Better to look good than to be good

[flowerthief00]

Anyone who thinks women care about anything in a man more than his looks check this vid out. Jaw-dropping. A woman would rather talk with a heinous criminal self-admitting multiple convictions than with an average law-abiding man...as long as he is good-looking.

The question that comes to mind is would we see the same results if genders were reversed -- that is, would men rather talk with a good-looking female criminal than an average law-abiding female? My guess is probably.

[Cornfed]

Anyone who thinks women care about anything in a man more than his looks check this vid out. Jaw-dropping. A woman would rather talk with a heinous criminal self-admitting multiple convictions than with an average law-abiding man...as long as he is good-looking.

The heinous criminal thing is probably part of the attraction rather than incidental to it.

[Neo]

Good people, as in moral people, are repulsed by evil and evil people. Usually a good person will go out of the way to avoid them.

However, there are evil, immoral people who admire evil traits in other people, and they think that evil is strength and power, and that those who abide by rules of civility are weak or boring.

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person. Those are the only choices.

[Cornfed]

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person.

Western females have all sided with evil for some time.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Good people, as in moral people, are repulsed by evil and evil people. Usually a good person will go out of the way to avoid them.

However, there are evil, immoral people who admire evil traits in other people, and they think that evil is strength and power, and that those who abide by rules of civility are weak or boring.

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person. Those are the only choices.

I 100% disagree! I think good people take concrete actions against evil. People who avoid evil and evildoers, are cowards, not good people. This is where Christianity has mislead people into passivity and turning the other cheek. Nonsense because evil must be confronted, engaged, and beaten, but the West has lost that value.

There is a famous quote by Edmund Burke. He said, "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing!"

[Neo]

Good people, as in moral people, are repulsed by evil and evil people. Usually a good person will go out of the way to avoid them.

However, there are evil, immoral people who admire evil traits in other people, and they think that evil is strength and power, and that those who abide by rules of civility are weak or boring.

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person. Those are the only choices.

I 100% disagree! I think good people take concrete actions against evil. People who avoid evil and evildoers, are cowards, not good people. This is where Christianity has mislead people into passivity and turning the other cheek. Nonsense because evil must be confronted, engaged, and beaten, but the West has lost that value.

There is a famous quote by Edmund Burke. He said, "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing!"

This is not talking about some evil on a revolutionary war scale or politics. This is talking about interpersonal evil between people. Most people haven't even got a clue what evil is anyway, unless they have some good memory of the Bible and the proverbs.

God deals with evil people, as He is the only one who can do evil for justice (because He is the Creator and Lord, is above temptation, and is the only one in a true position to judge interpersonal matters). Anyone else doing evil to a person is doing injustice to another person. Therefore it is best left to God, because it is not for man to do injustice to another man.

If there is some sociopathic woman, she is best avoided. She is evil, and she loves messing with people and causing trouble. There is not much that a good man can do to her and still be a good man in the end. If a man tries to take her down, in the end if he's not very careful, he may wind up becoming just as evil as she is.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

This is not talking about some evil on a revolutionary war scale or politics. This is talking about interpersonal evil between people. Most people haven't even got a clue what evil is anyway, unless they have some good memory of the Bible and the proverbs.

But neither am I! I am talking about the bystander not intervening where a bully is tormenting a vulnerable person. I am talking about not calling the cops and serving as a witness to a crime against someone. I am talking about not standing up to wrongdoing when and where it takes place on an interpersonal level.

God deals with evil people, as He is the only one who can do evil for justice (because He is the Creator and Lord, is above temptation, and is the only one in a true position to judge interpersonal matters). Anyone else doing evil to a person is doing injustice to another person. Therefore it is best left to God, because it is not for man to do injustice to another man.

Again, this is where Christianity has gone off the rails. God helps those who take ACTION, not those who simply pray and hope for change. When someone has their boot on your neck and demanding your money, there is nothing God will do for you unless you take decisive action to help yourself. Your thinking is one of the greatest dangers of Christianity!

If there is some sociopathic woman, she is best avoided. She is evil, and she loves messing with people and causing trouble. There is not much that a good man can do to her and still be a good man in the end. If a man tries to take her down, in the end if he's not very careful, he may wind up becoming just as evil as she is.

To do that and allow a menace to continue to harm other people is the TRUE evil coupled with a dollop of cowardice. A good man protects. A good man enlists assistance for his cause. A good man takes ACTION instead of simply avoiding someone who is dangerous. Christianity has made America and the West into a culture of wimps, cowards, and victims. Had Christians not beaten back the Islamic Turks, you would be praying to Allah right now. Had Christians and Jews not beaten back Hitler, most of Germany would be speaking German and Jews, Gypsies, Blacks, Slavs, and Swarthy Europeans would not now exist in Europe.

Be a Christian all you want, but don't even try to say that being a good man means turning a blind eye to evil and walking away!

[Neo]

This is not talking about some evil on a revolutionary war scale or politics. This is talking about interpersonal evil between people. Most people haven't even got a clue what evil is anyway, unless they have some good memory of the Bible and the proverbs.

But neither am I! I am talking about the bystander not intervening where a bully is tormenting a vulnerable person. I am talking about not calling the cops and serving as a witness to a crime against someone. I am talking about not standing up to wrongdoing when and where it takes place on an interpersonal level.

God deals with evil people, as He is the only one who can do evil for justice (because He is the Creator and Lord, is above temptation, and is the only one in a true position to judge interpersonal matters). Anyone else doing evil to a person is doing injustice to another person. Therefore it is best left to God, because it is not for man to do injustice to another man.

Again, this is where Christianity has gone off the rails. God helps those who take ACTION, not those who simply pray and hope for change. When someone has their boot on your neck and demanding your money, there is nothing God will do for you unless you take decisive action to help yourself. Your thinking is one of the greatest dangers of Christianity!

If there is some sociopathic woman, she is best avoided. She is evil, and she loves messing with people and causing trouble. There is not much that a good man can do to her and still be a good man in the end. If a man tries to take her down, in the end if he's not very careful, he may wind up becoming just as evil as she is.

To do that and allow a menace to continue to harm other people is the TRUE evil coupled with a dollop of cowardice. A good man protects. A good man enlists assistance for his cause. A good man takes ACTION instead of simply avoiding someone who is dangerous. Christianity has made America and the West into a culture of wimps, cowards, and victims. Had Christians not beaten back the Islamic Turks, you would be praying to Allah right now. Had Christians and Jews not beaten back Hitler, most of Germany would be speaking German and Jews, Gypsies, Blacks, Slavs, and Swarthy Europeans would not now exist in Europe.

Be a Christian all you want, but don't even try to say that being a good man means turning a blind eye to evil and walking away!

This life is spiritual warfare (and a test to see who we truly are before God). The only way to get through it and still be a good person is to trust in God and remain peaceful. As I said, this is not about international conflicts, so this has nothing to do with fighting against Islam.

A bully who is harming another person is only proving to God that he (the bully) is evil. The victim will be rewarded by God in the end, and the bully will be destroyed if he hasn't repented early enough. Same as the person who is intimidated to give money. The extortioner only proves before God that he loves money and violence more than God.

As for a sociopathic woman, she is also proving to God that she is not worthy of eternal life. There is nothing that will stop a sociopath until they see the grave anyway.

A person can try to wage interpersonal war against such a person, but that may destroy him. And that is part of the evil goal. If a person lowers himself to such a level, he risks turning evil, and he's then taken the wrong side in this spiritual war.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

A bully who is harming another person is only proving to God that he (the bully) is evil. The victim will be rewarded by God in the end, and the bully will be destroyed if he hasn't repented early enough.

So if someone was raping your female family member, you would stand by and permit it to continue because you are required to remain peaceful and your female family member will be rewarded by god for being a rape victim anyway? You also would be saving yourself from being destroyed so that is yet another reason to let your female family member continue being savagely raped. Do you know how you sound?

There is nothing that will stop a sociopath until they see the grave anyway.

Oh, so the magically transformative power of god does not apply to sociopaths so there is no use doing anything to prevent them from harming other people! Why can't your magical god work his magic on sociopaths? You said god can do ANYTHING!!!!

A person can try to wage interpersonal war against such a person, but that may destroy him. And that is part of the evil goal. If a person lowers himself to such a level, he risks turning evil, and he's then taken the wrong side in this spiritual war.

So again, you prefer to let your female family member get raped to death because you don't have to remain peaceful for god and you want to prevent yourself from turning evil? Newsflash: You already are evil if you do not intervene to stop harm to your loved ones for fear of running afoul of fake Christianity!

Dude, your religious fervor has destroyed your capacity to think. You make no sense and you are simply trying to appear the virtuous Christian and you're are coming off as FAKE as your religion. Stop posturing for your religion and just admit that being good requires concerted ACTION against evil, not simply running away like a Christian so as to remain peaceful and in good standing with god. If there is a god, you would be sent straight to HELL for turning away from evils simply to selfishly save yourself.

[Neo]

Dude, your religious fervor has destroyed your capacity to think. You make no sense and you are simply trying to appear the virtuous Christian and you're are coming off as FAKE as your religion. Stop posturing for your religion and just admit that being good requires concerted ACTION against evil, not simply running away like a Christian so as to remain peaceful and in good standing with god. If there is a god, you would be sent straight to HELL for turning away from evils simply to selfishly save yourself.

Have it your way. I've never even spoken about your personality or even judged you. Neither have I condemned you to hell. I don't worry about what you have to say. Such talk doesn't even make me angry.

Besides that, all I say is, it is better to avoid forming personal relationships with wicked people. Meaning both men and women should not be attracted to evil partners but rather repulsed by them.

If a person has a problem with God and Christianity, then that is not my problem, but I welcome such insults as those too result in glory.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Dude, your religious fervor has destroyed your capacity to think. You make no sense and you are simply trying to appear the virtuous Christian and you're are coming off as FAKE as your religion. Stop posturing for your religion and just admit that being good requires concerted ACTION against evil, not simply running away like a Christian so as to remain peaceful and in good standing with god. If there is a god, you would be sent straight to HELL for turning away from evils simply to selfishly save yourself.

Have it your way. I've never even spoken about your personality or even judged you. Neither have I condemned you to hell. I don't worry about what you have to say. Such talk doesn't even make me angry.

I did not say that to be insulting, I wrote that to point out flaws in your logic caused by your religious indoctrination. The goal is not to make you angry. The goal was to appeal to logic and reason which you are not exhibiting by endless virtue signaling.

[Neo]

Dude, your religious fervor has destroyed your capacity to think. You make no sense and you are simply trying to appear the virtuous Christian and you're are coming off as FAKE as your religion. Stop posturing for your religion and just admit that being good requires concerted ACTION against evil, not simply running away like a Christian so as to remain peaceful and in good standing with god. If there is a god, you would be sent straight to HELL for turning away from evils simply to selfishly save yourself.

Have it your way. I've never even spoken about your personality or even judged you. Neither have I condemned you to hell. I don't worry about what you have to say. Such talk doesn't even make me angry.

I did not say that to be insulting, I wrote that to point out flaws in your logic caused by your religious indoctrination. The goal is not to make you angry. The goal was to appeal to logic and reason which your are not exhibiting by endless virtue signaling.

Some people hate God and Christianity and will go to the ends of the earth to make Christians look evil. Some people will try to entangle Christians with their own words, to make them look evil or twisted, even when all their words were righteous and upright.

I am not here to discuss rape or Hitler or any of that.

All this is about is, with respect to interpersonal relationships, it is better to avoid forming relationships with evil people, and good people usually will not knowingly get involved with sociopaths because they are repulsed by such behavior. Then it becomes something about rape, which is not what I'm trying to discuss.

Topic of the thread is virtue: BETTER TO LOOK GOOD THAN TO BE GOOD. This is a question of virtue.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

All this is about is, with respect to interpersonal relationships....... Then it becomes something about rape, which is not what I'm trying to discuss.

Of course you are not trying to discuss it, because it clashes which what you have been saying which is to be a "good" person:

-Avoid evil people and situations at all costs.
-Remain peaceful at all costs (even though someone might not be peaceful with you or a loved one).
-Engaging with an evil person will involve possibly ensnaring you in evil which will lower your esteem with "Jesus."
-Rape, pillaging and international Islamic plunder does not count as interpersonal relations so you choose to not think about those in terms of how a "good" person (ie a true "Christian" as you arbitrarily define it) should react because it 100% exposes your mode of thought as empty virtue signaling.

So of course you are not trying to discuss it! You are doing what Christians do, run away when the debate gets too tough or when real life does not comport with what the Bible and the preacher require.

[Neo]

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person.

Western females have all sided with evil for some time.

There are a few that I find likable.

[Cornfed]

A person must fully decide who he or she is. A good person or an evil person.

Western females have all sided with evil for some time.

There are a few that a find likable.

It is the circumstances they find themselves in that make them pretend to be likeable. Trust me, they are most likely evil.