POWERFUL DEEP moment on Interracial Dating

[Contrarian Expatriate]

I understand that people have different views.But i prefer to see black people getting along with each other than to be at odds with each other and interracial dating(i have no problem with it i have dated other races of women with out shitting on my race) is not going to solve black peoples problems.Only a racist would be against that.Yeah i am calling you a racist i am not going to use self-hatred anymore because you are in the same group with white racist. Do you listen to your self talk.Oh and you don`t want to come to my neighborhood unless you want to die since most of it consist of my family but if you are in the Barra area of Salvador feel free to PM me. I need to grow up? why ? because i am not saying all death to black people and black women world wide?Sounds like you are the one with mental issues you racist dick head. It is people like you who are not needed among blacks any where because it is your type of thinking is why there is no progress. Do you listen to yourself? You pretty much just said in a post that once a black man is in a certain income bracket that Black women are not worthy of a relationship with this man where they can raise a black family in a middle or upper class environment with better opportunities only white women or other women are worthy of such things. If that is not f***ing racist then i don`t know what the f**k is. Look you can add me to you ignore list also by the way.

I'm still waiting for that PM with your Brazilian address, or did you have a moment of clarity and good sense?

What people like you don't realize is the more you toss the term "racist" around, the less people care AT ALL. Call me a racist x10 for all I care, it will not stop me from stating the obvious.

Finally, you have got to be the most hypocritical idiot on the internet to say in one sentence how much you long for black people to get along, then make a death threat to a black person just afterward. You make a lot of sense!

BTW, my firm does a lot of it's buying in Bahia so I can be in Salvador sooner than you might think. Let me give you some advice. Be very sure who you are dealing with in life lest you overestimate your ability to manage the consequences. You'll see what I mean.......

[E_Irizarry]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.

You two are my favorite posters among a few others for example ladislav, Robert77, zboy1, Dark_Sol, Hero of Men, DatingAbroadSince1989, DJ IV Money, etc.

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".

I didn't want to intervene because I feel that men should work their differences out without the killing. Maybe a fist fight but no razors no knives no guns for sure!

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

But I don't won't it to become worse than this, because this I don't like anti-feminist/anti-NWO vs. anti-feminist/anti-NWO guys that contribute a lot of good s.hit to this board.

I hope that this will not fall on deaf ears nor blind eyes.

[zboy1]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.

You two are my favorite posters among a few others for example ladislav, Robert77, zboy1, Dark_Sol, Hero of Men, DatingAbroadSince1989, DJ IV Money, etc.

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".

I didn't want to intervene because I feel that men should work their differences out without the killing. Maybe a fist fight but no razors no knives no guns for sure!

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

But I don't won't it to become worse than this, because this I don't like anti-feminist/anti-NWO vs. anti-feminist/anti-NWO guys that contribute a lot of good s.hit to this board.

I hope that this will not fall on deaf ears nor blind eyes.

Thanks E! I couldn't have said it better myself! I like Contrarian and Skate, so I hope they diffuse the situation. There's not point in arguing with each other when there's bigger fish to fry.

[Jester]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.....

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".....

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

+1

Here on HA, the Whites diss the Jews...
The Asians diss the Whites...
and the Blacks diss... other Blacks.

Not really my business. But I will note that it is so easy to say things online that one would never say in real life. The medium seems to be "flammable". So "handle with care".

[Contrarian Expatriate]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.....

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".....

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

+1

Here on HA, the Whites diss the Jews...
The Asians diss the Whites...
and the Blacks diss... other Blacks.

I'm not so sure. Winston and others can be quite critical of fellow Asians. I, and some others, have been critical of whites on occasion, and black people get no free pass from me by any stretch.

The flammable nature of what you see is the classic class resentment that exists in Black America. Since conventional wisdom deems that to be authentically black, one must be underprivileged, working class or below, and virulently ethnocentric, there is a tendency for those blacks to deeply resent other blacks who are:

Upwardly mobile vs stagnant
Freethinking vs provincialistic
Open to dating other ethnicities vs open to blacks dating blacks only
Oriented toward educational attainment vs Obsessed with "Don't be trying to act white"
Comfortable with mainstream society vs hostile to most things mainstream (Thereputic Alienation)
Guided by intellect vs guided by emotions or dogmatic black churches

Another thing you are seeing is that some black Americans deeply resent anything that is different from their "perceived" norm for blacks and they react accordingly. There is a variety of theories for this but most revolve around fear of being left behind, fear of the unfamiliar, and out and out class envy.

So whenever you hear blacks castigating other blacks with accusations of "self-hatred, not really black, wanna be white, racist against blacks, etc" understand the context of it as the result of differing black cultures, blacks in the underclass culture vs blacks who relate to mainstream (or global culture). Believe it or not, the underclass culture is far more accepted in black America so the SkateboardStephens of the world actually believe they are justified in their rants and raves. It's rather amusing for me to engage.

[E_Irizarry]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.....

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".....

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

+1

Here on HA, the Whites diss the Jews...
The Asians diss the Whites...
and the Blacks diss... other Blacks.

I'm not so sure. Winston and others can be quite critical of fellow Asians. I, and some others, have been critical of whites on occasion, and black people get no free pass from me by any stretch.

The flammable nature of what you see is the classic class resentment that exists in Black America. Since conventional wisdom deems that to be authentically black, one must be underprivileged, working class or below, and virulently ethnocentric, there is a tendency for those blacks to deeply resent other blacks who are:

Upwardly mobile vs stagnant
Freethinking vs provincialistic
Open to dating other ethnicities vs open to blacks dating blacks only
Oriented toward educational attainment vs Obsessed with "Don't be trying to act white"
Comfortable with mainstream society vs hostile to most things mainstream (Thereputic Alienation)
Guided by intellect vs guided by emotions or dogmatic black churches

Another thing you are seeing is that some black Americans deeply resent anything that is different from their "perceived" norm for blacks and they react accordingly. There is a variety of theories for this but most revolve around fear of being left behind, fear of the unfamiliar, and out and out class envy.

So whenever you hear blacks castigating other blacks with accusations of "self-hatred, not really black, wanna be white, racist against blacks, etc" understand the context of it as the result of differing black cultures, blacks in the underclass culture vs blacks who relate to mainstream (or global culture). Believe it or not, the underclass culture is far more accepted in black America so the SkateboardStephens of the world actually believe they are justified in their rants and raves. It's rather amusing for me to engage.

See. That's much better. I rather have you outarticulate Stephen then to get physical like Olivia Newton-John on him and vice-versa from him being in the subject of the sentence in lieu of being the indirect object. Now I shant read my inbox for the day....

[skateboardstephen]

I don't know that this is fluff, but this s.hit has to stop between SkateboardStephen and ContrarianExpatriate.

I'm seeing threats. I don't like this a bit.....

I watched this long enough, and now it's becoming a little "stupid".....

So can you guys please diffuse this situation? I would be cool if you guys were to put each other on each other's ignore lists; I'm fine with that.

+1

Here on HA, the Whites diss the Jews...
The Asians diss the Whites...
and the Blacks diss... other Blacks.

I'm not so sure. Winston and others can be quite critical of fellow Asians. I, and some others, have been critical of whites on occasion, and black people get no free pass from me by any stretch.

The flammable nature of what you see is the classic class resentment that exists in Black America. Since conventional wisdom deems that to be authentically black, one must be underprivileged, working class or below, and virulently ethnocentric, there is a tendency for those blacks to deeply resent other blacks who are:

Upwardly mobile vs stagnant
Freethinking vs provincialistic
Open to dating other ethnicities vs open to blacks dating blacks only
Oriented toward educational attainment vs Obsessed with "Don't be trying to act white"
Comfortable with mainstream society vs hostile to most things mainstream (Thereputic Alienation)
Guided by intellect vs guided by emotions or dogmatic black churches

Another thing you are seeing is that some black Americans deeply resent anything that is different from their "perceived" norm for blacks and they react accordingly. There is a variety of theories for this but most revolve around fear of being left behind, fear of the unfamiliar, and out and out class envy.

So whenever you hear blacks castigating other blacks with accusations of "self-hatred, not really black, wanna be white, racist against blacks, etc" understand the context of it as the result of differing black cultures, blacks in the underclass culture vs blacks who relate to mainstream (or global culture). Believe it or not, the underclass culture is far more accepted in black America so the SkateboardStephens of the world actually believe they are justified in their rants and raves. It's rather amusing for me to engage.

I don`t even live in America.Why is that when you talk about black people everyone thinks that black America is the world when there are actually more blacks in the world who are not American and most blacks outside of Africa are in Latin America so stop using black America to say you have black people everywhere figured out first off.

Second off i grew up in middle class suburban environment i am not a product of the ghetto, so i don`t know where you get all these claims of me being against education and upward mobility this nonsense.I am not religious nor is there such a thing as a black church where i live..So stop with the straw man arguments and how many times do i have to post that i have dated nothing but non-black women in the U.S. i my opinion on other races of women in America and how they treat black men in general comes from my personal experience dealing with them and even living under the same roof with them and i am saying they are no better.American women are American women period.

When you call another black person a nigger like a white person would say it i am going to call you out on it period.Stop using all these negative stereotypes to justify your obvious discourse towards your own people.I which you would come to my community and share your views on black women in America(which have not a damn thing to do with foreign black women) and call some body here a nigger to their face i would love to see how that goes over.

[Contrarian Expatriate]

Second off i grew up in middle class suburban environment i am not a product of the ghetto, so i don`t know where you get all these claims of me being against education and upward mobility this nonsense.

Your writing style - specifically the grammar and diction - gives you away, not to mention the telltale vitriol. For instance, "me being against" should be "my being against" given the possessive case rule for gerunds.

When you call another black person a nigger like a white person would say it i am going to call you out on it period.Stop using all these negative stereotypes to justify your obvious discourse towards your own people.

When you say "discourse," is that really the word you want to use here? Displeasure, dismay, or disregard might fit what you are trying to say a bit more appropriately.

It might also be helpful to place spaces (ideally 2) between sentences and to capitalize the personal pronoun "I" which is treated differently than you, he, she, it, we, and they.

If you incorporate some of those things, I might actually read an entire post of yours without being distracted to the point of losing interest.

[skateboardstephen]

Second off i grew up in middle class suburban environment i am not a product of the ghetto, so i don`t know where you get all these claims of me being against education and upward mobility this nonsense.

Your writing style - specifically the grammar and diction - gives you away, not to mention the telltale vitriol. For instance, "me being against" should be "my being against" given the possessive case rule for gerunds.

When you call another black person a nigger like a white person would say it i am going to call you out on it period.Stop using all these negative stereotypes to justify your obvious discourse towards your own people.

When you say "discourse," is that really the word you want to use here? Displeasure, dismay, or disregard might fit what you are trying to say a bit more appropriately.

It might also be helpful to place spaces (ideally 2) between sentences and to capitalize the personal pronoun "I" which is treated differently than you, he, she, it, we, and they.

If you incorporate some of those things, I might actually read an entire post of yours without being distracted to the point of losing interest.

We could go on all day picking out grammar mistakes on happier abroad either address what is said or don't respond.You sound so much like a white racist that is not even funny. If you are not interested then stop responding and let some positive discussion on the topic take place uncle ruckus.

[Teal Lantern]

Reality looks more like this...

Note a few things --
1) The man never disrespects her.
2) She wants to do ALL of the talking (don't they all? )

Yes, the 3 minute buildup is worth watching just to show .....


bonus: 3) Well, now that he's successful ...

[E_Irizarry]

Reality looks more like this...

Note a few things --
1) The man never disrespects her.
2) She wants to do ALL of the talking (don't they all? )

Yes, the 3 minute buildup is worth watching just to show .....


bonus: 3) Well, now that he's successful ...

Look @ how fat the women are in the audience. Passport meets on-arrival-visa-stamp meets fixed.

[zboy1]

Reality looks more like this...

Note a few things --
1) The man never disrespects her.
2) She wants to do ALL of the talking (don't they all? )

Yes, the 3 minute buildup is worth watching just to show .....


bonus: 3) Well, now that he's successful ...

Look @ how fat the women are in the audience. Passport meets on-arrival-visa-stamp meets fixed.

Mannn......I thought being Asian in America sucked, but....I'm kinda glad to be Asian instead of Black (no offense) after seeing videos like this, smh. After reading all the crap that Black people have to go through on various forums--including this one, and knowing about the awful relationship that exist between Black men and women, I'm kinda glad I wasn't born Black (again, no offense).

[Teal Lantern]

Mannn......I thought being Asian in America sucked, but....I'm kinda glad to be Asian instead of Black (no offense) after seeing videos like this, smh. After reading all the crap that Black people have to go through on various forums--including this one, and knowing about the awful relationship that exist between Black men and women, I'm kinda glad I wasn't born Black (again, no offense).

Yeah, no offense taken.
From this side of the table, before joining HA, I thought Asians (sort of) had it made in the USSA -- model minority, all the "good" stereotypes, etc.
I had met very few in person, and most of those were females (who seemed quite content).
Looks like the main difference between ANY group of men (black, brown, yellow, OR white ) is the "flavor" of crap their women put them through.

[E_Irizarry]

Reality looks more like this...

Note a few things --
1) The man never disrespects her.
2) She wants to do ALL of the talking (don't they all? )

Yes, the 3 minute buildup is worth watching just to show .....


bonus: 3) Well, now that he's successful ...

Look @ how fat the women are in the audience. Passport meets on-arrival-visa-stamp meets fixed.

Mannn......I thought being Asian in America sucked, but....I'm kinda glad to be Asian instead of Black (no offense) after seeing videos like this, smh. After reading all the crap that Black people have to go through on various forums--including this one, and knowing about the awful relationship that exist between Black men and women, I'm kinda glad I wasn't born Black (again, no offense).

I'm not Black, so I'm not offended. If if these problems were Brazilian, German, Irish or whathaveyou, I wouldn't be offended if it werent' the truth. Jajajaa lol

[zboy1]

Reality looks more like this...

Note a few things --
1) The man never disrespects her.
2) She wants to do ALL of the talking (don't they all? )

Yes, the 3 minute buildup is worth watching just to show .....


bonus: 3) Well, now that he's successful ...

Look @ how fat the women are in the audience. Passport meets on-arrival-visa-stamp meets fixed.

Mannn......I thought being Asian in America sucked, but....I'm kinda glad to be Asian instead of Black (no offense) after seeing videos like this, smh. After reading all the crap that Black people have to go through on various forums--including this one, and knowing about the awful relationship that exist between Black men and women, I'm kinda glad I wasn't born Black (again, no offense).

I'm not Black, so I'm not offended. If if these problems were Brazilian, German, Irish or whathaveyou, I wouldn't be offended if it werent' the truth. Jajajaa lol

Oh, I know, you're a light skinned Latin, E. I. I'm talking about the Black posters on here like Maker, NA Guy, Contrarian Expatriate, etc.