Why do older single women see imaginary faults in everyone?

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Have you met any of them? So how do you turn it around exactly? How do you downplay their negativity? Can you give some examples of what to say to them to do that?

lol yes I have met them before but i've never stuck around long enough or made any friends with these types. In the past it was usually work related or a friend of a friend type of situation. If you're not pursuing them for a relationship then you can just keep everything light and pleasant. Give them a few sob stories to establish what a sensitive man you are and why would they ever say something bad about a sensitive emotional man like yourself? It requires you to be "one of the girls" because that's the only way you can get along with these types.

If you act like a guy and argue things logically or provide substantial debates it will just get ugly and confrontational. They are argumentative bitches there's no point in using logic. Just throw out emotional chaff to distract them.

Have you met these types who start pointing out faults in you all of a sudden, citing character flaws in you after misunderstandings, and if you argue with them or refute their allegations, they use it against you by telling you how clueless you are about your own behavior, etc.?

That's why you don't have "misunderstandings" with people like this. You just keep everything light and simple. You probably sit down and start talking/debating stuff and for women like this it's just an opportunity to vent at someone or something. Avoid this.

Or if you give a compliment to them, sometimes they will twist it into an insult. For example, one time I said to her, "Wow you look younger with your hair tied up. It looks cute.", she will usually say, "What? You mean I look older before when my hair was down?". lol

Don't reference age, marital status, past relationships or stuff along those lines. Those e-mails you quoted are spot on. These women have an enormous chip so there's no reason to highlight their insecurities.


Anyways, what's the point in this? What 30'ish woman did you have a bad run in with Winston? If you're not getting any sex there's absolutely zero point in knowing women like this. It's actually detrimental to your social life because they can be vindictive and throw stuff around the gossip mill just to see you squirm.