Why do foreign girls turn so nasty when they come to USA?

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Re: Why do foreign girls turn so nasty when they come to USA

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Winston wrote:
Hey I have a question for you. Why is it that Asian girls change so much when they come to America? Suddenly, they are no longer friendly or sweet or modest. And they develop an aversion to flirting too, which in other countries is natural, accepted and reciprocated, but in the USA, it's vilified as creepy behavior. Why is that?

What is it about America that change a foreign girl so much? It's weird. Is it just the culture or something in the energy field/vibe too? Or some kind of virus that infects them? It's as if they become demon possessed or something. It's really scary.

Sorry if this is a taboo question, but I really want to know the truth. And you are in the best position to know since you're a foreign Asian girl who has become Americanized. Thanks.
An Asian girl on OkCupid replied to my questions above. Here was her response:
I was raised in an Asian family but I am born in America. We see things change around us so we change to protect ourself. Flirting comes differently to girls no matter if they are foreign or not. Like me flirting is ok it tells me that guys like me and its a good thing but when flirting becomes over the top is when the 1st thing guys talk to me about is sex. Sex is needed in a relationship but its not the way to really start with someone you may like you know... I know that when foreign girls come to America they are sweet an nice but thy meet really bad guys or gals that use them. Adding on money to the factor. It changes girls. And now all Asian girls are that way. My uncle is full viet and he got married in viet 5 times all 5 times he have been tricked out of money.
What do you think?
She is a bad girl pretending to be a good girl. She shouldnt be flirting period, unless she intends to actually start something with a man. She is basically admitting she flirts for sport and for an ego boost. That means she doesnt mind playing with men's feelings in some way. It's OK as long as they dont offend her. She doesnt care that she just might be cockteasing and disappointing numerous men to get her ego boost.

I'm sure that bad guys use women when they come here. There's little doubt in my mind about that. But I think it is far more common that the men here are spoiling the immigrant women rotten, and these women simply adjust to their new-found status.
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Re: Why do foreign girls turn so nasty when they come to USA

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Adama wrote:
Winston wrote:
Hey I have a question for you. Why is it that Asian girls change so much when they come to America? Suddenly, they are no longer friendly or sweet or modest. And they develop an aversion to flirting too, which in other countries is natural, accepted and reciprocated, but in the USA, it's vilified as creepy behavior. Why is that?

What is it about America that change a foreign girl so much? It's weird. Is it just the culture or something in the energy field/vibe too? Or some kind of virus that infects them? It's as if they become demon possessed or something. It's really scary.

Sorry if this is a taboo question, but I really want to know the truth. And you are in the best position to know since you're a foreign Asian girl who has become Americanized. Thanks.
An Asian girl on OkCupid replied to my questions above. Here was her response:
I was raised in an Asian family but I am born in America. We see things change around us so we change to protect ourself. Flirting comes differently to girls no matter if they are foreign or not. Like me flirting is ok it tells me that guys like me and its a good thing but when flirting becomes over the top is when the 1st thing guys talk to me about is sex. Sex is needed in a relationship but its not the way to really start with someone you may like you know... I know that when foreign girls come to America they are sweet an nice but thy meet really bad guys or gals that use them. Adding on money to the factor. It changes girls. And now all Asian girls are that way. My uncle is full viet and he got married in viet 5 times all 5 times he have been tricked out of money.
What do you think?
She is a bad girl pretending to be a good girl. She shouldnt be flirting period, unless she intends to actually start something with a man. She is basically admitting she flirts for sport and for an ego boost. That means she doesnt mind playing with men's feelings in some way. It's OK as long as they dont offend her. She doesnt care that she just might be cockteasing and disappointing numerous men to get her ego boost.

I'm sure that bad guys use women when they come here. There's little doubt in my mind about that. But I think it is far more common that the men here are spoiling the immigrant women rotten, and these women simply adjust to their new-found status.
For once I agree with you 100%. That was a very spot on analysis. She is a typical AW, that loves cock teasing men, and is wishy-washy because you will never know if you offended her or not. That is why she is still single. Since she is Vietnamese and I know Vietnamese-Americans well enough to know there are only 3-4 types.

She is probably that type that hangs out in medium sized to large size groups of Vietnamese friends (male and female), possibly a few South East Asians mixed in there like a Cambodian or Laotian, but they never let the guys in their circle date them seriously (but dick tease and flirt alot) because they do not want the other guys/gals in the circle to know what they are doing, because someone will get jealous and talk shit, and it may ruin her options to steal a better catch from a better female friend in the same circle. Their "circles" are vicious. Lots of backstabbing and drama that non-Vietnamese never get to see unless you are an honorary member of the circle or the guys are your buddies and tell you. Eventually you will run into a super super hot 10 Vietnamese girl in her late 20's (27-29) that has burned bridges with probably all guys in her circle and they want profiles on Match.com/Eharmony/etc so that they can just get a young top-shelf white guy to get back at everyone else with.

Either that or she has white AW for friends and has just fully adopted their ways. It's gotta be one or the two.
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Re: Why do foreign girls turn so nasty when they come to USA

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Winston wrote:Why do foreign girls change so much when they come to the US? It's like they turn so unfriendly, snotty, hostile, nasty and have a strange aversion to flirting, which in their home country was considered natural and normal. It's really weird. It's like they become demon possessed or something. I wonder if there's more to it than just the culture.

Anyhow, I sent the following taboo questions to some Asian American girls on OkCupid who were obviously Americanized based on their photos, expression and words. I have no idea if they will address them though. It must be awkward for them to receive such questions since no one would dare ask them, as they are so taboo and no-holds-barred.

If any of you know any foreign girls who became spoiled or nasty when they came to the US, maybe you can forward these questions to them too, to see if they'll address them honestly.
Maybe if we ask real nicely, they'll throw in one of those nifty Enigma machines, too.

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That is their nature. Once suppressed, in America it is indulged and allowed to be expressed freely.

Philosophers have described it, the bible warned us against it. And we are suprised that giving women total freedom and superiority of rights does not yield a utopia.

Amazing how knowledge is gained, lost and then gained again throughout the ages.

Today we struggle to understand the things that men 500 years ago understood all too well. Their solution was simple: do not allow them to vote or have any say in things. Cover them up so they cannot gain undue influence and cause struggles between men. Shame sluts and ostrisize them from the community.

But that is so barberic and non progressive.

Enjoy the results then but don't come crying to me.
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The short answer to why women change for the worst is that women are like water and they adopt and take the shape of the glass in which they are. Put clean water into a clean glass and it's good, put water into a toxic wasteland and it gets toxic too. As simple as that. Lesson of all this: never ever bring a woman from overseas to this wasteland that is the Anglosphere!
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Re: Why do foreign girls turn so nasty when they come to USA

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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
Adama wrote:..........Here in the states, the onus is completely on the man. Most men just never know the difference and just do what they've been taught. But with American men going far beyond what men are supposed to do to get and keep women, it simply spoils these immigrant women rotten within 6 months flat..........
Somebody else whom gets it. ....and see guys, this is why I don't like it when American men go to certain non-Anglospheric parts of the globe to trick on women: because too many American men tip the sh.it out of those hoes.

Why tip them? You paid for the service -> nightstand -> she leaves. Now if she's extra-hot and not annoying: she can stay longer. Perhaps, I would treat her to a 4-tier dinner, but that's about it. That's why when I usually monger, I eat before I hunt; I eat after I put them out (nicely or bluntly).

Men are not so over-the-top in those non-feminist, patriarchal countries outside of the Femosphere/Anglosphere.

Two to three years ago, The Educated Negro made a video called "Foreign Men Do Not Sweat Their Own Women." Epic classic it is, and it explains this s.hit.
It would be great if you could link to the video. When it comes to foreign women changing, there are things you can do to covertly learn about a woman's values. Ask them innocent questions with a deeper meaning. The answer is likely to be honest and they will never figure out their answer to it reveals something else about them. A good example would be asking what tv shows they like to watch. Based on the answer, you will know whether they are likely to cheat on you or become sluts when you bring them to your home country. Using this approach will minimise your chances of being betrayed by a foreign woman and you will gain information that they may otherwise hide from you. I am currently using the approach on a Chinese female.

The question i see a lot of men ask is of the type "Would you take a rich man over somebody who was better looking", obviously she will catch on very quickly and tell you what you want to hear which is no she would go for the poor guy because she loves him e.t.c This is most likely bullshit. A better approach would be to break the question into a few innocent questions. The main answer will be fragmented between these questions. This way she will never catch on. All you have to do is join the pieces and you will have a clear picture. The good thing is you can take time and craft these questions for your next encounter with her. This approach works for any interaction with people whether at a job, or with family members.

Another thing is to pay close attention to what women say. Even the most innocent comment can yield important information. A good example of is when i want to find out if she has genuine interest in me I first become very nice to her friend knowing her friend will tell her about me. Then i wait and observer her behavior. If she likes me she will become jealous eventually and start to hint at me. She may even get angry if she is emotionally attached to you. This could mean many things but you can narrow it down to her liking you. There is a small chance she could be possessive but fundamentally it just means she fancies you. You can find out how honest she is by first asking her a definite question such as "Would you go for a guy because he is rich?". She will most definitely say no. Now you ask her a lot of innocent questions such as "What she thinks of Wendy Deng? if she is Chinese". If she says Wendy is smart then you have part of your answer which is that she is susceptible to becoming a gold digger. So you ask her another innocent question. If however Wendy is her role model or she has a lot to say about her then you most likely have a gold digger. It's best to ask these questions at different times in your conversation or better yet at different encounters to increase the chances of getting a genuine answer.
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