Opinion on race preferences

[Iawesome60]

I want to know why do people care about race when they're looking for a partner? It's WAY worse to care about race than someone's face, body, personality, etc. When I'm looking for a partner, I do not care about race at all. I'm attracted to women of all possible skin colors, eye and hair colors. I would feel mortified if I turn down a woman because she was a certain race or if I say things like "you're attractive for a (insert race) woman." NOOOOOOOOO! You're being racist. When I get married and my wife has children, our daughter(s) and/or son(s) will not have this problem. They can date whatever race they like (within or outside). The only thing I care about is how they're treating our daughter(s) and/or son(s).

If you find someone unattractive (it happens sometimes):
1. Don't you dare consider race as your reason
2. No name calling (like saying certain people of a race look like gorillas, apes, ugly, etc)
3. Have legitimate reasons (face, teeth, overweight, obese, personality, NOT RACE, etc)

Edit: I typed the original post because I read something from somewhere. This occurred months ago. I didn't like what they typed because I thought they were blindly stereotyping a race. I respect everyone's preferences and we have the privilege to have them! I just don't like blindly stereotyping a race by using affronts.

[E_Irizarry]

Try explaining that to the I-Roc-Z Italian-Americans in Bayonne, Howard Beach, Astoria, and southern Staten Island.

Also while you are at it, try explaining that to the Somalians that come to America and to the American-born Chinese that live in NYC that wouldn't dare be caught in public with a Black American unless he himself/she herself is obese.

[Rock]

I want to know why do people care about race when they're looking for a partner? It's WAY worse to care about race than someone's face, body, personality, etc. When i'm looking for a partner, I do not care about race at all. I'm attracted to women of all possible skin colors, eye and hair colors. I would feel mortified if I turn down a woman because she was a certain race or if I say things like "you're attractive for a (insert race) woman." NOOOOOOOOO! You're being racist. When I get married and my wife has children, our daughter(s) and/or son(s) will not have this problem. They can date whatever race they like (within or outside). The only thing I care about is how they're treating our daughter(s) and/or son(s).

If you find someone unattractive (it happens sometimes):
1. Don't you dare consider race as your reason
2. No name calling (like saying certain people of a race look like gorillas, apes, ugly, etc)
3. Have legitimate reasons (face, teeth, overweight, obese, personality, NOT RACE, etc)

I agree with you about the blind and ignorant stereotyping. All races/ethcicities have members who are universally considered very attractive and very ugly. That's a fact of life. But when it comes to choosing a partner, I can understand why certain people would gravitate towards a certain race based on their own tastes. The fact is, certain characteristics are much more common for some races/ethnicities than others. So I can understand why guys might focus their searches on races/ethnicities which have tend to have the characteristics they like. For example:

1. If you like big bubble butts, black girls and Brazilians are a good bet. Chinese women from PRC are not.
2. If smooth black hair and soft and soft light toned skin are your thing, NE Asian girls are a good choice. Black girls are not.
3. If you are into tall leggy blonds, then Scandinavia and Slavic countries would be a great hunting ground. Asia would not be.

The default spec for women choosing men is for mates from similar race/culture/backgrounds as themselves. So Cambodian girls probably prefer Cambodian men and Polish women likely prefer Polish (or at least Slavic) men, all else equal. But there are exceptions to that. For example, a lot of Caucasian girls are specifically interested in black guys, esp. western black guys. There's not much anyone can do about that. Its a personal choice.

Like it or not, when it comes to intimate relationships, people are free to choose who they want to.

[onezero4u]

why is there such an emphasis on racism....you can be racist as hell and still be a great person.

i could care less honestly as long as people treat me good.

i have had pretty racist white and black friends before...as long as there not hateful or violent, i could care less.

[?]

I want to know why do people care about race when they're looking for a partner? It's WAY worse to care about race than someone's face, body, personality, etc. When i'm looking for a partner, I do not care about race at all. I'm attracted to women of all possible skin colors, eye and hair colors. I would feel mortified if I turn down a woman because she was a certain race or if I say things like "you're attractive for a (insert race) woman." NOOOOOOOOO! You're being racist. When I get married and my wife has children, our daughter(s) and/or son(s) will not have this problem. They can date whatever race they like (within or outside). The only thing I care about is how they're treating our daughter(s) and/or son(s).

If you find someone unattractive (it happens sometimes):
1. Don't you dare consider race as your reason
2. No name calling (like saying certain people of a race look like gorillas, apes, ugly, etc)
3. Have legitimate reasons (face, teeth, overweight, obese, personality, NOT RACE, etc)

One thing I realized is the more countries I travel to the less I notice the race of people. Theres beautiful women in every country so the whole world is kinda of a giant smorgasbord so why limit yourself to just one race. When I lived england the best looking women there just happened to be white/black oreos in London so thats who I drooled over most of the time when I was there. Lately, I'm really into asians but that could change any time. Keep an open mind and you'll have a rich and rewarding social life with lots of friends.

Incidently, I've always have had a crush on Sade, she's half english and half nigerian.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaTcYa2-Q10

[Iawesome60]

Try explaining that to the I-Roc-Z Italian-Americans in Bayonne, Howard Beach, Astoria, and southern Staten Island.

Also why you are at it, try explaining that to the Somalians that come to America and to the American-born Chinese that live in NYC that wouldn't dare be caught in public with a Black American unless he himself/she herself is obese.

It would be very difficult to convince that they're wrong. To everyone, I hope I wasn't too harsh on my first post. We all have our preferences and it should be respected. I just don't like it when people say a certain race looks ugly AND (key word and) says things like (they look like gorillas, nasty hair, etc).

[ErikHeaven]

Sade is fine. And she aged like wine indeed.

[keius]

why is there such an emphasis on racism....you can be racist as hell and still be a great person.

i could care less honestly as long as people treat me good.

i have had pretty racist white and black friends before...as long as there not hateful or violent, i could care less.

Couldn't agree with you more.
Like others have said before, everyone's racist to some extent. In some ways, i am as well.
It's just another small piece of being human.

BTW, it's "i couldn't care less". Sorry, it's just one of the very few grammar issues that always bothers me

[djfourmoney]

why is there such an emphasis on racism....you can be racist as hell and still be a great person.

i could care less honestly as long as people treat me good.

i have had pretty racist white and black friends before...as long as there not hateful or violent, i could care less.

Couldn't agree with you more.
Like others have said before, everyone's racist to some extent. In some ways, i am as well.
It's just another small piece of being human.

BTW, it's "i couldn't care less". Sorry, it's just one of the very few grammar issues that always bothers me

I tend to agree only that we constantly have false equals. Considering the history of this country and how White America either wants to celebrate the Confederacy or bury it to the point of re-inventing history. At least South Africa has sort of come to terms with it, though it still has problems that are mostly economic. Its about oppression though and we constantly are told to feel story for the Nazi Holocaust but Slavery/Jim Crow was somehow less worst and has had a much wider impact on Black People as a whole.

As for women though, I don't care really. Just as long as she's pretty cause I ain't ugly.

[NorthAmericanguy]

I want to know why do people care about race when they're looking for a partner? It's WAY worse to care about race than someone's face, body, personality, etc. When i'm looking for a partner, I do not care about race at all. I'm attracted to women of all possible skin colors, eye and hair colors. I would feel mortified if I turn down a woman because she was a certain race or if I say things like "you're attractive for a (insert race) woman." NOOOOOOOOO! You're being racist. When I get married and my wife has children, our daughter(s) and/or son(s) will not have this problem. They can date whatever race they like (within or outside). The only thing I care about is how they're treating our daughter(s) and/or son(s).

If you find someone unattractive (it happens sometimes):
1. Don't you dare consider race as your reason
2. No name calling (like saying certain people of a race look like gorillas, apes, ugly, etc)
3. Have legitimate reasons (face, teeth, overweight, obese, personality, NOT RACE, etc)

Oh yea, tell that to high level Jewish people who think of other racial groups as subhuman and are forbidden to marry outside their race.

Check out David Dukes Videos for more information: http://www.youtube.com/user/drdduke

Race IS a very important factor and should not be taken lightly. I'm not going to go all into it, mainly because I'm still gathering information, but from my research, the people who run the world (Jews) wish to create world where the general population are mixed breeds who subscribe to a throw away culture and lack any racial identity. Jews are the ones who are imposing this multiculturalism on the masses, but yet, when you look into their lives they are not taking up the belief themselves. White/Black nationalist, and other underground circles know exactly what I'm talking about.....

I'm not saying that people worldwide should not date outside their race, I'm just saying that if everybody starts doing it the world will have one more serious problem to deal with.

[NorthAmericanguy]

why is there such an emphasis on racism....you can be racist as hell and still be a great person.

i could care less honestly as long as people treat me good.

i have had pretty racist white and black friends before...as long as there not hateful or violent, i could care less.

+1

[momopi]

Check out David Dukes Videos for more information: http://www.youtube.com/user/drdduke

The same David Duke who was the Grand Wizard of the KKK?

[E_Irizarry]

Check out David Dukes Videos for more information: http://www.youtube.com/user/drdduke

The same David Duke who was the Grand Wizard of the KKK?

In a Mr. Miyagi voice, "Yes Danielson. That is the same nigga. Bwerrie good. He so badddddd." ¡lmao!

[NorthAmericanguy]

Check out David Dukes Videos for more information: http://www.youtube.com/user/drdduke

The same David Duke who was the Grand Wizard of the KKK?

Yes, I'm aware of DD associations with the White Nationalist (that's how I found him, through reading the SF forum), however, his information is spot on in regards to Jews because I have cross referenced the information through other sources that were not affiliated with European supremacy.




Bibliography:


The Secret Relationship between blacks and Jews



"There are many books purporting to be the "History of the trans-Atlantic slave trade. Writing and references are sloppy, claims are far fetched and even invented. Not this book. I first read this book after loaning it from my public library. I antiscipated yet another hysterical diatribe against whites or polemic against African chieftans. Anyone seeking racists stereotypes should look elsewhere. This book is remarkably well researched. The quotes are all from Jewish sources and no others are included because of the risk of anti-semitic bias.

The book basically consists of archival records of business transactions, personal correspondance and public records of the Shephadic ( North African, Southern European and Dutch Jews) kidnapping, selling and loaning of African slaves. Its descibes the Jews creation of the trans-Atlantic slave trade which began with Christopher Colombus's arrival in the "New World" and his sending Native American Indians back to Spain"


The Creature From Jekyll Island





Secrets-Federal-Reserve



Customer Review:

"I find it humorous that some reviewers refer to this book as antisemitic. A Jewish psychiatrist I loaned this book to, considered it one of the most important books he had ever read and ordered a copy for himself. Although a Jew, he didn't say one word about it being anti-semitic. Yes, the content is shocking, at least to the typical brainwashed American who rarely tries to escape the imprisonment of his onerous indoctrination."

[The_Hero_of_Men]

Even through all of that, do you guys look down on David Duke? Just curious...