Wife Requirements

[Andrewww]

You're saying that a man should be some type of vice president with the looks Brad Pitt and that even a dumb secretary should expect no less than a perfect man.

I thought this type of unrealistic expectations are the reason why the divorce rate is so high.

Not at all. What I'm saying is that a man should strive to be the best at whatever position he chooses, and his woman should follow his lead. Many of us bemoan women and how this society socializes them, but we never examine our end of the situation: Men must accept the fact that women are like children. They are attentive to the surface, materialistic things, and once you break those barriers( which all women have to a degree), you are able to break into an actual relationship.

It's not unrealistic for a man to become wealthy, as it isn't unrealistic for a man to demand that his woman not work. Women aren't supposed to be the choosers, men are, and if a man can't understand that his woman is inferior to him, then he's doomed to never understand the complexities of a relationship.

Multiple men, even men on this site, are afraid to demand exactly what they want out of their women. If a man is handling a household with efficiency, he's in every right to demand that his wife not drive, works a lower job and is relegated to household duties. Do the wealthiest men deserve the most beautiful women? Yes. For he has proven himself able, and he's in a position to have her because he worked hard enough for her. When you've accomplished in life, you control your life.

Most people become wealthy AFTER they start a family. You can't expect people to wait until they're 40 or 50 to marry. Providing for your family motivates you to work harder.

[ChosenTraveler]

You're saying that a man should be some type of vice president with the looks Brad Pitt and that even a dumb secretary should expect no less than a perfect man.

I thought this type of unrealistic expectations are the reason why the divorce rate is so high.

Not at all. What I'm saying is that a man should strive to be the best at whatever position he chooses, and his woman should follow his lead. Many of us bemoan women and how this society socializes them, but we never examine our end of the situation: Men must accept the fact that women are like children. They are attentive to the surface, materialistic things, and once you break those barriers( which all women have to a degree), you are able to break into an actual relationship.

It's not unrealistic for a man to become wealthy, as it isn't unrealistic for a man to demand that his woman not work. Women aren't supposed to be the choosers, men are, and if a man can't understand that his woman is inferior to him, then he's doomed to never understand the complexities of a relationship.

Multiple men, even men on this site, are afraid to demand exactly what they want out of their women. If a man is handling a household with efficiency, he's in every right to demand that his wife not drive, works a lower job and is relegated to household duties. Do the wealthiest men deserve the most beautiful women? Yes. For he has proven himself able, and he's in a position to have her because he worked hard enough for her. When you've accomplished in life, you control your life.

Most people become wealthy AFTER they start a family. You can't expect people to wait until they're 40 or 50 to marry. Providing for your family motivates you to work harder.

Not necessarily. A young man, particularly if he wants to become a man of means, must work hard while he is young, and avoid all of the unnecessary mistakes/missteps that come with youthful environment and hubris( i.e. getting some American girl pregnant, getting too heavily involved with American women, or surrounding himself with people that have poor interests/no ambition).

If he is successful at this, while navigating the American diaspora during his youth, then he is quite ready to venture abroad and select the wife of his choice. When a man has wealth, he has options, but when a man operates out of lack, he has to settle.

Why can't a man wait until he is ready to start a family? This is the fallacy of American society/thinking. Placing deadlines on a man, restricting his choices. I've said it before and it bears repeating on this site, many men here, are simply not ready mentally or physically to travel abroad.

A man must achieve, and prove that he can handle the complex life that both living abroad, and the relationships that it entails.

[ChosenTraveler]

In comportment with what you said( which are the rudimentary components of a stable relationship), I'll add:

1) Has to be able to cook, clean, knows her place and doesn't challenge the male's authority.

2) Must be willing to do whatever it takes to sexually please her man.

3) Must work a lower job than her man( for the man's job is to provide, and a "career" woman only undermines a man's progress and promotes male indolency).

4) Must be open to the concept of polygamy.

5) Must have no male friends

6) Must be young

More to come.

1) Agreed.

2) Disagree. There should be limits. A girl should have the right to not be tied up and whipped with chains.

3) Agreed.

4) Disagree. Unless you're extremely wealthy, this is a pipe dream.

5) Agreed.

6) Super agreed.

In regards to number four, you'd be surprised what a woman is open to once you rule your household effectively.

[noog]

I think I've found a good one with my fiancee ... she cooked, did my laundry and gave me a manicure and pedicure in our limited time together.

Another requirement for a wife is to sew or learn to sew. Mostly I can take care of myself, but that's something I haven't learned and sure comes in handy when when a button comes off my favorite work shirt in the wash.

Another thing I like about my fiancee is that she doesn't talk to me nonstop like AW do. There is nothing wrong with being quiet if there isn't anything worthwhile to say.

Other main requirements I think are to be respectful to her man and to not be too clingy.

[WPO]

Requirements:

Mind of her own
smart
intellectual
objective
honest
loyal
courteous
polite
warm
caring
moralistic
foreign
european accent
long beautiful (blonde or red) hair
petite (ideal but not mandatory)
gorgeous
white skin
pink pouty lips
perfectly shaven
long pink lips
juicy cheeks
long/slender/pink suckable toes
physically fit
curvacous
family values
trusting
trustworthy
romantic
good cook (no junk food whatsoever)
loves to work out
eats healthy
enjoys reading (viable/valuable information)
enjoys the arts
enjoys dancing
admires the little things in life
loves flowers
amorous
loves to laugh
down to earth
feminine
welcomes me home with a hug and kisses on my face
anytime anyplace!!!!!!!!!!!
hates soap operas
appreciative
detests badboys/thugs/jerks/a$$holes
won't act as if the world comes to an end if you forget an anniversary

Sorry bro but this is sounds like something a mangina (or Winston) would say. A woman with your requirements only exists in wet dreams. Completely unrealistic and wishy washy. Men need to stop being hopeless romantics and become practical.

Remember the name of the site you're on. "happier abroad." A site created BY winston wu. It's an unrealistic dream in america, but not overseas. Your statement is an indication that you've never been outside the states. Understand the context before undermining someone's likes and dislikes. btw, the word mangina doesn't apply. Complete misuse of the word on your part.

[Dragon]

Requirements:

Mind of her own
smart
intellectual
objective
honest
loyal
courteous
polite
warm
caring
moralistic
foreign
european accent
long beautiful (blonde or red) hair
petite (ideal but not mandatory)
gorgeous
white skin
pink pouty lips
perfectly shaven
long pink lips
juicy cheeks
long/slender/pink suckable toes
physically fit
curvacous
family values
trusting
trustworthy
romantic
good cook (no junk food whatsoever)
loves to work out
eats healthy
enjoys reading (viable/valuable information)
enjoys the arts
enjoys dancing
admires the little things in life
loves flowers
amorous
loves to laugh
down to earth
feminine
welcomes me home with a hug and kisses on my face
anytime anyplace!!!!!!!!!!!
hates soap operas
appreciative
detests badboys/thugs/jerks/a$$holes
won't act as if the world comes to an end if you forget an anniversary

Sorry bro but this is sounds like something a mangina (or Winston) would say. A woman with your requirements only exists in wet dreams. Completely unrealistic and wishy washy. Men need to stop being hopeless romantics and become practical.

Remember the name of the site you're on. "happier abroad." A site created BY winston wu. It's an unrealistic dream in america, but not overseas. Your statement is an indication that you've never been outside the states. Understand the context before undermining someone's likes and dislikes. btw, the word mangina doesn't apply. Complete misuse of the word on your part.

I have to apologize and admit, maybe you're right. I haven't really traveled and been out of the country. Maybe once I'm in a position to travel, it'll change my cynical attitude.

[terminator]

I find "Lists of Requirements" go out the window when a hot model shows interest in you. Lists are only used by women to reject guys who look like me for ANOTHER REASON than how I look.

[Jester]

....women to reject guys who look like me ....

I was just at a party full of Colombians and other Latins tonight. I saw a couple totally mismatched by North American standards. Pot-bellied older fella, ugly face, not a witty guy or a spectacular dancer, quiet, basic decent guy, at least 55 years old, looks older, grey hair, bald in front, serious jowls. He was with one of the best-looking women there, a 30-ish, leggy blonde. She was all over him. Both of them looked happy.

Pretty sure the were both Colombians.

So yeah, Happier Abroad and all that. There is hope for all. I wish every guy on this site could see that couple.

[terminator]

These lists are a joke to me because if a 21 year old Swedish model showed interest in you, all these lists will be shredded! Women use these type of lists to reject 99% of men, as if a man met all the requirements of her list, but wasn't good looking she'd find another reason to reject him (ie, make the list longer).

[E_Irizarry]

You're saying that a man should be some type of vice president with the looks Brad Pitt and that even a dumb secretary should expect no less than a perfect man.

I thought this type of unrealistic expectations are the reason why the divorce rate is so high.

Not at all. What I'm saying is that a man should strive to be the best at whatever position he chooses, and his woman should follow his lead. Many of us bemoan women and how this society socializes them, but we never examine our end of the situation: Men must accept the fact that women are like children. They are attentive to the surface, materialistic things, and once you break those barriers( which all women have to a degree), you are able to break into an actual relationship.

It's not unrealistic for a man to become wealthy, as it isn't unrealistic for a man to demand that his woman not work. Women aren't supposed to be the choosers, men are, and if a man can't understand that his woman is inferior to him, then he's doomed to never understand the complexities of a relationship.

Multiple men, even men on this site, are afraid to demand exactly what they want out of their women. If a man is handling a household with efficiency, he's in every right to demand that his wife not drive, works a lower job and is relegated to household duties. Do the wealthiest men deserve the most beautiful women? Yes. For he has proven himself able, and he's in a position to have her because he worked hard enough for her. When you've accomplished in life, you control your life.

Most people become wealthy AFTER they start a family. You can't expect people to wait until they're 40 or 50 to marry. Providing for your family motivates you to work harder.

Not necessarily. A young man, particularly if he wants to become a man of means, must work hard while he is young, and avoid all of the unnecessary mistakes/missteps that come with youthful environment and hubris( i.e. getting some American girl pregnant, getting too heavily involved with American women, or surrounding himself with people that have poor interests/no ambition).

If he is successful at this, while navigating the American diaspora during his youth, then he is quite ready to venture abroad and select the wife of his choice. When a man has wealth, he has options, but when a man operates out of lack, he has to settle.

Why can't a man wait until he is ready to start a family? This is the fallacy of American society/thinking. Placing deadlines on a man, restricting his choices. I've said it before and it bears repeating on this site, many men here, are simply not ready mentally or physically to travel abroad.

A man must achieve, and prove that he can handle the complex life that both living abroad, and the relationships that it entails.

A contraire! Wealth cannot stay in one generation; richness has to be pass down via the generations at staying rich in the family bloodline. Dude can become rich, but never wealthy unless the richness is passed down to him.

[E_Irizarry]

Requirements:

Mind of her own
smart
intellectual
objective
honest
loyal
courteous
polite
warm
caring
moralistic
foreign
european accent
long beautiful (blonde or red) hair
petite (ideal but not mandatory)
gorgeous
white skin
pink pouty lips
perfectly shaven
long pink lips
juicy cheeks
long/slender/pink suckable toes
physically fit
curvacous
family values
trusting
trustworthy
romantic
good cook (no junk food whatsoever)
loves to work out
eats healthy
enjoys reading (viable/valuable information)
enjoys the arts
enjoys dancing
admires the little things in life
loves flowers
amorous
loves to laugh
down to earth
feminine
welcomes me home with a hug and kisses on my face
anytime anyplace!!!!!!!!!!!
hates soap operas
appreciative
detests badboys/thugs/jerks/a$$holes
won't act as if the world comes to an end if you forget an anniversary

Sorry bro but this is sounds like something a mangina (or Winston) would say. A woman with your requirements only exists in wet dreams. Completely unrealistic and wishy washy. Men need to stop being hopeless romantics and become practical.

Remember the name of the site you're on. "happier abroad." A site created BY winston wu. It's an unrealistic dream in america, but not overseas. Your statement is an indication that you've never been outside the states. Understand the context before undermining someone's likes and dislikes. btw, the word mangina doesn't apply. Complete misuse of the word on your part.

I have to apologize and admit, maybe you're right. I haven't really traveled and been out of the country. Maybe once I'm in a position to travel, it'll change my cynical attitude.

Once you go to a non Anglo/predominantly-English-speaking country, then you'll change your cynical attitude. Fixed. Lo hecho.
In 2007, I was scared-sh*tless when I had gone to Thailand, my first non-Anglo country (Puerto Rico so doesn't count!! "A ticket to Puerto Rico is a ticket wasted".), but when I hAD toucheddown there, wuuuuuuhtttt? I was in heaven....the cheap good food...the cheap massage parlors (and "tips" for the female massuse to do a "FINISH HIM" on me - sometimes raw for no extra baht).

Even there were times when a SSBBW Thai masuse woman would be massaging me in the private room, [over the curtain] she was talking sh*t in Thai to the other female masuse about me (I was just able to tell LOL)...yet she was quick to cop this c*ock from me. But I'm digressing.

When I go back abroad, I will be doing more p**n. En serio, caballeros!!!

[noog]

You know, forget the big list of requirements. BB and Lucille sum it up perfectly! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HC94GVNftw

[Ginger]

[Jester]

In comportment with what you said( which are the rudimentary components of a stable relationship), I'll add:

1) Has to be able to cook, clean, knows her place and doesn't challenge the male's authority.

2) Must be willing to do whatever it takes to sexually please her man.

3) Must work a lower job than her man( for the man's job is to provide, and a "career" woman only undermines a man's progress and promotes male indolency).

4) Must be open to the concept of polygamy.

5) Must have no male friends

6) Must be young

More to come.

Wisdom.

If she has 4,5,6 you could teach 1,2,3.

[Jester]

I think I've found a good one with my fiancee ... she cooked, did my laundry and gave me a manicure and pedicure in our limited time together.

You dog.