Mapping redheads: which country has the most?

[Mr S]

I personally find natural gingers attractive and I really like the extreme pale natural white skin look, it's unique IMO, although I know Western society generally frowns upon the look and wants everyone to look tan to be attractive.

http://www.theguardian.com/politics/201 ... s-the-most

[Jester]

Good Lord how did you end up in SEA?

[Mr S]

Well, I'm not obsessed with them just saying I find them attractive. I find lot's of different kinds of women attractive.

I got obsessed with going back to Thailand ever since I first encountered the girls there back in my Navy days. Plus I really dislike cold weather so tropical was more of an interest to me.

However, knowing what I know now about SE Asians I probably would have braved the cold to be able to find higher quality white women in Eastern Europe/Russia if I could turn back time.

Although SE Asia is great for dating and fullfilling ones desires to be with multiple exotic type women who are thin and attractive, the culture extremes, language and high concentrations of low quality uneducated or lower socio-economic makes it difficult and time consuming to find long term GF's or wife material. Unfortunately most guys aren't able or capable to take the time to find the decent women and get sucked into being with someone who just has the looks but no brains, or has a crazy family, mental/emotional issues, etc.

If you are a Westerner you have to take serious time and wait it out to find higher quality Asians, if you don't most of the time you'll be sorry. Too many guys rush into a relationship with their internet GF or holiday GF and think she is going to save his celibate life in whichever lonely Western country he comes from, without realizing that SE Asians have an entirely different viewpoint of reality from a Westerners and true love and all that may not be the REAL reason why she wants to get with you...

I've learned my lesson here in SE Asia, my situation is tolerable but I have been able to control most of the negative backlash as much as possible, unlike many other guys who have run into serious problems with SE Asian girls.

I figure I still have time to explore in my mid to late 40's and onward other countries and women to see if Asians truly do make better GF's and wives if you find the right one or if other girls from maybe Eastern Europe/Russia or Latin America are a better fit for me.

Rabid materialism is a huge turnoff for me. A major majority of Asian cultures are obsessed with status and image so finding women that aren't obsessed with money and social class is kinda hard to find, especially with a language barrier. PI is probably one of the easier Asian countries to find women who aren't as status obsessed, the problem is most are lower quality or not desirable long term partners IMO. You have to lower you standards a bit or be willing to wait a LONG time to find a girl that will be a proper fit for you.

I'm not in any rush anyways as I'm not obsessed with NEEDING a female in my life. I could be alone for the rest of my life without a woman, personally I don't care anymore. Most are pain in the assess anyways and only a small percentage are tolerable to be with on a regular or long term basis so I figure I'm not missing much of anything not finding my supposed "soulmate" ha ha.

[Taco]

I personally find natural gingers attractive and I really like the extreme pale natural white skin look, it's unique IMO, although I know Western society generally frowns upon the look and wants everyone to look tan to be attractive.

http://www.theguardian.com/politics/201 ... s-the-most

This red hair map is pretty cool. I always thought red hair came from Scandinavia not the British Isles. The fact there's a red hair population in Russia too means some people from the British Isles must have moved there at one time. Maybe that's why so many countries in ancient times took Irish women as slaves, they liked red heads.