Why is the stuff we talk about so taboo in the mainstream?

[Winston]

I was wondering earlier today:

Why is it that the kind of stuff we talk about here on Happier Abroad considered so taboo in the mainstream world that you pretty much cannot talk about it anywhere else without being immediately attacked and ostracized.

I mean, come on, the stuff we talk about isn't rocket science or anything complicated. A lot of it is very obvious, like 2+2=4. Just simple natural common sense. So how can it be so taboo? What makes the stuff we talk about so forbidden that we all know we cannot talk about it on mainstream forums and groups? Deep down, we all know what the unspoken rules of society are, and we know that what we talk about here violates much of it.

But the question is, why is it so taboo, when a lot of what we talk about is simple obvious truth?

Anyone want to take a crack at explaining this?

[lavezzi]

its because the people who are drawn to this site and believe in the happier abroad dream have constructed their own view of the world in their own imagination which after long periods of confirmation bias has begun to appear as objective reality to them which gives rise to questions such as this. im not trying to offend anyone but if i have, LOOK inside at WHAT is being offended. I want to liberate you from the hell that is attachment to desire. all ideas are false by nature but some lead you to inner peace and happiness and some lead you away from it, this site does the latter in my view.

[Ginger]

I was wondering earlier today:

Why is it that the kind of stuff we talk about here on Happier Abroad considered so taboo in the mainstream world that you pretty much cannot talk about it anywhere else without being immediately attacked and ostracized.

I mean, come on, the stuff we talk about isn't rocket science or anything complicated. A lot of it is very obvious, like 2+2=4. Just simple natural common sense. So how can it be so taboo? What makes the stuff we talk about so forbidden that we all know we cannot talk about it on mainstream forums and groups? Deep down, we all know what the unspoken rules of society are, and we know that what we talk about here violates much of it.

But the question is, why is it so taboo, when a lot of what we talk about is simple obvious truth?

Anyone want to take a crack at explaining this?

Because most people can't handle the truth.

[lavezzi]

Because most people can't handle the truth.

they cannot handle what they fundamentally believe as being the truth so they become attached to lies. these lies consist of ones conditioning. everyone is conditioned, it is impossible not to be. beliefs = conditioning = lies. but society's conditioning makes people view the world in a way that is so far from how things truly are that it causes a deep disharmony within them, yet they cling tightly to it due to a false, assumed belief ingrained in them that letting go will cause them pain. stop living in fear, fear that has been instilled in you from others since birth. if feel any desires which if unfulfilled will not kill you or cause you actual bodily pain, then you are living in fear.

[Winston]

Also, why is it that when I show this site and forum to mainstream people, they usually have nothing to say? What goes through a normal mainstream person's mind when they see what we talk about here?

Why aren't mainstream people impressed by the wisdom, insight and intellectual truths that we post here? What goes through their minds when they see stuff here that's true and insightful yet taboo?

I'm very interested in psychology so I'm curious about how others think and what goes through their minds.

Have any of you shown the stuff in this forum to mainstream conventional conformist types of people? If so, what was their reaction?

Of course feminists hate this site and will call us names and ridicule us. But I am talking about normal nice people in general.

Even the nicest mainstream people have merely told me, "It looks like this site is for men who are still single." But not much else. No insight or disagreements or agreements.

[Winston]

Lavezzi,
I love your posts, but they contain too many misspelled words that I keep having to fix. When you compose your post, you will see red underlines under each word that is likely misspelled. Can you pay attention to that and fix the spelling mistakes before submitting your posts? That way, your post will be more readable.

Thanks.

[Banano]

I was wondering earlier today:

Why is it that the kind of stuff we talk about here on Happier Abroad considered so taboo in the mainstream world that you pretty much cannot talk about it anywhere else without being immediately attacked and ostracized.

I mean, come on, the stuff we talk about isn't rocket science or anything complicated. A lot of it is very obvious, like 2+2=4. Just simple natural common sense. So how can it be so taboo? What makes the stuff we talk about so forbidden that we all know we cannot talk about it on mainstream forums and groups? Deep down, we all know what the unspoken rules of society are, and we know that what we talk about here violates much of it.

But the question is, why is it so taboo, when a lot of what we talk about is simple obvious truth?

Anyone want to take a crack at explaining this?

Can you be more specific coz many things we talk about on HA forum are not taboo, dating abroad isnt much of a taboo, dating women overseas websites are everywhere, political issues, conspiracy theories , women are are widely discussed

There is Only one thing i can think of that is taboo

[Ginger]

[lavezzi]

Lavezzi,
I love your posts, but they contain too many misspelled words that I keep having to fix. When you compose your post, you will see red underlines under each word that is likely misspelled. Can you pay attention to that and fix the spelling mistakes before submitting your posts? That way, your post will be more readable.

Thanks.

i am typing from an xbox which does not have spellchecker. i thought they were readable and contained their message either way, as long as that is so they should be left as so. as an exersize in non obsessive compulsiveness and living in reality as they are nothing but pigments on a screen, refrain from fixing my posts. in fact now i shud mizzspel purpisly.

[Ginger]

[zboy1]

Have any of you shown the stuff in this forum to mainstream conventional conformist types of people? If so, what was their reaction?

ALL the following convo are after I sent/shared/shown the HA forum


my uncle's reaction: "Uh, so why do you read on this site? Don't you go to church? Stop talking to strangers on the internet, you are too young for this things"
Me: {no comment}


Norwegian friend's reaction: "You READ on that forum???!!!"
me: "Uh huh"
Norwegian friend's response: "but why? WHY?"


American friend's reaction: "WTF is wrong with these guys! Oh look there is a pinay who kinda talks like you, are you in this forum?"
me: "secret"
American friend's response: "nah can't be you"
me: "no comment"


English friend's reaction: "so...what have you made for dinner today?"
me: "did you look up the forum I sent you a link of?"
English friend's response: "yes...i saw a squirrel at my aunt's backyard"
me: "so what do you think of the forum?
english friend's further response: "it's starting to get cold here now"
me: "nevermind"

LMAO! I love it. We're just a bunch of freaks, I guess.

[lavezzi]

Also, why is it that when I show this site and forum to mainstream people, they usually have nothing to say? What goes through a normal mainstream person's mind when they see what we talk about here?

Why aren't mainstream people impressed by the wisdom, insight and intellectual truths that we post here? What goes through their minds when they see stuff here that's true and insightful yet taboo?

I'm very interested in psychology so I'm curious about how others think and what goes through their minds.

Have any of you shown the stuff in this forum to mainstream conventional conformist types of people? If so, what was their reaction?

Of course feminists hate this site and will call us names and ridicule us. But I am talking about normal nice people in general.

Even the nicest mainstream people have merely told me, "It looks like this site is for men who are still single." But not much else. No insight or disagreements or agreements.

even if those you show the topics on this site to are interested in deeper subject matter than that which is considered normal in the mainstream, they will likely feel uncomfortable discussing it with you because their 'front' has been trained and accustomed to only discuss lighter topics because that is all society deems is appropriate for discussion. this would probably even be the case for most members of this site if you met them in social circumstances without them having known who you are from here. never be so quick to label. if you were alligned to truth on a high enough level you would never label them at all. when you label someone what you are really doing is unconsciously attempting to affirm your beleif that you are the opposite of them if it is a negative lable, and unconsciously trying to assosiate your identity with them if it is a positive label. this is of course only the case if there is no contexual relevence to label them (for examply a jury member has a nessesity to label a defendent as guilty or not guilty). see when you do these things you think you are seeking truth but it is only driven by and filtered through your ego and it becomes nonsense. you cannot fill your head with words and concepts and think you know the truth. truth can never be expressed in words, or at least not truth that is relevent to you and will change your reality. why do you think we engage in debates about this that and the other, all the time? really it is no different to the thinking that goes on in the mind; our ego chattering to itself trying to affirm its positions as being true. the individual always beleives their subjective version of reality is the correct one because they are identified with it and attatched to it, therefore they always beleive their assertions and opinions are of relevence to any given situation even on an internet forum. what is really relevent to you is alligning your being with truth and freeing yourself as much as possible from your desires and therefore your biases and delusions. then you can conceptualize truth in words more clearly and concisely. science cannot find any relevent truth, it can only give you a bunch of complex concepts for you to intellectualize. its interesting, but you have a more pressing issue on your hands: you are deluded and as a result you cannot experience life as the wonder it is meant to be. that should be sought to be fixed.

[Billy]

winston i am sorry i do a lot of mispelling too. i hope i will become better with time. i like that lavezzi wrights in short letter like me. it´s much more efficient. besides lavezzi has mostly the same oppionion as me in the matters of how to become happy and the matrix.

where the hell came this ginger girl. not bad for the beginning. some put it this way: HA ist like a train wreck it´s fun to watch it.

anyway, winston maybe your not objective in the matter as you are heavily involved in your "baby" HA. but every site has is main idea. i for example like puahate and rooshv. puahate guys do talk all night long about LMS. rooshv guys talk about game. the HA guys, well you know it yourself

"you can´t handle the truth" is the best sentence in filmhistory. sorry it´s OT. yes, i am guilty.

[Falcon]

Winston, you're like a professor who's always assigning us essay prompts!

And yeah, I get so comfortable talking about all this stuff on HA that it all feels quite normal. Then back to real life, and I realize - oh snap! Better keep my mouth shut about this when I'm away from the computer ... or else.

[Cornfed]

I was wondering earlier today:

Why is it that the kind of stuff we talk about here on Happier Abroad considered so taboo in the mainstream world that you pretty much cannot talk about it anywhere else without being immediately attacked and ostracized.

The ZOG's extinction agenda would be unpalatable to most of its victims if directly stated. Hence the way the ZOG makes people go along with it is to implant certain axiomatic beliefs which, when adhered to, bring about the kind of behavior the ZOG wants as a logical consequence. For this strategy to work these axioms, which are all nonsense of course, must not be examined or discussed. Hence they have elaborate systems to supress this discussion.