://stylecaster.com/women-prefer-me ... new-study/
So point is older men no matter their age will always like young women but those young women are dating young men.
https://articles.aplus.com/a/age-women- ... ation=true
So point is older men no matter their age will always like young women but those young women are dating young men.
https://articles.aplus.com/a/age-women- ... ation=true
Last edited by Splicelo on April 20th, 2019, 11:56 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Re: Anyone else also into single moms?
MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 11:55 pmSo do you still plan on waiting for the divorce to finalize before having the kid or will you proceed? Because if you wait for the annulment you likely never will have that child, and while that may seem 'okay' to you right now, it's something you may regret severely in 10 or 20 years down the line when you are older.Splicelo wrote: ↑April 20th, 2019, 11:35 pmYou are trying to convince yourself that young women fancy older men which they don't. I am still young, i'm in my 30's. To me my girlfriend is still young and she looker younger than her age. One of the reason women marry young is to start popping out babies. My girlfriend and i don't plan to have anymore than 1 child and even if she was not able to have another child. We would be ok with that.
I don't doubt you could get a woman, even a much younger one. There are many men on this very forum, in fact, who could. The men here are not a bunch of bitter old men, nor are they all ugly or broke or whatever. I myself am about ten years younger then you and considered exceptionally good looking by the standards of the country from which I hail. So yeah, I am writing the things I write, not from the perspective of a "failed bitter old man who cannot get a woman", but as a young man who easily could. Instead, I married young and had a family and a 'bunch of kids' as you say. I still very much see the appeal of younger women. I doubt I will feel much different twenty years down the line.
Which is all that really matters, in the end. And what you want is a very unique and small niche with little competition as few other men with your options in life want a single woman.
I think the negative responses you got in this thread are not because you of you dating a single woman, but because you asked in the title: "Anyone else into single moms?" which caused people to be a bit defensive and weirded out, as few if any men here are into single women and some almost consider entertainng the very notion of it an insult to their manhood.![]()
Lmao Hilarious regarding you telling me i can't get a woman. Some men in here are quite bitter and that's the truth. They might not be broke (since they have enough to travel to get laid or meet some girl online) but they certainly are bitter and delusional. Well you married young congrats to you. My woman makes me happy and i find her to be very sexy. If the men in here are ugly i wouldn't know but men who are half way good looking can find quality women right there in the west and most likely would not be rejected left and right creating bitter loser men, who have to travel across the globe for a poor desperate girl from third world country who is willing to settle for a loser so she can have a better life. The notion that all western women are evil feminist is laughable and ridiculous. If you keep getting rejected by women in the west obviously something is wrong with you because all western women are not the same in mentality. But i can bet you i. This forum most are older men in their 40's and up . Younger men usually don't have the finances to go overseas to to go look for love or sex or whatever. Younger men who are confident and not losers are most likely dating young western women and don't have to go to asia to find a woman who looks like a maid.
And young men would not be fantacizing and making up false claims about young women being attracted to older men, so no offense i have my doubt about you been as young as you claim.
A lot older men also like much younger females and as a result is going to south east asia to have sex with children and not get in trouble. And everyone is raving about how much more likely you'll be to find a good wife in asia, you're also more likely to find yourself with hiv in south east asia as well, these countries are packed with hiv. I heard there is a new super hiv strain in the philippines which is resistant to medication.
Also...
It is ok if i got negative responses, those are welcomed. People have their own opinions.
Understandable. i agree most men don't like single moms. But for the last few post we been going back and forth with your delusion that young women like much older men and how beneficial is it for both parties and that is not true.[b wrote:Anyone else into single moms?[/b]" which caused people to be a bit defensive and weirded out, as few if any men here are into single women and some almost consider entertainng the very notion of it an insult to their manhood.![]()
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