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GoingAwol
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There's a cute Belgian exchange student in one of my classes

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She's cute, she speaks perfect English, and seems nice enough. I have made eye contact with her several times and she smiled at me. There's only one problem..... I don't really feel comfortable approaching her because there's this guy that works for the international program at the college that is always with her. It's ridiculous... This guy is up her ass 24/7. He sits beside her in class and anytime I see her on campus he is with her. The weirdest thing is like I said she speaks perfect English and I don't see why she needs an employee from the college to babysit her when she's on campus. I wouldn't be at all surprised if this international department guy has the hots for her and wants to be a clock blocker because he wants her for himself. He is slightly balding, shorty, chubby, nerdy looking, and is in his 30s. He is the poster child for the type of guys that would be incel as hell in America. My Spanish professor (That's the class I have with her) has evidently noticed that everyone kind of shies away from that girl because today she encouraged the whole class to talk to her and ask questions. I think she did this because its very odd when guys aren't talking to a cute foreign girl. And that's exactly what is happening! Nobody approaches her because that guy is up her ass. It's sad because this guy is robbing her of her chance to meet people and make connections. It just doesn't make any sense.



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Re: There's a cute Belgian exchange student in one of my cla

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She'll probably get sick of him eventually and find a way to shake him off.

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She'll probably file a false rape complaint against him sooner or later.

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GoingAwol wrote:She's cute, she speaks perfect English, and seems nice enough. I have made eye contact with her several times and she smiled at me. There's only one problem..... I don't really feel comfortable approaching her because there's this guy that works for the international program at the college that is always with her. It's ridiculous... This guy is up her a** 24/7. He sits beside her in class and anytime I see her on campus he is with her.

Nobody approaches her because that guy is up her a**. It's sad because this guy is robbing her of her chance to meet people and make connections. It just doesn't make any sense.
This just goes to show you how few good looking girls there are in the United States. This guy who is escorting her around campus like she is a child, is probably trying to get into her pants and does not want any guy to get near her.

The sad part is, this guy (who you said is somewhat overweight and unattractive) may never even get NEAR an attractive girl like this again in his life! :shock:
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GoingAwol wrote:She's cute, she speaks perfect English, and seems nice enough. I have made eye contact with her several times and she smiled at me. There's only one problem..... I don't really feel comfortable approaching her because there's this guy that works for the international program at the college that is always with her. It's ridiculous... This guy is up her a** 24/7. He sits beside her in class and anytime I see her on campus he is with her. The weirdest thing is like I said she speaks perfect English and I don't see why she needs an employee from the college to babysit her when she's on campus. I wouldn't be at all surprised if this international department guy has the hots for her and wants to be a clock blocker because he wants her for himself. He is slightly balding, shorty, chubby, nerdy looking, and is in his 30s. He is the poster child for the type of guys that would be incel as hell in America. My Spanish professor (That's the class I have with her) has evidently noticed that everyone kind of shies away from that girl because today she encouraged the whole class to talk to her and ask questions. I think she did this because its very odd when guys aren't talking to a cute foreign girl. And that's exactly what is happening! Nobody approaches her because that guy is up her a**. It's sad because this guy is robbing her of her chance to meet people and make connections. It just doesn't make any sense.
He is slightly balding, shorty, chubby, nerdy looking, and is in his 30s. He is the poster child for the type of guys that would be incel as hell in America.
Or maybe instead of sitting around envying other men who have had the courage to talk to women, he got up off his butt and actually talked to a woman! There's nothing wrong with being short, bald, chubby and nerdy looking. Don't you think that is a tiny bit misandrist? This is your fellow man. He is not your enemy. Think about it. He is simply doing what he is supposed to be doing, and that is going after the woman he wants. Why would you fault him for that? If she belongs to him then you will just have to find another woman (or rather let a woman find you, because first it is the woman's choice). There are thousands of women likely on that campus. There is no need for you to turn things into a competition.

Don't believe there are a limited number of available women; the scarcity principle, because that will make you desperate. You must believe in terms of abundance. Remember there are 3.5 billion women on this earth. That's plenty of women. So relax.
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Re: There's a cute Belgian exchange student in one of my cla

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Adama,

The problem is that in America you end up believing that there is scarcity of women. That short bald dude probably has the hots for that girl and is cock blocking every other guy and hoping that Belgium girl will like him for helping her out too much. That's the problem with some ..no MANY American men. They DO too much for girls HOPING to get some poontang but that's all bull shit. Why?
Because it's the MOST insincere thing to do. The Belgium girl probably knows it and wouldn't give any affection to this short bald guy. In many ways I feel sorry for him.

Going Awol,

Who cares if that guys is up her ass? Are they official couple? I think not. Just go up to her and say your interested in getting to know her. DO it in front of him...SHE has to choose . If you can't go direct than go up to her say something great about Belgium but honestly it's better to go directly because it shows your intention where as the short bald guy is HOPING by just being herd around that girl. Even if she rejected you at least you got it out there. Guess what other guys with maybe better game might follow after and that bald dude probably has to go home to jerk off .

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chanta76 wrote:The problem is that in America you end up believing that there is scarcity of women.
There is a scarcity of good looking, physically fit women in America. The US has the highest obesity rate in the world. Also, how many good looking women do you see on a regular basis in America?
Compare that to how many good looking women there are in places like Russia, Ukraine, Poland, Brazil and Columbia.
chanta76 wrote:Who cares if that guys is up her a**? Are they official couple? I think not. Just go up to her and say your interested in getting to know her. DO it in front of him...SHE has to choose.

That bald dude probably has to go home to jerk off.
:shock: :lol: :P
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You could go sit next to her and talk to her, and ask the two of them, "Are you two going out?" If she says no, you could ask her out right there in front of him. If he says 'no' and you ask her out, then he's basically given you permission to ask her out anyway.

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Re: There's a cute Belgian exchange student in one of my cla

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No girls could stand this guy or no one could stand this guy so close up. How strange the scene from your picturing it! Have the two bothered the entire class and teachers?

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Re: There's a cute Belgian exchange student in one of my cla

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chanta76 wrote:Adama,

The problem is that in America you end up believing that there is scarcity of women. That short bald dude probably has the hots for that girl and is cock blocking every other guy and hoping that Belgium girl will like him for helping her out too much. That's the problem with some ..no MANY American men. They DO too much for girls HOPING to get some poontang but that's all bull shit. Why?
Because it's the MOST insincere thing to do. The Belgium girl probably knows it and wouldn't give any affection to this short bald guy. In many ways I feel sorry for him.

Going Awol,

Who cares if that guys is up her a**? Are they official couple? I think not. Just go up to her and say your interested in getting to know her. DO it in front of him...SHE has to choose . If you can't go direct than go up to her say something great about Belgium but honestly it's better to go directly because it shows your intention where as the short bald guy is HOPING by just being herd around that girl. Even if she rejected you at least you got it out there. Guess what other guys with maybe better game might follow after and that bald dude probably has to go home to jerk off .
Even if he is cockblocking, so what? I mean, do you think you would cockblock too, if you believed in one-itis? It may be wrong, but I don't get why it matters. Besides, even though we know and love GoingAwol, does that mean the bald man has stopped being a man or a person? There's no reason to hate him. He is just doing what probably any number of men would do.

GoingAwol should just go introduce himself to her and make conversation, even with dude there. What can he do? Introduce yourself to both of them. Make small talk. Then maybe you can even ask if they are together.

I introduce myself to women in my surroundings all the time. There is no big deal. First the ice must be broken by the man. At the point if the woman is interested the chase will begin.

But from the sounds of it though, she is not interested, cause GoingAwol hasn't posted on any signals which he's received from her. Or either he can't pick them up, which would be a tragedy.
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