Are men too self-concerned/paranoid about the race they are?

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

I see men asking "what country where Asian men are accepted" or "Place Black men are liked" and it comes off very strange. No country has people that are zero percent racist. I think men are overly concerned and focused or paranoid about there race. Every woman is not concerned with your race. If you are a husband material guy she will want you. If you are rejected by a girl it's not always because you're Black or Asian or White. If you come across those racist women they were not worth your time anyways. Everything is not Black and White (Asian, Indian whatever). I notice a lot of superficial wants going on here. Less focusing on a woman's heart and inside mainly what race she is what she looks like etc. Am I the only one to notice this?

You clearly don't know anything about how East Asian males are portrayed as badly as possible in the anglosphere and this is done on purpose. I don't really want to waste any time explaining this again to somebody like you who clearly is just on here attention whoring and trying to convince us that American women are good when we all know all races of American women are complete and utter crap.

In short, look up Sessue Hayakawa and read the first two paragraphs about how him being the first sex symbol of holllywood led to jealousy and desxualization/villainization of East Asian males in anglosphere media and continues to this day. Just take the Red Dawn 2012 move as an example.
Also look up the film called The Slanted Screen and look up some videos of Yul Kwon talking about East Asian American male issues.

I know who Yul Kwon is I have seen him speak on Asian American male issues. I will look up Sessue in a minute. I never said people don't ostracize races. I'm Black there is nothing you can say about Asians being negatively portrayed that is worse than my race. African peoples are the most ostracized people and you know that. You can call me names all you want to. That other guy already went in on you so there is no need for me to. You can't even see a question you disagree with without getting an attitude and throwing juvenile insults then you wonder why women pass you up. I know all about a race being portrayed bad and I know how Black women are portrayed just look at this website yet I know every rejection and or negative thing that happens to people of color is not because of race. Yes there are people who are racist yet there are more people who could careless about your race. But the thing is not to live your life based off of how society views your race.

One thing I have noticed is Asians never stand up for themselves as a whole when people publicly ostracize them. If you take it people will not respect you and will continue to do so. I'm specifically talking about the few men here who I have noticed are paranoid that everyone is out to get them because of their race and/or they feel self conscious about their race when it comes to women and in general.

I have always stood up for myself. Clearly you didn't read about how I've been in numerous street fights, in middle and high school, and I won all of them in that I did a lot more damage to the racists/bullies or f***ed the up real bad and got myself out of there. I was almost suspended in middle school for that, but that guy threw the first punch. They always throw the first punch.

The problem is that you just make more enemies when that happens. In middle school, some of the girls watching just got even more angry and shouted chink gook jap slanty eyes etc. etc. at me and I was ostracized for the rest of my time at that school. And in high school I was always ostracized.

Fighting often times just makes them hate you more. It's a lose no matter what situation. Fight back and they hate you and the girls hate you even more. Don't fight back and continue to be bullied. But at least by beating the shit out of some of those bullies, people started fearing me, as most did not know I had been training martial arts seriously since age 7, and they thought that just because they are taller, they can beat me. They forget that I have a lower center of gravity and my strong/long legs and lower height give me the perfect angle/position to hammer the shit out of their knee/side of their knee and f**k them up for life. One of those kids was limping for a whole week and he was too ashamed to tell the school, especially because he got his a** beat by a kid a head shorter than him. He also threw the first punch and kept yelling that he wanted to kill my "chink a**" so I was entitled to kill him through self defense. That's probably why he never told because there was one neutral witness while the others were on his side and he could have been charged seriously not just suspension.

Also East Asians are divided. Both because of history, language, and also because the west has done its best to polarize South Korea + Japan vs. China and South Korea also hates Japan and vice versa. Also Asian women are brainwashed to hate Asian males, so there is absolutely no unity whatsoever in the Asian community, especially because most Asian females hate Asian males. Even many Asian females from Asia want to suck white dick because they have been brainwashed.

Divide and conquer is what the west has always used.

When I said Asians don't stick up for themselves I didn't mean individually I meant as a whole. For example the minute a cop has killed a Black person due to a hate crime or if a racist ad about Blacks is aired Black people will take over the media etc until change happens that is why you never see the media pulling that crap on us like they use to and like how they do with Asians. As divided Black North Americans are we will come together when "they" publicly disrespect us. To outsiders looking in it seems like Asians don't notice when the media etc dehumanize them because they never do anything about it. The only reason people of color don't have a coloured bathroom today is because we had to stand up for ourselves as a whole. I believe Asians will receive sooo much more respect and be seen in a new light if they make a stand.

[lone_yakuza]

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[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

I tired of people saying that race does not matter when it does. Most American women are racist for sure. A lot of them want the super duper white guy with money if they can't get him they will stay in their own race.This seems to be the standard especially in the U.S.The problem is is that every one (at least i can talk about the Americas) wants to be eurocentric. I see this same stuff in Brazil where the media is straight up white washed. Then you have mestiços here who in the U.S. wouldn't even be mistaken for white calling them selves white and will argue that they are white it is weird. I see the same paterns here that i saw in the U.S. with a lot of Afro-brazilian mens dateing options(all though it is no where as bad as black american men) the White brazilian women i see them with are either fat or white trash but when they are fine or even average you don't even see this women any where near black men,You won't see them any where with in walking distance of a favela.Now i do see some black men here with fine women but they are usually black women or mullatto women.I saw this black dude from são paulo with the white brazilian chick big as a house and this guy was good looking, i was like damb dude you could have found a black brasilian chick way better than that.

When i was in the States i used to go out with a white friend of mine and there was an Asian chick and a black chick on my white friends dick and trying to diss me saying shit like i probably live at home with my mom and some other shit trying to sterotype me. They where cleary doing that because i was black.There where times i would be talking to some hispanic chick and she will make up a lie about why she doesn't want a relationship and blah blah blah then i see them latter with some white dude.

I used to go to a Brazilian church in the states to meet some of the immigrants in my area.One time i came up and a group of Brazilian White chicks and they where talking to a Brazilian dude that i knew i said whats up to the guy and when i rolled up all this chicks just up and split leaving the guy there.Shit like this just makes you say hmmmmmmm.

It seem as if when women are at their best they think dateing a black dude is beneath them. And i can't speak for Asian me too much but i can see the same bullshit because i have a good friend who is Asian and has these problems with women flaken on him for now reason.The dude had all his shit in order and good looking.

Where i am now i can say it is not as bad as the States though.But even down here when i am trying to get money out the ATM there will be White Brazilians looking over their shoulder at me while they get their money.Then when they find out i am Amerian their attitude changes it is weird. I am going off topic now ...

I know racism exist I am saying I believe a few bad experiences makes some men so deeply wounded and traumatized that they are overly conscious of the race they are and the race and gender everyone else is. They can no longer see people as people but groups and every negative interaction with someone they say their race is the reason or if someone does something negative to them they blame the person's race and or gender as the reason they were disrespected.

It's both because of race+ gender and culture and upbringing. I have met nice caucasian guys. Problem is it is like 1/1000000, especially if you are talking my generation. And even then, they will probably have the racist and exoticized view of Asians and think that Asian women belong to the white male or something yet get pissed off it a white girl gets with an Asian guy. Basically the entire world wants to cockblock East Asian males and the saddest part is that even East Asian females want to help them cockblock. This is then why completely undesirable and below-my-league white women (such as fat c**ts) think they can get with me because they think all East Asian males in America are desperate. it's a f***ing insult.

And of course most stupid East Asian males are too busy bickering amongst themselves or Japanese vs. Chinese vs. Korean, too stupid to see that the real enemy is the west and anglosaxons and the Americans they LOOOVE so much.

Black people are way smarter than most Asians because at least most blacks have unity and pride.

It's a shame how some Whites view Asians. It's very disrespectful and dehumanizing. Yes their is division within Asians and I would love to see Asian people have pride in who they are. To outsiders looking in it seems like Asian people don't have pride in being Asian. Forget the degrees forget the success just alone being Asian it seems there is no pride. I believe it's time Asian Americans as a whole redefine how they are viewed in the western media.

[lone_yakuza]

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[ChosenTraveler]

I tired of people saying that race does not matter when it does. Most American women are racist for sure. A lot of them want the super duper white guy with money if they can't get him they will stay in their own race.This seems to be the standard especially in the U.S.The problem is is that every one (at least i can talk about the Americas) wants to be eurocentric. I see this same stuff in Brazil where the media is straight up white washed. Then you have mestiços here who in the U.S. wouldn't even be mistaken for white calling them selves white and will argue that they are white it is weird. I see the same paterns here that i saw in the U.S. with a lot of Afro-brazilian mens dateing options(all though it is no where as bad as black american men) the White brazilian women i see them with are either fat or white trash but when they are fine or even average you don't even see this women any where near black men,You won't see them any where with in walking distance of a favela.Now i do see some black men here with fine women but they are usually black women or mullatto women.I saw this black dude from são paulo with the white brazilian chick big as a house and this guy was good looking, i was like damb dude you could have found a black brasilian chick way better than that.

When i was in the States i used to go out with a white friend of mine and there was an Asian chick and a black chick on my white friends dick and trying to diss me saying shit like i probably live at home with my mom and some other shit trying to sterotype me. They where cleary doing that because i was black.There where times i would be talking to some hispanic chick and she will make up a lie about why she doesn't want a relationship and blah blah blah then i see them latter with some white dude.

I used to go to a Brazilian church in the states to meet some of the immigrants in my area.One time i came up and a group of Brazilian White chicks and they where talking to a Brazilian dude that i knew i said whats up to the guy and when i rolled up all this chicks just up and split leaving the guy there.Shit like this just makes you say hmmmmmmm.

It seem as if when women are at their best they think dateing a black dude is beneath them. And i can't speak for Asian me too much but i can see the same bullshit because i have a good friend who is Asian and has these problems with women flaken on him for now reason.The dude had all his shit in order and good looking.

Where i am now i can say it is not as bad as the States though.But even down here when i am trying to get money out the ATM there will be White Brazilians looking over their shoulder at me while they get their money.Then when they find out i am Amerian their attitude changes it is weird. I am going off topic now ...

I know racism exist I am saying I believe a few bad experiences makes some men so deeply wounded and traumatized that they are overly conscious of the race they are and the race and gender everyone else is. They can no longer see people as people but groups and every negative interaction with someone they say their race is the reason or if someone does something negative to them they blame the person's race and or gender as the reason they were disrespected.

It's both because of race+ gender and culture and upbringing. I have met nice caucasian guys. Problem is it is like 1/1000000, especially if you are talking my generation. And even then, they will probably have the racist and exoticized view of Asians and think that Asian women belong to the white male or something yet get pissed off it a white girl gets with an Asian guy. Basically the entire world wants to cockblock East Asian males and the saddest part is that even East Asian females want to help them cockblock. This is then why completely undesirable and below-my-league white women (such as fat c**ts) think they can get with me because they think all East Asian males in America are desperate. it's a f***ing insult.

And of course most stupid East Asian males are too busy bickering amongst themselves or Japanese vs. Chinese vs. Korean, too stupid to see that the real enemy is the west and anglosaxons and the Americans they LOOOVE so much.

Black people are way smarter than most Asians because at least most blacks have unity and pride.

It's a shame how some Whites view Asians. It's very disrespectful and dehumanizing. Yes their is division within Asians and I would love to see Asian people have pride in who they are. To outsiders looking in it seems like Asian people don't have pride in being Asian. Forget the degrees forget the success just alone being Asian it seems there is no pride. I believe it's time Asian Americans as a whole redefine how they are viewed in the western media.

Well, it's in their nature. Whites are by nature vile, bigoted and lack little understanding of those not like them. In a way, you have to admire it, given their origin and their lack of authentic history. This is why its imperative that people of color that are intelligent and astute seek life abroad for Western society has been,and will continue to be a sham.

[terminator]

No country has people that are zero percent racist.

Such strange logic.

Better to be in a country which is 2 % racist than the one which is 98% racist. Don't you think so?

I think men are overly concerned and focused or paranoid about there race. Every woman is not concerned with your race.

In the US, most ( 50%+) will be. In many other countries only some 2-3% will care. Those are the countries we want to go to.

+1 - we could all live in space on our own?

[LocDout]

I see men asking "what country where Asian men are accepted" or "Place Black men are liked" and it comes off very strange. No country has people that are zero percent racist. I think men are overly concerned and focused or paranoid about there race. Every woman is not concerned with your race. If you are a husband material guy she will want you. If you are rejected by a girl it's not always because you're Black or Asian or White. If you come across those racist women they were not worth your time anyways. Everything is not Black and White (Asian, Indian whatever). I notice a lot of superficial wants going on here. Less focusing on a woman's heart and inside mainly what race she is what she looks like etc. Am I the only one to notice this?

You clearly don't know anything about how East Asian males are portrayed as badly as possible in the anglosphere and this is done on purpose. I don't really want to waste any time explaining this again to somebody like you who clearly is just on here attention whoring and trying to convince us that American women are good when we all know all races of American women are complete and utter crap.

In short, look up Sessue Hayakawa and read the first two paragraphs about how him being the first sex symbol of holllywood led to jealousy and desxualization/villainization of East Asian males in anglosphere media and continues to this day. Just take the Red Dawn 2012 move as an example.
Also look up the film called The Slanted Screen and look up some videos of Yul Kwon talking about East Asian American male issues.

I know who Yul Kwon is I have seen him speak on Asian American male issues. I will look up Sessue in a minute. I never said people don't ostracize races. I'm Black there is nothing you can say about Asians being negatively portrayed that is worse than my race. African peoples are the most ostracized people and you know that. You can call me names all you want to. That other guy already went in on you so there is no need for me to. You can't even see a question you disagree with without getting an attitude and throwing juvenile insults then you wonder why women pass you up. I know all about a race being portrayed bad and I know how Black women are portrayed just look at this website yet I know every rejection and or negative thing that happens to people of color is not because of race. Yes there are people who are racist yet there are more people who could careless about your race. But the thing is not to live your life based off of how society views your race.

One thing I have noticed is Asians never stand up for themselves as a whole when people publicly ostracize them. If you take it people will not respect you and will continue to do so. I'm specifically talking about the few men here who I have noticed are paranoid that everyone is out to get them because of their race and/or they feel self conscious about their race when it comes to women and in general.

I have always stood up for myself. Clearly you didn't read about how I've been in numerous street fights, in middle and high school, and I won all of them in that I did a lot more damage to the racists/bullies or f***ed the up real bad and got myself out of there. I was almost suspended in middle school for that, but that guy threw the first punch. They always throw the first punch.

The problem is that you just make more enemies when that happens. In middle school, some of the girls watching just got even more angry and shouted chink gook jap slanty eyes etc. etc. at me and I was ostracized for the rest of my time at that school. And in high school I was always ostracized.

Fighting often times just makes them hate you more. It's a lose no matter what situation. Fight back and they hate you and the girls hate you even more. Don't fight back and continue to be bullied. But at least by beating the shit out of some of those bullies, people started fearing me, as most did not know I had been training martial arts seriously since age 7, and they thought that just because they are taller, they can beat me. They forget that I have a lower center of gravity and my strong/long legs and lower height give me the perfect angle/position to hammer the shit out of their knee/side of their knee and f**k them up for life. One of those kids was limping for a whole week and he was too ashamed to tell the school, especially because he got his a** beat by a kid a head shorter than him. He also threw the first punch and kept yelling that he wanted to kill my "chink a**" so I was entitled to kill him through self defense. That's probably why he never told because there was one neutral witness while the others were on his side and he could have been charged seriously not just suspension.

Also East Asians are divided. Both because of history, language, and also because the west has done its best to polarize South Korea + Japan vs. China and South Korea also hates Japan and vice versa. Also Asian women are brainwashed to hate Asian males, so there is absolutely no unity whatsoever in the Asian community, especially because most Asian females hate Asian males. Even many Asian females from Asia want to suck white dick because they have been brainwashed.

Divide and conquer is what the west has always used.

When I said Asians don't stick up for themselves I didn't mean individually I meant as a whole. For example the minute a cop has killed a Black person due to a hate crime or if a racist ad about Blacks is aired Black people will take over the media etc until change happens that is why you never see the media pulling that crap on us like they use to and like how they do with Asians. As divided Black North Americans are we will come together when "they" publicly disrespect us. To outsiders looking in it seems like Asians don't notice when the media etc dehumanize them because they never do anything about it. The only reason people of color don't have a coloured bathroom today is because we had to stand up for ourselves as a whole. I believe Asians will receive sooo much more respect and be seen in a new light if they make a stand.

I'm not saying Blacks shouldn't stick up for themselves, but yous have been sticking up for yourselves for the past 100 years now, and where has that gotten you? american, british, canadian, and australian cops still target, beat, and bully Blacks. Few things on the surface have changed, but white society at its core is still racist, especially at the centre of power. I am sure Blacks are still being framed for crimes they never comited, just as they were 100yrs ago. Blacks are still kept out of important positions, and marginalised. Token Black guys like Colin Powell do not count. Even Obama doesn't count, because he hasn't done anything for the Black community. He has just continued what his racist predecesors have been doing. Also, when Blacks stick up for themselves, the white media can always spin the story any way they want, making Blacks look like savages, when in fact, all the Blacks were doing was defending themselves. It's like how they do north Korea. They get south Korea to provoke the north, and then the news leaves out important facts, and makes it look like the north is the lunatic. In some circumstances, sticking up for yourself will help, ie, prison, or even high school, but in the real world, white oligarchs will be racist to you regardless of what you do, their power depends on it. In order for white oligarchs to control the american, canadian, british populations, they must exploit racism, because it keeps the people fighting against each other, as opposed to starting a revolution against the real enemy, the ruling class elite. Likewise, although Asians don't stand up for themselves, they are still given very powerful positions. One of the top guys at google is Asian. Co-founder of Yahoo is Asian. In theory, Asians don't get harased as much by u.s. cops. I've even seen Asians in these racist little white fraternities and sororities. Racist rumours are usually more powerful than actual experience. Racist rumours coming from the top down that Blacks are lazy, violent, or on welfare usually trumps the experience of seeing or hearing a Black man speak up for themselves. The triumphant response is usually that "Blacks have a chip on their shoulder", or that something must be wrong with the Black guy for sticking up for himself. I've even seen lots of whites turn the tables and label themselves as victims of what they perceive to be Black racism. 0bama is a good example. Here we have a classic uncle tom who will defend the white establishment til the very end, yet they are able to turn him into a "marxist", and racist who is out to get white people. This marxist signed a free trade agreement with the radically right wing south Korean regime. If he was a real marxist, why wouldnt he try to help the north Korean economy instead of imposing genocidal sanctions on it? Some people will completely ignore reality, and just accept this. There is plenty of deceptive propaganda that white and jewish people can come up with that have nothing to do with reality, but people are weak minded and tend to believe them.