kangarunner wrote: ↑August 14th, 2025, 3:06 am
@Lucas88 @publicduende Let me ask you guys this. I made a video on my channel and then Winston posted it in a FB group "Foreigners in Taiwan". A bunch of them wrote comments on my video saying, "The problem is you" and another: "You are utterly clueless". I will calmly say that if they are right and they know better about Taiwan, then why didn't they post facts in their comment saying why I'm wrong and why Taiwan is indeed a great place, with lots to do, and is easy to make friends and have fun. Why didn't they do that instead of making those ad hominem comments?
Winston, posted a link to the FB group "Foreigners in Taiwan". I was reading some of the posts. They all sound like Taiwan is this wonderful place. First of all. I was there and there is zero spontaneity at all. No cheerful people walking anywhere. It's not a fun place at all. All they had to do was write in their comments some facts as to why we're wrong and none of them did that.
@kangarunner
I don't cheer for people who are sending
@Winston ad-hominem attacks, that's not good. Yet, it might be true that those foreigners on the forum might be having a genuinely different experience from Winston's. Why? Who knows. They might be younger, they might have a job in Taiwan, which pays all their bills and gives them a daily chance to rub shoulders with locals, perhaps they speak Mandarin or even Hokkien. Or, perhaps, they keep within their fun bubble with fellow expats and don't even factor in the locals.
The fact that you can't find cheerful people in Taiwan doesn't mean that all Taiwanese, young and old, from all walks of life, are brainless zombies. I found the same thing in Japan. If you see the Japanese walking down the street or sitting in a subway train, they are all quiet, looking down or peeking into their phones, not saying a word. The picture of a dystopic society, it makes you think.
Then you meet Japanese people just outside restaurants, as they say goodbye before parting ways, and you can see glimpses of humanity: they laugh, they crack some simple jokes, they seem to wrap up their evening communicating joy and pleasure. Or you walk down the more hip areas of Osaka and Tokyo and you find young people who laugh, smile and talk, in every possible combination: young couples holding hands, clusters of girls, small groups or boys, all "interestingly" dressed.
What I am simply trying to say is that, when judging an entire nation, one should try and get a sample of that population in different social contexts. Even when I was in Taipei I did see some Taiwanese youth smiling and laughing, or talking, Sure, they're quieter than, say, an Italian or a Spaniard. Sure, they might not be throwing themselves into a conversation if they don't know how to contribute to it (the polite thing to do, usually!).
Yet, calling them brainless and devoid of a soul, that's too much IMHO.
kangarunner wrote: ↑August 14th, 2025, 3:06 am
If you could meet some of these people in Memphis, TN you have to wonder if there's some truth to the soulless theory or NPC theory. There was a post on FB from a Memphis person. It said that in the South, the values are: "Faith, Family, and Football". I had to laugh out loud when I read that. There's nothing inherently wrong with those 3 things. But imagine how empty an intelligent person's life would feel if they lived in a place like Memphis where everyone around them always talked about Jesus and God and always talked about the hometown football team?
There are literally people born in Memphis who live there their entire lives. They have no intellectual curiosity to ask what is out there in the world. These people marry, have kids, get divorced, then remarry and have more kids. Imagine a place so vapid and uninteresting that you're the only sane person there who actually realizes everything wrong with it. But everyone around you just goes on about their daily routine like everything is happy all the time.
Any time I want a good laugh I just go to a Memphis local news site and look at all the crime stories. Or go on /r/memphis and it reminds me how uninteresting and uneventful their ratshit lives are.
There are people like that everywhere in the world, Lucas. The Memphis-like people are the same UK people Little Britain (the comedy show) would brutally mock. There's the under-educated, those with an under-developed sense of curiosity or ambition. Not everybody is the same. Yet, and here is my "gnostic" certainty everybody is endowed with a soul. Then upbringing, education, personality and life opportunities do the rest. I can see this even on myself: yes I lived in London and then other parts of the world since I was 24 and I am fairly open-minded. Yet, I can tell the difference with fellow Italians I met along the way, who lived around the world
and were born in Rome or Milan, instead of a small town in the South.
Living a flat, boring life is all these people know. For you or I, it might look like it's a life not worth living. For them, it's all they know.
It's the famous Japanese proverb,
I no naka no kawazu taikai wo shirazu. The frog in the well knows nothing of the ocean.