Is it acceptable to hit a woman?

[Zambales]

Pick one option......

[yick]

No - I don't hit women, smaller men nor kids - all of that is a hiding to nothing.

In fact, if I can walk away from a physical altercation then I will - if I have to then I can - whoever it is.

Now, as for hitting women, the only time I would is if they were attacking my wife/mum/daughter and they would get a right hander.

And there is no doubt some women deserve a smack in the mouth - some of them are f***ing evil, but personally - it would take a serious
situation for me to do it.

NB: Hitting them for having some daft view I don't agree with? No way, anyone can think what they want about whatever - I couldn't give a monkeys uncle if she is a nazi-surfer to lesbian feminist - life's too f***ing short.

[Kradmelder]

I have never. I had one nutter GF that assaulted me. Threw things at me, tried to kick me in the balls, grabbed some weapon (can't remember what). before she knew what happened I had her pinned, and her arse plonked in a chair. I told her don't get up and try that again or you may get hurt. But all the fight had gone out of hair by quickly she had been subdued and disarmed. After she told me you weren't even breathing hard or upset. She never tried that again. I think she was just trying to provoke me to smack her so she could lay a charge. She was like that. She later charged me with about everything. the charge sheet was 35 pages long. Everything from abuse of her daughters, assault, fraud, racism, anti-semitism, you name it. The magistrate just threw it out as he knew what was going on. he said don't worry, it is ike it never existed.

Another woman tried that fake assault on me. The cop came and I said look at the size of me and of her. If I hit her would she be standing? To give you an idea, look at the bike in my avatar. the seat height is 910 mm, and I sit on it with feet on the ground and knees a bit bent if you know a ktm 990 it is a very bg bike The cop just laughed and said what do i want? I said i want her out of my house. He took my number and said don't worry it is not a case, he just wants to call me tomorrow to make a time to come remove her stuff. He will take her away now. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

Although logically I would agree some women deserve a proper smack on the side of the head when they assault men, my upbringing prevents me from doing it.

I have become a believer in the legal system. They told me they get so many false rape, assault and restraining order applications against men that they can see what is what. I used to be shocked. Like how can tis woman I support be so back stabbing as to go make a false case behind my back and blatantly lie? The one who tried the molesting her daughters shit, the biological father became a mate and he told the girls tell teh truth. they admitted I never did anything but the mother told them to say i did. Thankfully the father was a decent man and the legal system saw through it. I just refused to give her a car so she can run off. There are some really bad women out there so you okes must watch out. if you are decent though, the legal system will work for you, if you have the bucks for a lawyer.

[Zambales]

One of my first girlfriends was a tempestuous creature and used to lash out and me on occasions until it got to the point where I had enough and retaliated. It soon stopped.

Another gf who I met some years later actually punched me in the face when I had a tooth abscess. I didn't retaliate. I just walked out the house. Later, she tried to apologize but my mind was made up. She was dumped and I haven't set eyes on that nasty bitch since that day.

[droid]

Pretty much in self defense. Normally just raising your voice works well enough if you are being disrespected.

This guy exposes this lady's double standard lol, the original video was a bit longer i think:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9fTasi-N6o[/youtube]

[Cornfed]

Obviously if God had not wanted us to hit females, he wouldn’t have made them smaller, weaker and stupider than us. BTW, none of the options in the poll are really suitable. What about discipline?

[Zambales]

Obviously if God had not wanted us to hit females, he wouldn’t have made them smaller, weaker and stupider than us. BTW, none of the options in the poll are really suitable. What about discipline?

I thought option 1 would have covered everything in your particular case, Cornfed!

Seriously though, I did think of discipline. Unfortunately it was just after I posted the poll.

[Adama]

Samson slew 1000 men but he didn't smack that nag Delilah when she kept bugging him. The option is to escape. Of course when a woman provokes you it should not come as a surprise. You knew she was always disrespectful. You just decided to stick around hoping that she wouldn't ever go that far. But you always knew she was out of her mind.

The same women who will disrespect you verbally will keep on disrespecting you when she becomes comfortable around you.

And why would a smaller person provoke a bigger person? Because they don't value their own lives. You'd either be doing them a favor, or you'd destroy yourself when the police get involved or you lose your job.

[Adama]

One of my first girlfriends was a tempestuous creature and used to lash out and me on occasions until it got to the point where I had enough and retaliated. It soon stopped.

Another gf who I met some years later actually punched me in the face when I had a tooth abscess. I didn't retaliate. I just walked out the house. Later, she tried to apologize but my mind was made up. She was dumped and I haven't set eyes on that nasty bitch since that day.

You guys like to hang on for the long haul. I've had women raise their voice and start yelling at me. At that point I was done with them. I never stuck around to let anyone hit me. I certainly wouldn't stay around any woman who hit me even once. So it would never come to the point of retaliation for me. It would be about escape before terrible things happen.

Don't you know? Once you open a door then comes the flood and you can't close it back? Just like when you kiss someone for the first time. After that the kisses just keep coming at almost any time. Violence is similar, in that once the person disrespects you to that degree even once, you already know they completely lack respect for you (and themselves and their own lives because abuse CAN spark worse retaliation; these people seriously want to die and want to hurt everyone they can on the way out).

[Kradmelder]

One of my first girlfriends was a tempestuous creature and used to lash out and me on occasions until it got to the point where I had enough and retaliated. It soon stopped.

Another gf who I met some years later actually punched me in the face when I had a tooth abscess. I didn't retaliate. I just walked out the house. Later, she tried to apologize but my mind was made up. She was dumped and I haven't set eyes on that nasty bitch since that day.

You guys like to hang on for the long haul. I've had women raise their voice and start yelling at me. At that point I was done with them. I never stuck around to let anyone hit me. I certainly wouldn't stay around any woman who hit me even once. So it would never come to the point of retaliation for me. It would be about escape before terrible things happen.

Don't you know? Once you open a door then comes the flood and you can't close it back? Just like when you kiss someone for the first time. After that the kisses just keep coming at almost any time. Violence is similar, in that once the person disrespects you to that degree even once, you already know they completely lack respect for you (and themselves and their own lives because abuse CAN spark worse retaliation; these people seriously want to die and want to hurt everyone they can on the way out).

Adama, you are exactly right. That nutter showed signs of disrespect and instability before she tried to assault me. I should of dumped her but by then she was already in my house. They are good at hiding their nuture but the signs were there. many red flags were there. I just didn't see it as in those days I was still thinking with my dick and she was a very good pomp

I can spot the nutters easy now and stay away. They can drop their panties in front of me and I will walk by. Nothing but trouble there,

[Zambales]

One of my first girlfriends was a tempestuous creature and used to lash out and me on occasions until it got to the point where I had enough and retaliated. It soon stopped.

Another gf who I met some years later actually punched me in the face when I had a tooth abscess. I didn't retaliate. I just walked out the house. Later, she tried to apologize but my mind was made up. She was dumped and I haven't set eyes on that nasty bitch since that day.

You guys like to hang on for the long haul. I've had women raise their voice and start yelling at me. At that point I was done with them. I never stuck around to let anyone hit me. I certainly wouldn't stay around any woman who hit me even once. So it would never come to the point of retaliation for me. It would be about escape before terrible things happen.

Don't you know? Once you open a door then comes the flood and you can't close it back? Just like when you kiss someone for the first time. After that the kisses just keep coming at almost any time. Violence is similar, in that once the person disrespects you to that degree even once, you already know they completely lack respect for you (and themselves and their own lives because abuse CAN spark worse retaliation; these people seriously want to die and want to hurt everyone they can on the way out).

I was a laid-back teenager at the time and I stupidly tolerated it until I retaliated. In hindsight I should have left her the first time she hit me, but the experience did make me a quite a ruthless person when it came to dumping women in future relationships.

[IraqVet2003]

I believe NO ONE regardless of gender should abuse or hit anyone. However, most of American society and the legal system doesn't believe any man should ever hit a woman, I think men should be able to defend themselves against violent and aggressive women who attack them or who make unwanted sexual advances towards guys. Also, I'm sick and tired of the hypocrisy of any woman can hit a man (even in the groin) without provocation, not in self-defense, or threat. But most of the time they either don't go to jail or receive a light sentence. But yet if a guy in America were to strike back at a woman in self-defense, he could be brought up on false abuse/assault charges and get arrested by the police.

[josephty1]

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[chanta76]

If a women hits you i think you have a right to defend and maybe hit back.

[Kradmelder]

Do you know what 1000 battered women have in common? They never do what they are blerry well told