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Qmusic DJ Mattie Valk (31) became a father of twins on March 22. Now, a few weeks later, he discovers that he is not the biological father.
Mattie and Kirsten, who were more than twelve years together, hoped since the beginning of their relationship that they would have a baby. But they learned they could not get one.
Kirsten obviously had different plans. And some different 8====D ~ ~ ~ on the side, too.
“Booty is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of booty in another dimension." -- Joe Rogan
It is normal for men to bond closely with babies, just as it is normal for men to enjoy playing with kittens and puppies, but it is also normal for men to be distant from young children and leave that to women. A man who follows the latter path avoids the stigma of cuckolding, because he never makes any pretense of being the biological father. If the woman he is with chooses to have a baby, that's her business. If baby making causes her to go out of action sexually, he can use a whore or masturbate until she's recovered, or her can dump her. If the baby is his, he's on the hook for child support, otherwise not.
Being distant like this sounds irresponsible to modern ears, because the gynocracy had brain washed everyone into believing that children will grow up broken without a father figure. Not true, regardless of what those junk sociology studies show. What is really missing for young men today is male mentors and all male groups, part-time starting around age 8 and full-time around age 13. That is, boys need to leave their families at those ages, whether the family is headed by a single mother or by dual parents, and join something like the cub and boy scouts, part-time and full-time respectively, except a lot "edgier" (open discussions of sex, visits to brothels when the boys turn 16, etc). Maybe the biological father will be the boys mentor, maybe someone unrelated.
There is something emasculating, in my opinion, in those images pushed by the gynocracy of men pushing around baby carriages and getting excited by their woman's pregnancy, etc. (Though again, nothing abnormal about men bonding with babies, as long as it's their choice and not forced on them.) If this DJ guy had been distant from the whole pregnancy thing, treated it as if the woman had decided to take up raising pet goats or whatever, something to roll his eyes at but not his problem as long as she's putting out sexually and otherwise making him happy, then he wouldn't be looking (and probably feeling) like such a smacked ass right now.
