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ErikHeaven wrote:We have had our fill with biracial wankers with Obama being the head one in charge. We hope to have him replaced in 2012.
I accept your apology guy. Ron Paul 2012
LOL...

bit awkward but hey whatever, not here to start any drama. Nor do I care for politics.

Are you in the states, right now?

What's your taste in women?


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Re: SELF HATE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE! THAT'S WHY YOU DONT GET LAI

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LightspeedChampion wrote:Sorry guys, but I've been reading through the forums for a while now. And what I've been reading, I can see why women don't want to have sex or date you guys.

Firstly, let me introduce my self. My name's 'Aden' 23, biracial, from England. Born to a Ethiopian father and White English mother. I've been through a single mother household since I was 7, when my father sadly passed.

Growing up I was thrust into a cold world, where and was forced to adequate my self with the traditions of a land, which saw me as a foreigner, even though half of me was English as the classmates who racially taunted me as a youth.

As a child, I saw how society shaped everyone and gave them worth and self-esteem. Sadly society seemed to have come-up empty when it was my turn, for the early terms of my life, I was left in a void of racial confusion. What was I? And why don't I have the milky pale skin that of my family and peers. Why was I singled out for taunting when I havn't done such to deserve this vitriol?

Answer: They deemed me less worthy and less precious for friendship other social applications, because I'm Half Black.

Luckly for me, I was always a social astute kid, even though I asked my self these questions deep down, I knew the answers, as do you!

I simply accepted the fact, as a Biracial Black Man, live is going to be a challange and that challange I would have to accpet and face.

I refused to run away, or Isolate, which I feel many of you guys are doing.

Here's the Kicker, My Sex life is amazing. I got the full picture, even though society places men on totem pole, I ulimitley decide where I belong. I'm never afraid to approach a women, even if they don't often repocitpate, that's not the point, for every one girl who wont have sex with me or date me, there's one that will.

My current girlfriend is 6'ft Blonde, Hazel eyes, slim, yet with a nice bubble butt 8). I appoached her and she repocitated. There was no trick or magic involved, I wanted her and I got her.

American Women or Western Women, are not evil wenches, that seek to destory men, and even if they are, I don't see how someone's nationality would make them any better or worse.

Ultimately, women either find you attractive or not. This notion that geography is the issue is silly. Are you telling me as Black man if I go to the Russia or Asia, women are going to give me play?


I just don't see how millions of men get laid in the UK and the US, yet some swear up and down, it's the women who are evil. Maybe it's you, maybe your not her type. as a black man with a preference for white women, I know I'm not going to be their type. I don't care if she's only into white guys ect, I still approach, why cause. you never know, my girlfriends ex's have all been white, yet she's with me now. You never know she might actually like you despite what you make think. Have some faith in women, not all women are evil gold-diggers who are interested in millionaires or aryan male model looking guys or what ever self limiting belief you have.

If I can do it, why can't the majority of you. Women are not going to fall at your feet, get into the bars/clubs are do what other million men do to get laid. No man is sexless unless he chooses to.


Keep it civil guys, I'm not attacking anybody, sorry if I caused any offence, I'm just trying to understand. Also ignore the many grammar and spelling issues lol.
What you fail to realize is that women from different cultures, and different geographical locations are DIFFERENT, and that some men (like the ones on this forum) are a better match with women from other parts of the world.



As far as yourself, you're in the UK right? Well of course you have a good sex life. Sex is not so repressed like it is over here in the states, and also, I met women from the UK and I was blown away at how smart and classy they were. I was also turned on by their ability to speak proper English with no slang. That said, I do believe I would have better success in the UK because UK girls are more refined then American girls and there is more of a real community in the UK (ie, pubs, fish and chip restaurants) where people gather together over a brew.

Anyhow, I would like you to come over here and deal with these manly, overweight, pajama wearing, chain smoking women who ignore you unless you're a celebrity. This is what most men have to deal with everyday.

And even if you already are here in the states and have had successes with American girls, you got to realize that you were raised in England therefore, you have a much healthier approach to women, and dating, apposed to American men who are often jaded because they were beat down by their mothers, women and society at large. You're also a NOVELTY to girls here in the States because you're from England.
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Your post is a bit far out there- that is you could have tuned it up a lot by simply reading around a bit more before sticking your foot in
your mouth, but you are man enough to apologize, so I would buy you a beer.

Actually, ( and I am not the only one) I get more poontang than a bicycle seat even though I am 50 years of age, and I live in what is for me, my own little tropical Eden. How about you?

Outwest
Good to hear. Love life is good, never felt like I was missing out. Although I'm in a relationship now, I do admit, I miss the single life :lol:
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What you fail to realize is that women from different cultures, and different geographical locations are DIFFERENT, and that some men (like the ones on this forum) are a better match with women from other parts of the world.



As far as yourself, you're in the UK right? Well of course you have a good sex life. Sex is not so repressed like it is over here in the states, and also, I met women from the UK and I was blown away at how smart and classy they were. I was also turned on by their ability to speak proper English with no slang. That said, I DO think I would have as much success in the UK because UK girls are more refined then American girls.

Anyhow, I would like you to come over here and deal with these manly, overweight, pajama wearing, chain smoking women who ignore you unless you're a celebrity. This is what most men have to deal with everyday.

And even if you already are here in the states and have had successes with American girls, you got to realize that you were raised in England therefore, you have a much healthier approach to women, and dating, apposed to American men who are often jaded because they were beat down by their mothers, women and society at large. You're also a NOVELTY to girls here in the States because you're from England.


Hey.

Firstly, I'm not some Casanova, and if that's the image I put forth, then I'm sorry, I just stated due to my early self hatred and racial confusion, I was educated in the ways of the world, and that people are inherently ass-holes, women included.

I'm no Casanova by any means, I get the shakes and gut wrenching feeling like my stomach has been filled with acid. I remember the fear I felt when I meet my girlfriend, lucky for me she was friendly and approachable . Women rejected me left, right, and centre but I came back for more, and I bedded women, simply because I never gave up.

Also regarding single mothers, didn't they give the ass up to some losers? Why can't we be the one's getting the ass? Have all those losers got money or celebrity?

Guys are getting ass, from hot girls without celebrity or money, I am, call it lucky or whatever, just saying it's possible.
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Re: SELF HATE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE! THAT'S WHY YOU DONT GET LAI

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LightspeedChampion wrote:Sorry guys, but I've been reading through the forums for a while now. And what I've been reading, I can see why women don't want to have sex or date you guys.

Firstly, let me introduce my self. My name's 'Aden' 23, biracial, from England. Born to a Ethiopian father and White English mother. I've been through a single mother household since I was 7, when my father sadly passed.

Growing up I was thrust into a cold world, where and was forced to adequate my self with the traditions of a land, which saw me as a foreigner, even though half of me was English as the classmates who racially taunted me as a youth.

As a child, I saw how society shaped everyone and gave them worth and self-esteem. Sadly society seemed to have come-up empty when it was my turn, for the early terms of my life, I was left in a void of racial confusion. What was I? And why don't I have the milky pale skin that of my family and peers. Why was I singled out for taunting when I havn't done such to deserve this vitriol?

Answer: They deemed me less worthy and less precious for friendship other social applications, because I'm Half Black.

Luckly for me, I was always a social astute kid, even though I asked my self these questions deep down, I knew the answers, as do you!

I simply accepted the fact, as a Biracial Black Man, live is going to be a challange and that challange I would have to accpet and face.

I refused to run away, or Isolate, which I feel many of you guys are doing.

Here's the Kicker, My Sex life is amazing. I got the full picture, even though society places men on totem pole, I ulimitley decide where I belong. I'm never afraid to approach a women, even if they don't often repocitpate, that's not the point, for every one girl who wont have sex with me or date me, there's one that will.

My current girlfriend is 6'ft Blonde, Hazel eyes, slim, yet with a nice bubble butt 8). I appoached her and she repocitated. There was no trick or magic involved, I wanted her and I got her.

American Women or Western Women, are not evil wenches, that seek to destory men, and even if they are, I don't see how someone's nationality would make them any better or worse.

Ultimately, women either find you attractive or not. This notion that geography is the issue is silly. Are you telling me as Black man if I go to the Russia or Asia, women are going to give me play?


I just don't see how millions of men get laid in the UK and the US, yet some swear up and down, it's the women who are evil. Maybe it's you, maybe your not her type. as a black man with a preference for white women, I know I'm not going to be their type. I don't care if she's only into white guys ect, I still approach, why cause. you never know, my girlfriends ex's have all been white, yet she's with me now. You never know she might actually like you despite what you make think. Have some faith in women, not all women are evil gold-diggers who are interested in millionaires or aryan male model looking guys or what ever self limiting belief you have.

If I can do it, why can't the majority of you. Women are not going to fall at your feet, get into the bars/clubs are do what other million men do to get laid. No man is sexless unless he chooses to.


Keep it civil guys, I'm not attacking anybody, sorry if I caused any offence, I'm just trying to understand. Also ignore the many grammar and spelling issues lol.
I'm one of those guys who gave up on western (American) women at a very young age and moved abroad for good. I believed I just didn't have a chance at home. But, if I could go back to my 18 year old body with what I know now, I actually believe I would do decently. The guys who grow up early in a social sense can often do amazingly well with women, even in America. Unfortunately, I was the opposite.

I also believe that a decent looking half Ethiopian half white guy would be very exotic and attractive to some western girls, white and probably black too. In my first uni, there was a dude from Africa who just looked regular but was incredibly popular with many of the black girls on campus cus of his accent and exotic appeal. Remember guys, 20% or so of guys in the States do get plenty of action. You just have to figure out a way to break into that niche. If you're too far removed (too dorky, geeky, unattractive, etc.) then perhaps you can save yourself a lot of frustration and time and go directly abroad to the best region for your type. But for young guys who are kinda borderline, there's still hope at home IMO.
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Where the HELL do these trolls come from. we just got rid of frontier troll. now its a new troll.

true self hate is not attractive. 'cause then you'll be hating others around you like american women are.

ugh !!!! can some one ban this person.

the forum is so peaceful its really rare to get in-fighting on this website. i'd like to keep it that way !!!. and alot of others love it too.
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I'll just retire from this topic, clearly, I'm not wanted here.

Bye, Guys.
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LightspeedChampion wrote:I'll just retire from this topic, clearly, I'm not wanted here.

Bye, Guys.
No, you retired because you can't argue with us, and you realized that your post carried little merit and was baseless.
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NorthAmericanguy wrote:
LightspeedChampion wrote:I'll just retire from this topic, clearly, I'm not wanted here.

Bye, Guys.
No, you retired because you can't argue with us, and you realized that your post carried little merit and was baseless.
Argue?

Why would I want to argue?

:?

Anything I see, i'm accused of being a troll.
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LightspeedChampion wrote:
Banano wrote:This notion that geography is the issue is silly. Are you telling me as Black man if I go to the Russia or Asia, women are going to give me play?

Wrong dude
In Russia you would be getting 10-20x of what you are getting now in UK, in terms of quality and quantity. Not sure abt Asia and if they are into blacks.
Position position just like in real estate
Never been to Russia. But I've heard it's not a place for anybody of colour?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwAnEj2Y8gg

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If you're not full of self hate then you've got nothing to worry about. The gangs will leave you alone.

Maybe you're the one who has the problem?
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LightspeedChampion wrote:
Also regarding single mothers, didn't they give the ass up to some losers? Why can't we be the one's getting the ass? Have all those losers got money or celebrity?

Mostly because many of us are not losers. Being a nice guy with your shit straight makes you unattractive. Here the losers get the sex. Hell convicts here get tons of fan mail. You want a girl, go to prison, you'll have a mob waiting for you when you get out.

The "single moms" that you speak of f***ed these guys when they were younger (ignoring us) and had their kids. Now at age 30-35 all of a sudden their into those of us who did well for ourselves.

Before I got a high paying job in IT I was a musician living in a dorm room getting laid left and right. When I got out of college I got a good job, put on a pair of dockers and promptly became invisible. Pretty much all that is available now is single moms, I choose to visit my local AMP instead.

Watch jersey shore - there you go. If you're a major league douchebag who looks like a guido, biker, mma guy, talentless musician etc. you'll probably do fine.

Rich guys can get laid by pulling a bait and switch but it's a mistake to think women like these guys, mostly they try to use them. The smart ones know how to turn that situation and the rest end up paying chid support and vaginamony.

Yes you can bang old worn out single moms if you're a guy with money who know how to play the mark (pump and dump) but what then?

Single moms and other AW are useless long term - impossible to get along with. Not only that but you'll be stuck raising kids that aren't your own. Hav you ever had a stepfather? Nobody likes their stepparents, that's the dumbest thing you could ever do. You just took yourself right out of the gene pool and sacrificed your whole life and free time just to raise Tyrone's kids and get laid twice a month. Tyrone got it for free when the boobs weren't sagging.

Them PUA sites are warping your mind, come back to earth.
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And the numbers of women here that have a sexually transmitted disease. They have a website i heard and it is for people in America that have HERPES. Its just that bad. So the newbies just do not seem to get it. I have become quite asexual these days. Living around American women will make you do that. Advice to the newbies some people are not living to get laid. I am in that category. I have had plenty of sex in my day. I was the Whoremonger of Whoremongers.
I did my stint in the Army and i f***ed damn near everything walking. I would say i have had had at least 300 women in my life and that comes from NYC, NYS, Texas, New Jersey etc.
I do not care about p***y anymore. I would like to be in a relationship that is normal with a woman that is kind and loyal.
So explaining this to newbies over and over again is getting very tiresome.

Not interested really in sex anymore and single mothers yuck! You have to be kidding me.
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Re: SELF HATE IS NOT ATTRACTIVE! THAT'S WHY YOU DONT GET LAI

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NorthAmericanguy wrote:
LightspeedChampion wrote:Sorry guys, but I've been reading through the forums for a while now. And what I've been reading, I can see why women don't want to have sex or date you guys.

Firstly, let me introduce my self. My name's 'Aden' 23, biracial, from England. Born to a Ethiopian father and White English mother. I've been through a single mother household since I was 7, when my father sadly passed.

Growing up I was thrust into a cold world, where and was forced to adequate my self with the traditions of a land, which saw me as a foreigner, even though half of me was English as the classmates who racially taunted me as a youth.

As a child, I saw how society shaped everyone and gave them worth and self-esteem. Sadly society seemed to have come-up empty when it was my turn, for the early terms of my life, I was left in a void of racial confusion. What was I? And why don't I have the milky pale skin that of my family and peers. Why was I singled out for taunting when I havn't done such to deserve this vitriol?

Answer: They deemed me less worthy and less precious for friendship other social applications, because I'm Half Black.

Luckly for me, I was always a social astute kid, even though I asked my self these questions deep down, I knew the answers, as do you!

I simply accepted the fact, as a Biracial Black Man, live is going to be a challange and that challange I would have to accpet and face.

I refused to run away, or Isolate, which I feel many of you guys are doing.

Here's the Kicker, My Sex life is amazing. I got the full picture, even though society places men on totem pole, I ulimitley decide where I belong. I'm never afraid to approach a women, even if they don't often repocitpate, that's not the point, for every one girl who wont have sex with me or date me, there's one that will.

My current girlfriend is 6'ft Blonde, Hazel eyes, slim, yet with a nice bubble butt 8). I appoached her and she repocitated. There was no trick or magic involved, I wanted her and I got her.

American Women or Western Women, are not evil wenches, that seek to destory men, and even if they are, I don't see how someone's nationality would make them any better or worse.

Ultimately, women either find you attractive or not. This notion that geography is the issue is silly. Are you telling me as Black man if I go to the Russia or Asia, women are going to give me play?


I just don't see how millions of men get laid in the UK and the US, yet some swear up and down, it's the women who are evil. Maybe it's you, maybe your not her type. as a black man with a preference for white women, I know I'm not going to be their type. I don't care if she's only into white guys ect, I still approach, why cause. you never know, my girlfriends ex's have all been white, yet she's with me now. You never know she might actually like you despite what you make think. Have some faith in women, not all women are evil gold-diggers who are interested in millionaires or aryan male model looking guys or what ever self limiting belief you have.

If I can do it, why can't the majority of you. Women are not going to fall at your feet, get into the bars/clubs are do what other million men do to get laid. No man is sexless unless he chooses to.


Keep it civil guys, I'm not attacking anybody, sorry if I caused any offence, I'm just trying to understand. Also ignore the many grammar and spelling issues lol.
What you fail to realize is that women from different cultures, and different geographical locations are DIFFERENT, and that some men (like the ones on this forum) are a better match with women from other parts of the world.



As far as yourself, you're in the UK right? Well of course you have a good sex life. Sex is not so repressed like it is over here in the states, and also, I met women from the UK and I was blown away at how smart and classy they were. I was also turned on by their ability to speak proper English with no slang. That said, I do believe I would have better success in the UK because UK girls are more refined then American girls and there is more of a real community in the UK (ie, pubs, fish and chip restaurants) where people gather together over a brew.

Anyhow, I would like you to come over here and deal with these manly, overweight, pajama wearing, chain smoking women who ignore you unless you're a celebrity. This is what most men have to deal with everyday.

And even if you already are here in the states and have had successes with American girls, you got to realize that you were raised in England therefore, you have a much healthier approach to women, and dating, apposed to American men who are often jaded because they were beat down by their mothers, women and society at large. You're also a NOVELTY to girls here in the States because you're from England.
You and I are not in total accordance here, but however, we agree about how there's no slang and how there's no improper grammar when it comes to English women as much. I try to speak queen's English here in the States, and people look at me wacked-out as f**k. And I receive the weirdest looks and rebuttals from "educated" charlatan-esque Black American women whom feel they can out-articulate me under the table sotospeak.

I like to say "become" in lieu of "get" in a lot of instances, especially when discussing mental, environmental and physical conditions of context.
I like to say "If I WERE...." in lieu of "If I WAS...."
I like to say "...by whom...." in lieu of "...by who..."
etc. and etc.

As for the non-agreeable part, I do not agree with you on how English guys get ass here in the States just because of their state of mind ONLY; it's also because their ACCENT gives them an edge and something "different" for the average AW. Most AW have the condition of ADD/ADHD thus they require something "new". In coming with something "new", their boredom of that moment wanes away until and if they become tired of that "new" guy, whom would happen to be English.
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lightspeedtroll:

you mispelled biracial...in your case it should be bisexual.

youre definately gay if not a woman trolling for attention.
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