Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
1) Those with mental illness and addictions obviously cannot control their minds and hence their free will is impaired. We all know this but New Agers never factor it in. If you can't control your mind, obviously then it's not truly free.
You said yourself. Mental illnesses, but even physical ailments I would say, usually impair our free will. It doesn't mean it's not there, or it cannot be restored if and when those problems are solved.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
2) Even if you have no mental illness, it's hard to control your mind. Try sitting and meditating for more than 10 min. Most people can't do it, even if they want to, because the mind is hard to control. Even Buddhists note this. What does that tell you?
I have never trained myself on meditation, although something recently happened, which has given a strong turn to my life and may lead me to revisit that. It surely takes knowledge, discipline and resilience, to learn to meditate and make it a cornerstone of their lives. I wouldn't say, though, that only those who develop a superior command of their minds and bodies through meditation can exercise free will. Free will is innate. Everything we do has a component or randomness, or body/brain chemistry and free will, regardless of our experience in spiritual growth.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
3) Our body sometimes makes involuntary movements we didn't choose. For example, when you bite your tongue or your hand drops your phone, you don't choose to do those things. Your body has a mind of its own sometimes. We've all experienced this. We do not have full control over our body.
Man, of course. From proprioception to skin memory, the body has its own "intelligence", which sometimes kicks in when our conscious mind is less vigilant, e.g. when we sleep or when we are in a coma. You're introducing arguments that are pretty obvious and do not negate free will.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
4) What about those with ADHD like me? Or autism or bipolar or OCD or schizophrenia? Those are obvious impairments to free will and mental control. Why can't we choose not to have them? What about intrusive thoughts in OCD and rumination? Why can't we choose not to have them?
Again, mental illnesses of any kind does not negate free will.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
5) The star of the TV series Airwolf, Jan Michael Vincent, became an alcoholic for the rest of his life after the show. He was never able to recover, even with the best professional help. Where was his free will to choose not to be an alcoholic? Also see the Jack Lemmon movie "Days of Wine and Roses" and tell me if he and his wife had any free will?
Never heard of Jan Michael Vincent, but there are countless other cases of actors and actresses who cannot capitalise on their fame and end up in bad conditions. Many of them are former child actors, who are catapulted in a world they cannot fully understand and who may mark them for their subsequent years. Different stories for each and every one of them, perhaps. Certainly, their free will pushed them to action against their well being, let alone continuing professional success.
Winston, free will is not defined as the ability to make the right decision. It would take an englightened mind to trace an entire future made of right decision, or even to know what next decision is the best one. Free will is, simply, our ability to decide, the amount of agency we have and exercise on our own lives, regardless of their outcomes.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
6) If you listen to interviews with serial killers, they always say that some evil force or urge took over them that they couldn't control. They never say that they killed people out of free will. What does that tell you? Where is their free will?
If they're on trial, pretending to be, or have been, mentally incapacitated around the time of their crimes, is a textbook way to reduce their sentences. In reality, who knows, for each mentally ill serial killer, I guess most of them are perfectly aware of what they're doing, when they're doing it.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
7) The man who shot John Lennon said that voices kept telling him he had to do it. He fought with them for over a year but they told him it was his destiny and couldn't be avoided. Read his testimony and you will see. Where was his free will? If he had free will he would have just ignored the voices and not obeyed them.
No idea here.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm

Everyone has heard the saying that you can only be yourself and cannot be something you are not. That's true. Try being something you're not and see what happens. Obviously, if you cannot be something you are not, then you are not free to choose to be something you are not. Hence your free will is restricted of course. It's a no brainer.
The way I see it, that sentence means that free will is always modulated by one's own personality and experiential buildup. In other words, we are the product of what we have been, what we have seen and gone through, and whom we met, every day of our lives from the day we were born.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
9) I definitely don't feel like I have total control over my mind. I often feel like my mind is my enemy and contains inner demons that I can't control. It also blocks me a lot too and thwarts my decisions so I cannot always do what I want or know is best for me. Where is my free will? Pray tell.
That's a different thing. I, in fact most of us here, think that you have settled on a bed full of bad habits and lazy routines. The fact that you are still asking yourself what you will do next doesn't mean you can't do that. It simply means you need to decide.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
10) Most people seem to be on auto pilot. They go through the same routine everyday and do and say the same things everyday, like a bot almost. They never have any new ideas or theories or thoughts. They seem to run on some kind of script or program. They seem like they're in some kind of trance too. I'm sure you agree. That doesn't seem very "free" to me.
That's, unfortunately, happens to most men once they enter a life routine that will accompany them right until they get divorced, retired, or die. Most men like to settle in a nest of certainties and call that "their normal life". That, until something tragic or traumatic happens, which shakes them out of that bed. That's, I guess, their chance to reassess and change a few things.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
11) We've all experienced moments where we did something we normally wouldn't do and then wondered afterward "Why did I do that? Normally I would have never done that." It's as if something took over our mind for a moment. Very freaky. What does that tell you?
Again, free will at work! We are free to decide. Sometimes our decisions are enslaved to our impulses and transient moods. Sometimes we have the opportunity to let the dust settle and let our decision be driven by logic. Either way, we are still talking about free will.
Winston wrote: ↑March 30th, 2025, 3:41 pm
12) Did you know that even the Bible never mentions free will anywhere? Not even once? You can look it up in any Bible search engine or Google.
An entire book of the Indian Vedas, the Bhagavad Gita, is dedicated to free will and how it blends with the path (destiny) the Gods reserved for us.