Of course not. We are all on the same side here. But suppose I take Dianne and go to the middle of Indiana. I doubt we'd get any dirty stares because:yick wrote: ↑February 19th, 2020, 11:11 pmHas anyone here called into question the age difference between you and Dianne? I don't think anyone has - I don't think anyone would judge you two but people do judge - jealous bitches in the main - Marcos makes a point that most men would be thinking good on him but most would think 'lucky bastard I wish it was me' but how it would spew out is 'pervert, dirty old man blah blah...' because most men when they reach middle age can't attract women in their twenties and if another middle aged man can - they're 'cheating the system' even if that man is rich, famous and handsome. Men are no better than women when it comes to feminine, jealous, bitch like behaviour.Winston wrote: ↑February 19th, 2020, 10:59 pmBut don't forget guys that the 16 year age difference between me and Dianne, while it may be a bit big to some, is not considered extreme enough to warrant dirty stares from people. It's about borderline between being acceptable and unacceptable. Right? Plus when you are asian, white people treat you like you're a different species from a different universe, so they don't pay that much attention to you. Many white people even think all Asians look the same and cannot tell them apart. lol
Plus there is a double standard in America where Asians can get away with more things that Whites cannot. For example, a Chinese restaurant in America can hire an all Chinese staff, and no one will complain or charge them with discrimination. People simply assume that Chinese prefer working with other Chinese people, or that the Chinese restaurant may be family run. Or they don't want a language barrier in the US. Or they don't care because they look at Chinese culture with reverence and awe, as though the Chinese were wiser and more evolved so they should not be questioned, only respected, etc. You see how that goes?
I'm sure many of you have seen an all Chinese staff in Chinese restaurants and wondered the same thing right? Like how do they get away with that? Obviously because Asian immigrants aren't held to the same standards as Whites?
Also, Mr S told me that your own race tends to judge you more harshly for being different than other races for some reason. That seems to be true.
So, if you were in America with someone in their early twenties - especially if she was a blonde, white girl - people would hate on your arse in a BIG way - they probably would if she was Asian or if she was black - people generally hate it when you successfully cheat the system - our place in society as middle-aged men is to befriend a single mother with three kids to four different fathersWhich is what a lot of single middle aged men do...
1. 16 year age difference is not big enough to warrant dirty stares. It's borderline, even though it's more than what the average age difference is supposed to be in America.
2. We both look asian and whites tend to ignore asians as though they belong in another world. Whites are more critical of their own race, as Mr S said. Also modern whites are taught that it's not politically correct to judge anyone of another race by the liberal media, so they are encouraged to avoid it lest they be called a racist, which is the worst thing you can be called in modern America.
3. Dianne and I have a natural synergetic look together, kind of like the look that Mark Davis and Anna Davis have, if you notice from their photos. Thus we do not look mismatched. Some couples, even with an age difference, do not look mismatched if they have that synergetic look like they naturally blend together.
4. Dianne just turned 30 so she no longer looks like a kid anyway, even though she still looks great and still gets attention from guys and is favorited by the customers at her restaurant for her charm and personality and looks. She gets big tips and personal gifts from customers at her restaurant whereas the other female waitresses do not. So she does have a unique charming likable vibe that the average Filipina does not have. In fact, when I'm with Dianne everyone treats me better than when I'm alone, so her natural likability is unlikely to get any dirty stares, even in Indiana. I also sort of have an innocent look too. So people don't assume the worst about me when they see me.
Btw guys. Here's another example for you to show you how Asians are treated differently. Suppose Jackie Chan were to date a young 20 year old Asian girl. Do you think the western media would condemn him for it? I doubt it. They probably would either ignore it or make a lighthearted tongue in cheek joke about it. Because the media doesn't want to appear racist (which is the worst thing you can be in America now) by criticizing Asian or Black celebrities. And the Asia media probably wouldn't condemn him either since in Asia the media and culture is pro-male and does not vilify such things. Plus in Asian culture older men get more respect too. So Asian media would unlikely condemn older Asian men dating younger women either. Right? Do you see what I mean?