In America, every girl has a boyfriend

[kai1275]

HAHA! Maybe, but I chose correctly, so I got away with it clean! Real recognizes real!

What country is she from? How long have you been married?

China. Hunan province to be exact. We are doing the K1 visa and I spend time with her and her family whenever I can, I will bring her here to the US next month or so. We have been together 1 year and 1 month now.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

HAHA! Maybe, but I chose correctly, so I got away with it clean! Real recognizes real!

What country is she from? How long have you been married?

China. Hunan province to be exact. We are doing the K1 visa and I spend time with her and her family whenever I can, I will bring her here to the US next month or so. We have been together 1 year and 1 month now.

A fool and his honey will soon part. You should make sure that she parts with the TV and her stateside peers A-$AP!
Stateside relations with a FOB FW sponsored or not can be imminent to failure.

[kai1275]

HAHA! Maybe, but I chose correctly, so I got away with it clean! Real recognizes real!

What country is she from? How long have you been married?

China. Hunan province to be exact. We are doing the K1 visa and I spend time with her and her family whenever I can, I will bring her here to the US next month or so. We have been together 1 year and 1 month now.

A fool and his honey will soon part. You should make sure that she parts with the TV and her stateside peers A-$AP!
Stateside relations with a FOB FW sponsored or not can be imminent to failure.

Naw. If I was a gambler, I take that bet. The problem was AW all of them rich, poor, middle, whatever! I'm not going to start going extreme like the rest of you that may not be able to keep a wife. I let my ex-wife go under my own, not the other way around. I kept my house and cars. Not the other way around. I did not fall off the turnip truck last week.

For all those that do not know how awesome a mainland Chinese woman is, that is your loss. I'm smiling from ear to ear. Life is good when you do not have to fight over stupid small
things with a woman. My biggest secret is Jesus Christ and how he has incredibly blessed me in a short period of time. I'm sticking to his plan and things will be great.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

HAHA! Maybe, but I chose correctly, so I got away with it clean! Real recognizes real!

What country is she from? How long have you been married?

China. Hunan province to be exact. We are doing the K1 visa and I spend time with her and her family whenever I can, I will bring her here to the US next month or so. We have been together 1 year and 1 month now.

A fool and his honey will soon part. You should make sure that she parts with the TV and her stateside peers A-$AP!
Stateside relations with a FOB FW sponsored or not can be imminent to failure.

Naw. If I was a gambler, I take that bet. The problem was AW all of them rich, poor, middle, whatever! I'm not going to start going extreme like the rest of you that may not be able to keep a wife. I let my ex-wife go under my own, not the other way around. I kept my house and cars. Not the other way around. I did not fall off the turnip truck last week.

For all those that do not know how awesome a mainland Chinese woman is, that is your loss. I'm smiling from ear to ear. Life is good when you do not have to fight over stupid small
things with a woman. My biggest secret is Jesus Christ and how he has incredibly blessed me in a short period of time. I'm sticking to his plan and things will be great.

I want you to be happy. Please believe me!! I just don't like the environment you're bringing her into. Sorry for trolling you on that!

[aozora13]

Kai,

E was saying that most women from countries that are more friendly too men become 'americanzied' and would start demanding most from you and become used to her 'status' as a woman in the US. However, I can agree with you since you are going to married to a foreign-born woman, divorce will be about 20 percent of the time and if you know Chinese (Mandarin as othe dialects are difficult to learn) you can have her know limited English and have a good life with her.

I do agree with E (not with the divorce laws per se) but with the economy of this country, it does not seem to be a good place to raise a family and if you have a child, it is difficult to raise him/her correctly in America's decling/moral corrupt culture.

I wish the best for you as I think if you are able to be a good relationship and do well in a recession/depressionary cycle, you can be in a long-term relationship with her and possibly be able to have a child (if you wanted).

[kai1275]

Kai,

E was saying that most women from countries that are more friendly too men become 'americanzied' and would start demanding most from you and become used to her 'status' as a woman in the US. However, I can agree with you since you are going to married to a foreign-born woman, divorce will be about 20 percent of the time and if you know Chinese (Mandarin as othe dialects are difficult to learn) you can have her know limited English and have a good life with her.

I do agree with E (not with the divorce laws per se) but with the economy of this country, it does not seem to be a good place to raise a family and if you have a child, it is difficult to raise him/her correctly in America's decling/moral corrupt culture.

I wish the best for you as I think if you are able to be a good relationship and do well in a recession/depressionary cycle, you can be in a long-term relationship with her and possibly be able to have a child (if you wanted).

Her values line up exactly with mine, in fact she hates feminism as much as I do. She speaks, reads, and writes English and we have no problem communicating 99% of the time.
Financially we are good to go and have a great future with a plan for a family.

The only thing is like you said, America becoming a cesspool of filth, debauchery, and other morasses of sin/disorder. The random shootings and terrorism are of some concern... We really do not want to raise kids in it to be honest, but we have talked about home schooling them as well as private schools as well. We have more time to look into it, but it's something we can figure out I'm sure.

Alot of a child's success depends upon the parents doing the work to raise them well, regardless of schools etc. My mother and father did that with me and I turned out very well, my wife and I want to replicate that success as much as possible, especially if we are fortunate enough to be able to afford it. It's getting too difficult to live here without a certain amount of money.

[jamesbond]

I dont think they all have boyfriends. Most of them do. The thing about boyfriends is, after a woman breaks up with one guy, she simply selects one of the other suckers who were hovering in her orbit. Women always have 2 or more guys in a back up rotation.

At any time she can pull the trigger on her boyfriend and slide the new guy in there the very next day without skipping a beat. They used to call that Monkey-Branching, but these bitches dont even need to attempt to grasp for a new branch. They were holding several branches the whole time.

This makes a lot of sense, women do seem to have guys that are "hovering" around them. When she breaks up with her boyfriend, she can simply insert one of her "orbiting" guys into place and make him her new boyfriend.

It's incredible how many choices women have in America when it comes to dating.

[mattyman]

"This makes a lot of sense, women do seem to have guys that are "hovering" around them. When she breaks up with her boyfriend, she can simply insert one of her "orbiting" guys into place and make him her new boyfriend. "

I've noticed this to a degree, particularly amongst ones that frequent bars. One's that appear to take their relative, observable 'position of power' for-granted, not very encouraging.

On the flip side, how many of you have noticed men who have a 'queue' of girls that fancy them?

OK, if it's all about casual relations, sex and short-term fun, then maybe it's a question of the 'highest bidder',of-course the selection criteria will be incredibly shallow? If the selection criteria is based on short-term superficial attributes, then of course it will appear that she has a 'position of power'.

All that happens if attraction and selection are based on more superficial-level, largely impersonal and general attributes, then it's a question of survival of the fittest, and thus leads to monopolistic conditions.

If on the other hand one's attraction and selection are based on deeper, more personal criteria, then potentially everyone has a niche in the dating market (how it was in the past, and to a greater degree in many other places).

I personally think that the over-emphasis on sex and casual relations is a major part of the problem, as is the shallowness associated with it.

I know very well where you guys are coming from in this, but seriously, do you want to know women who appear to take everything like that for granted?

[bladed11]

The girls guys hover over are average at best. Most of them need a suit of makeup and shallow clothing to make them feel superior but it's a mask. Underneath is a pathetic empty sad nothing. Needs to use sex to get to where she wants to go and calls it liberation of the female. Looks like females are more oppressed than ever and who's oppressing them? They are women are oppressing themselves. Womans suffrage? I dont know my great grandfathers were pretty decent to their wives. I guess anything for an excuse to be shallow and a slut. The grand scapegoat for their own bad deeds

[Jester]

It's unbelievable how easy women have it here in the dating scene in the US. Women who look like they were hatched from an alien egg, seem to have no problems meeting guys and getting boyfriends.

Good looking women here in the US are almost always in a relationship with a guy (serial monogamy) and are hardly ever single.

[Jester]

I know this first hand. Any time it seems like a girls is interested, u check her profile, and it is a no go. Without fail. Makes me mad.

How about when women flirt with you and later on you find out that she has a boyfriend! Are there any young, good looking girls in America who are available?

Maybe you have to teach high school to catch them when they are interested as they first come of age?

I don't know the answer, I'm asking.

[jamesbond]

It seems as if once you show interest in women, they are no longer interested in you.

[NorthAmericanguy]

It's funny when I meet ugly girls and fat girls who have boyfriends here in America. Sometimes, their boyfriends are good looking and I am thinking to myself, "how does a fat girl or ugly girl get herself a good looking boyfriend?"

I also meet single mothers who seem to have no problem meeting guys and getting boyfriends.

It's unbelievable how easy women have it here in the dating scene in the US. Women who look like they were hatched from an alien egg, seem to have no problems meeting guys and getting boyfriends.

Good looking women here in the US are almost always in a relationship with a guy (serial monogamy) and are hardly ever single.

Men in the US need to travel to foreign countries not just to meet nice feminine women but also just to find women who don't have boyfriends!

It's true, but what I have noticed is that women are able to attract men up into about 35 or 40. And the thing is, if a woman isn't married and she's not in shape, she's pretty much going to be singe for the rest of her life, especially if she's a fat black woman. So the average life expectancy of a woman is 70, so that means at least 30 years of being single and alone.

I have seen this played out through so many American women including my own mother and grandmother (though they never got fat). My mom and grandmom in their youth were solid 8's in terms of looks, but after their marriages ended both of them were single for the rest of their lives and fell into obscurity.

My grandmothers life was just a sad ending. The last 10-15 years of her life she just holed herself up in her room smoking cigarettes and drinking while watching soap operas, The Golden Girls and the nightly news. One morning in 1990 she just never woke up and her son found her dead. Her former husband (my grandpa) was alive and kicking painting the town with a younger woman and traveling to Mexico and the Bahamas for vacation.

At the end of the day the man wins and gets the more fulfilling life. Sure women get to have lots of fun and get to party it up and do what they want but they only have a 10 year run (age 20 to 30) to do it then they get checked my mother nature. It's actually funny to talk to former wild single women in their 30's because it's like they woke up from a dream and they're clearly not happy with their present reality (i.e., no husband, single mom, working a s*** job, faded looks).

We men on the other hand gain status as we age, we earn more money as we age, and we can bang hot 20 year olds until the day we die.

[Novem]

Yeah, this does seem to be a trend. Whenever I'd approach a female I thought was attractive and wasn't completely full of herself she already had a boyfriend, or was in some other dude's rotation intentionally or unintentionally. I have a personal rule that every girl has at least 1-3 guys orbiting around her whether she knows it or not. She can pretty much have a 'boyfriend' whenever she wants but it comes down to her preferences. The girls with the worst attitudes will of course use that line to filter out the decent guys from the morally bankrupt ones she wants to have fun and sleep with.

[ringspun]

Woman without a man is like a fish without water... I totally believe most women have a guy already in the background or a simped out man.