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Temprano26
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Being alone in the long run can be good for you...

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Yes, I sympathize. Loneliness sucks. It can be unbearable. But think of the opposite end of the spectrum. If you go out you see people with their cliquish mentality that make every effort to avoid eye contact with anyone else outside of their isolated worlds. It is one of the things we are all most frustrated about. Think of it this way, would you want to be anything like them? To have a group of four or five friends your whole life being deliberately ignorant of all the cool people you could possibly meet? The more I see clique mentality the less I believe they really value their relationships. They are just using their "friends" so that they do not feel alone as I have felt because American culture is all about STATUS.

Being alone means I have had to open up my mind to different people and different perspectives. I have known a lot more people in my life because I have not trapped my mind in a narrow box conforming to the same people out of fear of being a loser. When I am 35, I will not have the same group of friends that I had when I was 17. It is they out there who are imprisoned, not us.


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True. For me, I am a tad mad about a foreign girl who has been kind of reserved as of late, so it is just frustrating, plus not finding work and all that, add to that boredom, and you have a molotov cocktail. (I don't know if you were referring to me or just in general :) )
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I could have thousands of low life "friends" specially here in turkey. But people are like robots they say what say are supposed to say and other times are just crazy and greedy. So what is the point? - Ok, maybe it´s me. You know I am tired to people who bore the shit out me. - I believe people have "friends" as a security net. I understand this. But sometimes one has to risk things to live your self. - How can one know himself when he is hanging always with the same guys and the talk follows are scripted plan. No that´s plain boring for me at least. - Specially people who don´t read are so predictable thus boring again.

Anyway some people are meant to be on a journey without having friends. So there are people who have an exciting life with friends probably it´s also a matter of money. Socializing with highlife and highenergy people costs money.

Anyway the skill of being able to lead a life on your own means freedom so that sounds not bad at all.
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The TC is starting to make more sense than well... the rest of you! :lol:

Most don't realize that there's a control system that is in place for westerners. Once a country bows to satanist scum, that's it. The citizens have little say in the matter;they all become mindless fools. In the west, you're better off using people as the tools they were meant to be. Good people ALWAYS get taken advantage of. You must forego your conscience if you really wanna get by in the west.

If you doubt this, go ahead and get rich! Get so powerful, that your family, friends and passers by seem like worthless insects by comparison. Last year I managed to make some serious money, increased my intelligence and energy levels to where I would seem like a bodybuilding Einstein to most. Things were very peaceful and serene for me, I was set to get an actual JOB(haven't had one for 7 years!) with extreme confidence in the rest of my life, that I was gonna be ludicrously successful. I had NO worries, NO regrets. And I was truly happy.

And then nearly my entire family turned against me, without justification! I haven't even told them of my plans, why I was so happy or where I was going in life.

They were, and STILL ARE wasting their time, blatantly trying to ruin everything I built! One family member quit his job and went on SSI, just to f**k with me most of his day! It's as if they were ordered by someone to stop me, and their master knew EXACTLY what to do, to destroy my life...

Those who didn't betray me were still victims of western control - strong enough to barely resist, but not powerful enough to be of any use. I've learned my lesson, and now I keep my guard up everyday, while slowly rebuilding that which my family destroyed.

For those of you who're in hell, the ones who have chosen not to waste their energy on sows but know not what to do... there IS a heaven waiting for you. It's up to you to find it! And once you get there, don't let your guard down!
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C.J. wrote:Most don't realize that there's a control system that is in place for westerners. Once a country bows to satanist scum, that's it. The citizens have little say in the matter;they all become mindless fools. In the west, you're better off using people as the tools they were meant to be. Good people ALWAYS get taken advantage of. You must forego your conscience if you really wanna get by in the west.
I agree that people must be Machiavellian if they want to succeed in the west.
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Temprano26 wrote:Yes, I sympathize. Loneliness sucks. It can be unbearable. But think of the opposite end of the spectrum. If you go out you see people with their cliquish mentality that make every effort to avoid eye contact with anyone else outside of their isolated worlds. It is one of the things we are all most frustrated about. Think of it this way, would you want to be anything like them? To have a group of four or five friends your whole life being deliberately ignorant of all the cool people you could possibly meet? The more I see clique mentality the less I believe they really value their relationships. They are just using their "friends" so that they do not feel alone as I have felt because American culture is all about STATUS.

Being alone means I have had to open up my mind to different people and different perspectives. I have known a lot more people in my life because I have not trapped my mind in a narrow box conforming to the same people out of fear of being a loser. When I am 35, I will not have the same group of friends that I had when I was 17. It is they out there who are imprisoned, not us.
I see what you're saying. You're saying that people who have the same friends their whole life really don't grow out of their little circle where as a person who is alone is forced to expand their horizons and meet new people, which as a result, causes that person (hopefully) to grow and develop themselves as an individual.

Well, yes, I do agree with that, but on the other hand, I think it's easier said then done, and I'm not so sure that it's easy to bond with new people the older you get. Also, being alone isn't healthy as it's not good for you brain or emotional well being. This is one of the reasons why women live longer, women tend to have many friends, and some type of social network that the're plugged into, where as men, at least in America, are all alone but that's usually through their own choice as most american men ditch their friends as soon as they get married.
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C.J. wrote:The TC is starting to make more sense than well... the rest of you! :lol:

Most don't realize that there's a control system that is in place for westerners. Once a country bows to satanist scum, that's it. The citizens have little say in the matter;they all become mindless fools. In the west, you're better off using people as the tools they were meant to be. Good people ALWAYS get taken advantage of. You must forego your conscience if you really wanna get by in the west.

If you doubt this, go ahead and get rich! Get so powerful, that your family, friends and passers by seem like worthless insects by comparison. Last year I managed to make some serious money, increased my intelligence and energy levels to where I would seem like a bodybuilding Einstein to most. Things were very peaceful and serene for me, I was set to get an actual JOB(haven't had one for 7 years!) with extreme confidence in the rest of my life, that I was gonna be ludicrously successful. I had NO worries, NO regrets. And I was truly happy.

And then nearly my entire family turned against me, without justification! I haven't even told them of my plans, why I was so happy or where I was going in life.

They were, and STILL ARE wasting their time, blatantly trying to ruin everything I built! One family member quit his job and went on SSI, just to f**k with me most of his day! It's as if they were ordered by someone to stop me, and their master knew EXACTLY what to do, to destroy my life...

Those who didn't betray me were still victims of western control - strong enough to barely resist, but not powerful enough to be of any use. I've learned my lesson, and now I keep my guard up everyday, while slowly rebuilding that which my family destroyed.

For those of you who're in hell, the ones who have chosen not to waste their energy on sows but know not what to do... there IS a heaven waiting for you. It's up to you to find it! And once you get there, don't let your guard down!
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