Well, you can give them a measure of the good kind of drama: sweep them off their feet with a bunch of flowers and a card, a date at a new cocktail bar, a long weekend somewhere nice and exotic. It doesn't have to be over the top, it doesn't have to be expensive. Just enough for her to know that "things are still happening" between you two and that you still care about breaking the routine and be a fresh (and refreshing) presence in her life.
That kind of conflict mainly served the purpose of improving my written English and my debating skills...even though "debate" was too big a word for what we have been doing: basically flinging verbal turds at each other. He is way too proud and arrogant to ever admit that, maybe, he should get off the obsession carousel and live his life in a way that's more honest and true to himself.
That's not always true, I guess it depends on whether the girl has a negative, a neutral or even positive overall memory of her ex. Again, a decent young woman should be in control of her darker emotions and, as in your case, should know that there is no way you could have intentionally reminded her of a past experience with an ex-bf, so you are at no fault.Winston wrote: ↑September 1st, 2020, 4:26 amBtw, I also got another theory that makes sense. I also noticed that if you say or do something to remind a woman of her ex, even something small, if she still has baggage or trauma from that relationship, she will explode and take out all her baggage and issues onto you, as if you are her ex, even though you are not. This is really weird and will leave you thinking "WTF?" All you did was say something normal and innocent, but it triggered a memory she had with her ex, and so she subconsciously thought you were her ex again and blew up on you and got hysterical. Women have admitted this too, so it's true. I'm sure you've all experienced this too. This especially happens with women who have had many relationships.
That may have been the case with Lisa or Danielle too.
I think you just got unlucky with those 2 girls. What about all the Russian girls who were smiling, hugging or even kissing you on a photo? At leats a couple of them look real cuties and the typical "girl to make yours". Why didn't you think about committing with one of those girls. You were still in adventure mode, I guess...and I understand you. Just be reminded that, for how much fish there is in the pond, no two fishes are equal and no two fishermen are equal