Why is it ok for women to bash thin guys.

[Maki]

Speaking as a thin guy with a small body frame it gets rather old in America when 90% of them always tell you to GET BIGGER. Why is it ok in America for women to bash skinny guys even if they got some muscles like let's say Bruce Lee in his prime. It just pisses me off to no end that almost all Americans in general look at me like I'm a lower being because I'm the ONLY male in America that doesn't want to be bulky.

I'm naturally thin guy who works with what god gave him. Why the hell can't America and mostly women let me be happy with that if I'm a strong skinny guy? Sick of comments like "EAT MORE", "BULK UP" or "GO TO THE GYM".

I say I'm one of these natural thin types that workout but not to get big, but I'm really starting to have body image problems because America just doesn't stop hammering men with body images and women are so damn shallow.

This is more my body frame natural type.


Sadly FAT American women want this


Pretty much 100% all women who are 9s desire this type


Screw t, from now on the next time some woman feels the need to comment about my weight or height I'm GONNA DESTROY HER SELF ESTEEM like they do to pretty much all men. If she's fat I'm gonna comment on her fat ass gross body. I'm no longer going to give American women any respect at all. America really has mentally raped me to the point I understand why some American men snap and beat their women. US women never stop mentally abusing guys.

[Dogboy86]

It dosnt matter what body type or size you are. AW will always find something wrong with you and attempt to tear you down with it. I am that big beefy guy, they want me more toned and hairless. I have body hair and this is a disqualifying factor. There is no man that can please them and you will be better off not to even think of them as women. Find a girl from any where else in the world just to talk with, drop your feelings of inadequacy and just talk with her, even if she is just a friend she will sooth your mind. Worked for me...

[pete98146]

I feel your pain! I remember graduating from highschool and I was 6'3 and weighed 170lbs. Thank goodness I eventually filled out but I can tell you that I got ZERO attention until I hit the 190lbs around age 22.

Let's face it, American women can afford to be picky. Try dating asian women, many of them prefer a slender guy (especially Japanese ladies).

[Jackal]

Why is it "okay" for fat AWs to insult thin, fit men? Obviously, it's not "okay" from any ordinary moral point of view.

Why do they do it? Because thin men make them feel insecure about how fat they are.

In just about every culture, men are expected to be a bit bigger than the women. AWs want men so huge that they will dwarf the AW's own fat-ass hugeness! They should really try dating elephants. I think that might be the perfect match for them...

[pete98146]

Why is it "okay" for fat AWs to insult thin, fit men? Obviously, it's not "okay" from any ordinary moral point of view.

Why do they do it? Because thin men make them feel insecure about how fat they are.

In just about every culture, men are expected to be a bit bigger than the women. AWs want men so huge that they will dwarf the AW's own fat-ass hugeness! They should really try dating elephants. I think that might be the perfect match for them...

That's a good point! I see these young teenage girls running around and they are pushing 170lbs. I doubt they would be comfortable with a slender guy.....but then again you never know, she'd get all of his leftovers

[have2fly]

Huh! I am a big guy, but do have a belly now. Again, due to the culture around me previously and my American buddies at college were telling me I just need to lose some weight. Well, I did work out like crazy, I was feeding myself fat-burning pills to the point that I weakened my health quite a bit, I looked amazing - beefed up, but not too toned, not too fat, not too skinny - just perfect by all means. I even went tanning, I bought the best shirts and T-shirts, I even purchased PUA training seminars, DVD's, I memorized opening lines, banter lines etc etc etc... Nope. I was only made fun of, I was played, no girl would give me attention besides European girls. American girls need to be challenged, they want a guy they can't have, they want a guy who does not give a shit about them, they want a guy that "looks cool" and "acts cool" in their understanding - you know those guys, you've seen them if you've been to college - those guys drink until they puke, they get into fights, they yell at people and hit some coke or weed. In other words - those guys are considered "LOSERS" in any other country besides USA!

So no, skinny guys are considered normal, it's the fat guys that are usually awkward in Europe and other countries. Guys that are big are only big due to anabolics and weight lifting they are doing. Once they brake a leg - those guys lose muscles within a few weeks and get extremely FAT because their endocrine system is used to spending huge amounts of energy for years, so it will not sustain a body which won't spend as many calories.

By the way, that point also made me remember one girl I know, she used to work at the gym and ran everyday for a few miles and did some basic weights at work. Then she broke her leg, well she gained 15 pounds in 1 month!!!

Every time that I used to go to the gym reminds me of how terrible life in the U.S. is - almost everyone who is skinny ABSOLUTELY HAS to exercise to keep themselves that way! While in Europe or MOST other countries up to 80% of people never exercise or just do a recreational soccer/tennis game on the weekend or biking. Therefore, girls are NATURALLY beautiful in E Europe, without spending half of their life at the gym and then pounding burgers, chips and pizza.

[lavezzi]

Something that really infuriates me:

If you go to any feminist forum or website, you're guaranteed to see at least one women making the complaint that females portrayed in the media are too skinny, and how it makes men have unrealistic expectations of women's bodies. Implying that it's men's fault many women are becoming anorexic.

I have never heard any men say they desire an unreasonably skinny girl, only a girl that is not unreasonably overweight. For a woman to achieve this she would need to eat less and exercise sparingly.

I've heard countless women say they desire muscular guys. From what I understand, for a man to achieve this he would need to spend an hour every day lifting agonizingly heavy weights, eat six meals a day in which he'd have to count how many calories he's consuming and spend thousands on nutritional supplements.

How come no one complains about women's unrealistic expectations of men's bodies? Yet they fume about a fictional reversal which is really just women being narcissistic cunts?

[Simoun]

I wouldn't bother trying to conform to some woman's image of beauty. Do what makes you happy. Most of these women won't lift a finger (or drop a bonbon) to amend their body figure to satisfy you.

[magnum]

I went from 300 lbs to 180 lbs, women still didn't pay attention to me so I continued to get lower and lower body fat, to such a point that I was unhealthy and weighed in at 155 lbs at 6" to try and get the attention of women at 9% body fat and not enough muscle mass.



only JUST now, at 172 with a lower % body fat then when i was at 180lbs am I getting even a "look" MAYBE once in a wile.


I'm as pissed off and have as big of a body image problem as you do, but then I realized why not date a foreign women who will try to get in shape WITH me.... when I dated this chinese girl, she was willing to go running with me and she HATED it, but she was willing to go... it was kinda funny after a wile she decided to try and just make out with me for a hour to distract me from the fact we went to the park to run.


Point being is, you should always strive to get in better shape, but for what YOU want.

I'm sick of seeing fat morons having some kind of mutated idea that foreign women don't care if your in shape or not, trust me they don't like your belly fat or sagging ass, they just respect what you have to offer and think about your personality first.


Do your self and future wife a favor, get in shape, trust me, she won't complain.


but that doesn't mean you need to be perfect like femanazies require, god knows the pains i've put my self through....

When I get married my wife is going to exercise with me always.

[eurobrat]

Perfect?

The Feminazi's want more than your body they want your wallet too and only if it is loaded. Then they want your soul and not in a good way.

I also went from 280lbs down to 175 at 5'10" so I know what it's like to work hard loose a bunch of weight and it does nothing for your love life.

Go abroad, AMEN.

[E_Irizarry]

Perfect?

The Feminazi's want more than your body they want your wallet too and only if it is loaded. Then they want your soul and not in a good way.

I also went from 280lbs down to 175 at 5'10" so I know what it's like to work hard loose a bunch of weight and it does nothing for your love life.

Go abroad, AMEN.

Your shit was fat? Uh ah. Really??

As for me personally, I was 360 at 6'2 (I stopped at 6'3" growing) when I was 17.
I would have a pot of spaghetti with caked-on melted American government cheese with ground chuck red meat nightly then go to sleep on it.
I ate Hostess pudding pies (when they were out in the 90s) as if it were vitamins for the health-conscious ones.
I ate chocolate, vanilla, peach, blueberry Hostess pies for breakfast (and I had halitosis from not brushing my teeth after eating that shit for weeks at a time).

Then I used to shag Entermann's and Friehoffer's Danish Almond Rings, Louisiana crunch cake, and devil's chocolate cake every other night.

I was f***ing disgusting. I had manboobs like my boy Mr. Pregnant from YouTube (but worse actually, I was actually able to suck on them).

The only thing I knew about water was that it was H20 and that my former fat ass had water weight.

At that former weight, I had stretch marks on my belly that looked like a topographical map where the legend of the upstream rivers were in red.

And my former love handles looked like wings on the Decepticon's The Sweeps sides. More like Grimace from McDonald's actually.

It had gotten so bad that one day I sat down at the computer and my 5x-sized shirt split open on the sides from the bottom to the armpit of the shirt; that's how much my gut had protruded
when I had sat down.

I was that way because I had a dysfunctional-ass adolescence living at home with my Americanized mother whom subscribed to feminism and entitlement of "I work the graveyard shift to put a roof over your head so you do what I ask of you whenever I ask of you!". And she did. To the point that I ended up staying up to 2am some mornings working on homework because she had me slaving and doing chores all night and every night. Food and R&B music were my only escapade during my adolescence.

[eurobrat]

All throughout high school I was fat, 280lbs was my max.

My mom sent my fat ass to boarding school in Utah, I lost 50lbs in 6 months.

After I got out I lost another 60lbs in another 6 months.

There you go voila! Never did jack shit for my love life.

[jcris7]

I'll throw in my own anecdotal evidence on this one. I was (and still am) in shape and lean -- not muscly, bulky or freakishly big. I thank all years of playing tennis for that. Body fat was lowest during my college years, around 8% -- I had decent ab definition. I'm not big boned or built large either. I'm only 5'9" - my frame build was similar to Bruce Lee's, just not as ripped. I was attending USC in LA, which is obviously big on athletics, and some great looking girls, but the deck was stacked against me. A lot of the good looking females were always going for the tall, 6 foot+ muscly jock-types with the alpha-douche personalities we all loathe.

I felt like I didn't even exist at times -- wasn't pulling a lot of female attention. Even if I did manage to get dates or lays, they weren't with the girls I really wanted, or they were easy sluts in the Trojan Marching Band. (Played in the band all 4 years).

Point is - even if you are decent looking and in shape, doesn't mean that America will be a sexual paradise, because it wasn't for me. The Philippines in comparison, even with all of its corruption and poverty-stricken demographics, is a p***y and babe haven compared to the dating and romance wasteland of America. Besides, I like how I look, and that is what counts the most. I will drive myself insane trying to match female taste in what is an attractive male figure. f**k em'. Guys who work out to get obsessively big "to get ladies" is the biggest form of supplication, and approval-seeking pussdom ever.

[well-informed]

@Jcris7

So i guess the USC football team we're the ones getting the p***y right

[jcris7]

@Jcris7

So i guess the USC football team we're the ones getting the p***y right

Your guess is as good as mine, but we both know as Tom Leykis listeners, that women are attracted to money, power and FAME. It just so happened to be when I was going to USC it was during the powerhouse Pete Carroll years, so the football team had heavy recognition and visibility. (I was playing in the TMB when the team was in the 2005 National Championship game at the Orange Bowl) The football team was probably enjoying all of the side perks that came with it -- including their choice of the hottest women on campus. I'm sure the team starters each had their own stable of women. Don't get me wrong though - there were some hotties in the band & pageantry, but they were either taken, or snatched up fast. If you were in the band at 'SC, you we're pretty cool too, not a band geek that everyone made fun of. The band was rowdy, people boozed it up in the AM hours before the game and a lot of us hosted/attended some wild parties on campus after gameday. In fact, I remember hearing through one of the band TAs that some of the football players were intimidated by the bandsmen. A lot of us we're hardcore, didn't take shit from people, shared a strong camaraderie and generally raised hell around campus. That was 2004 though. Heard its a different band now.