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Truthville wrote: Oh, and reconnect with your son!
Repatriate,Repatriate wrote: It's true that you are honest to a certain point but you frequently distort objective arguments in your favor or turn it into a me vs. them rant. You insist you're right even when reality doesn't line up with your perceptions. For instance you keep insisting that you're a good looking guy because a few polite women told you so. Even though objectively you could compare your looks with men that are actually handsome or even above average then realize you have a lot of flaws. This lack of ability to self critique and introspection on your part is apparent. That's probably why so many people tear into you because you're kind of arrogant about it even when most people say you are delusional.
indigoheart wrote: Winston, you got your flaws. Your message of hope for a dork/nerd like me back in California has gave me a new lease on my confidence. While I find it, I'm still thankful for your simple help even if sometimes you are a prick.
P.S. I'm sorry for flirting with your girl, man. She wanted to f**k me behind your back, but I turned her down. Btw, She is TOTALLY using you dude and she told me she was f***ing a guy on the side cause she knew about all your escapades. Sorry if I didn't tell you because I thought you actually deserved it.
P.P.S. I forgive you for flirting with my ex chick and calling me out on my bullshit. You're still a good friend to me man.
Peace
Dianne is not your wife. You have a son with her. You live abroad. She most likely wants to f**k other men and I don't see why you have a problem with this. You're an absentee father and a non-entity in her life. Let this Filipino Don Juan wannabe drill her it's not like you are committed. I also wouldn't believe a single word coming out of your average Filipino's mouth either your "girlfriend" or this Indigo stooge.Winston wrote:. But why do you say that about Dianne though? She wasn't even attracted to you. I told her what you said above. Here was her reply by cell phone:
"What!? I never said to him! Why did he say that? Give me his number I wanna talk to him! Thats not true! Tell him that I wanna talk to him asap!"
She later said:
"I don't know why did he say that...I never like *name snipped*! Never! Did you had fight with him? Why his saying that? Maybe his just jealous. I will txt him right now.."
This idiot tried to scam you for 7k why are you even talking with him?Moreover, why did you ask me and Ladislav if we were interested in investing $7,000 or $8,000 USD into your grocery store venture? Were you serious about that?
If someone proposed some hair-brained scheme like that and is known to be full of shit i'd cut him off completely from my life. and usually it's the right thing to do.Well most Filipino guys I met in the Philippines are nice, humble, modest and do not brag about anything. This guy must be an exception, however, he is Filipino American, who grew up in the same area as me. So maybe by growing up in the states, he obtained the worst qualities of American dysfunctionality and Filipino dishonesty? LOLRepatriate wrote:This idiot tried to scam you for 7k why are you even talking with him?Moreover, why did you ask me and Ladislav if we were interested in investing $7,000 or $8,000 USD into your grocery store venture? Were you serious about that?
I hate to say it but a lot of Filipinos really do behave like con artists and liars. I see it in Thailand too but there are a few really decent ones out there but they are in the minority. This makes your average Filipinos behavior really predictable because you can always start out on the right foot by distrusting whatever they say
Winston, leave this ASSHOLE alone! He's giving you some compliments so he can sucker you back in so he can abuse you some more! He's a shallow nothing and he did nothing with Diane! Even in Diane's dumbest day she'd never waste her time on a LOSER like this!!! Stay away from this CAUSTIC scum! You're right about one thing, that he is a combination of the worst of America and the worst of the Philippines both!Winston wrote:indigoheart wrote: Winston, you got your flaws. Your message of hope for a dork/nerd like me back in California has gave me a new lease on my confidence. While I find it, I'm still thankful for your simple help even if sometimes you are a prick.
P.S. I'm sorry for flirting with your girl, man. She wanted to f**k me behind your back, but I turned her down. Btw, She is TOTALLY using you dude and she told me she was f***ing a guy on the side cause she knew about all your escapades. Sorry if I didn't tell you because I thought you actually deserved it.
P.P.S. I forgive you for flirting with my ex chick and calling me out on my bullshit. You're still a good friend to me man.
Peace
Yeah I know who you are. Thanks for the compliments. I'm glad I helped inspire you. But why do you say that about Dianne though? She wasn't even attracted to you. I told her what you said above. Here was her reply by cell phone:
"What!? I never said to him! Why did he say that? Give me his number I wanna talk to him! Thats not true! Tell him that I wanna talk to him asap!"
She later said:
"I don't know why did he say that...I never like *name snipped*! Never! Did you had fight with him? Why his saying that? Maybe his just jealous. I will txt him right now.."
Also, I know she's not using me. Lots of girls have used me. I know the signs of someone using me. They don't wait long to take advantage of you. I didn't even give Dianne any allowance for two years. I don't know why you say that.
However, you aren't exactly a credible source since you like to "bullshit" a lot, as you admitted above. I don't understand why you like to make up BS over the top stories out of nowhere. What do you gain from that? It's illogical. What purpose does it serve?
Examples: You claimed that your ex-wife was the daughter of the family that owned the biggest mall chains in the Philippines (SM Malls) and that she left you and stole $20,000 USD you kept in a briefcase under your bed (instead of putting it in the bank). (So a rich girl from an elite family married you and then robbed you? gee how exciting. lol) You claim that call center girls in Manila like to have sex with you during their lunch break in the back of your car. You always one up me, like when I said my braces cost $2,000, you then said "Oh that's nothing. Mine cost $10,000." (is that supposed to impress me?) You claim to have been a manager in a company in Makati, yet you have no managerial skills at all, or even a basic worth ethic, nothing to indicate that you are qualified for such a responsible position. You claim to have made $12,000 USD a month at a car dealership in America, simply because "you're the man" even though you have no proven sales skills. You claim to own a bunch of startup companies, yet when you gave me the website URL's to them, none of them had your name on it in the staff page. So I contacted them and that pissed you off. Then later you admit that you bullshitted me and were pissed, but that you forgave me.
Etc. Etc.
Therefore, everything you say is suspect. I've never understood the logic behind making up stories while boasting. What do you gain from that? Can you explain logically?
Do you know the parable of the "Boy who cried wolf"? If not, you should read it. It's a children's parable. If you do, then why did you never learn from it?
Don't you know that hearing BS stories is very annoying, esp for a truth seeker? If so, then why do you do it? I'm not impressed by BS stories at all.
Moreover, why did you ask me and Ladislav if we were interested in investing $7,000 or $8,000 USD into your grocery store venture? Were you serious about that?
Look at the situation logically. You have no proven track record in running a successful business. You have no resume. No character references, no professional references. No one can vouch for your character, work ethic or enterpreneurial skills. No sensible person would invest money in some business venture you come up with out of nowhere. GET REAL. I wouldn't even invest $100 in a random scheme you come up with, let alone $7,000. What were you thinking? What were you trying to pull?
If me and Ladislav were stupid, we might be out of $7,000 right now. I didn't even have that much at the time. But again, even if I did, I wouldn't even invest $50 in your scheme, since you have no track record, no skills, no experience, no credibility, no references, no provable accomplishments, etc. You simply expect me to believe whatever you say and fork over a ton of money, just because you say "Trust me. I have a good system that will work!"???
Come on. Get real! This is the real world. Money isn't free and isn't easy.
Why do you call yourself Indigoheart? No indigo would BS so many stories like that, and try to swindle others out of $7,000. An indigo is deep, spiritual, evolved, aware, not interested in fakery or BS, etc. So how can you call yourself one?
These actions are highly illogical. Care to explain or justify them?
99.9% of con men and wannabes sound like they are sincere. There's no way you would know for certain without vetting his character or personal references. Just saying you could feel his vibes or know instinctively is bullshit. Anyone that asks for 7 G's up front is full of it. This filipino dip shit wouldn't even get past his opening line with me before I walked away and ignored his ass. The fact that he almost conned you is somewhat amusing though. I suppose if you had 7k to give away you'd be singing a different song today.Winston wrote:Btw, just to state for the record. When that guy asked me and Ladislav for a $7,000 investment in his grocery store business, I didn't get the idea that he was trying to scam me. I got the vibe that he was seriously looking for a business partner to help him get started.
