Even being wealthy does not get you dates in America...

[Temprano26]

This poster SilverEnergy makes this point in every thread and while he is right that being poor sucks in America, having wealth is not a guarantee to finding love.

When I lived in Austin, TX I used to go to the Gloria's for salsa dancing. I met this one attractive girl who lived in Guatemala for a few years, she was nice, interesting, she was even warm to me but her friends were in this clique mentality of turning their backs on anyone they don't know. One of them wouldn't even acknowledge my existence and the other tried to create a barricade between me and her friend that I was interested in. I could have been wealthy but they would never know it because they live in this bubble of ignorance to the world around them. Winston has written about these patterns and I have experienced them myself in many places. If people refuse to meet you they will never know how big your wallet is.

The truth is America is all about being perpetually unhappy and looking for the next thrill, the next big product, the next big movie, the next big anything. Even if a woman fell in love with you for your big house or your fancy sports car, she will find something to be unhappy about six months into the relationship and is that really what you want? It ain't what I want and that is why I love foreign women because foreign women are just easier to please and I know I am not alone in that statement. I hear Americans complain about being middle class when in fact our middle class is upper class if you went to India or Bangladesh. We have more than so many millions of people and yet we complain more too.

Being wealthy often times just means not being able to deal with adversity in life or the fact that every relationship has its ups and downs periods. This is why people cannot commit to one person for more than a few months. Yes it is better to be wealthy but what do you do with that wealth? Do you parade your wealth around the US to make everyone jealous or do you move to another country and do what you want to do?

[Hero]

Spot-on. I've posted before about my boss and other co-workers who not only are rich, but athletic, good-looking, kind, smart, etc. etc... and yet they STILL can't get decent-looking wives or GFs.

[Robert77]

its because american women are NOT that attractive!!!!

I used to think AW sucked because of their attitude, but there were some decent babes out there

but when I started travelling I realized AW are NOT physically attractive.... compared to average women in eastern europe, colombia, argentina, japan, the average woman in the US is not that great looking, add to that their sucky personalities, you'll see it's a lose lose situation

STOP thinking that you need money and good looks to find decent women in america

MOST AMERICAN WOMEN ARE OVERWEIGHT, POLLUTED BY FEMINISM, THEY'RE SELF ENTITLED AND GENETICALLY SPEAKING DESCENDANTS OF IRISH-ANGLOSAXONS AND GERMANS (NOT THE BEST LOOKING PEOPLE OUT THERE FROM A PHYSICAL POINT OF VIEW)

black women in the US are also morbidly obese, angry, ghetto, agressive.....

Latinas are mostly descendants of indigenous mexicans (not a good looking bunch either)

america is great for women looking for men, not the other way around

go to places where geetically speaking women look good like Argentina, slavic countries in europe, colombia, venezuela and so on

[jamesbond]

I don't know, I think if you were to win the lottery, you would have no problem getting women in America.

[Temprano26]

Yeah that is because the lotto winners are broadcasted to the whole country. Then women have a reason not to ignore him now.

[droid]

The proof of this can be found in shitty shows like "Millionaire Matchmaker" where wealthy but ignorant American guys think they don't deserve any better than used-up mediocre chicks. All this while openly being forced by the "matchmaker" to lower their standards.
Fricking unreal, whereas a millionaire in South America or Russia can and does have any women of any age he desires.

It's nuts how misinformed and low-self-valued so many American dudes are...

Silver doesn't make sense with his usual point. I don't know where he gets that, it's probably related to his particular experiences.
"Independent" women are less likely to consider a guys' assets (let alone entrepreneurial character), and instead consider other superficial things when shopping for a boy-toy.

[polya]

If you are wealthy & a good looking bad boy, then you're what US women want.

[TheLegendSeeker]

But I don't understand being rich & good looking is a must if you want women. To the author of this thread: Could you mention one rich man who can't get p***y?
Another thing, even if you try to avoid what you call self-entitled women they have nothing to lose, they only need make-up on their faces, a short dress, high heels and the magic will happen; a crowd of men will chase her like bees to a honeypot and sometimes she doesn't even need make-up or skimpy clothes for that to happen.

[momopi]

If you're wealthy, there's a Chinese gentlemen named Bradon Wade who can help you. He and his wife Tanya currently resides in Las Vegas.

[jamesbond]

You will rarely see a fat guy holding hands with a good looking woman in America. Unless of course, the guy is a millionaire.

[Farmer308]

Money WILL get you plenty of hot young poon tang in the USA. Just check our seeking arrangements.com

[Ghost]

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[HouseMD]

I don't even mention that I'm a doctor in training out in public, because I get way too much attention from the kinds of girls I really would rather deal with. And if they find out I'm taken as well, they just won't ****Ing leave me alone. Of course, they also are completely disconnected from the reality of being a doctor in modern America- tons of debt, less pay than ever and shrinking every day, and long hours that keep you from ever being home. It's no dream life. Still, physicians have the highest marriage rate and lowest divorce rate of any group in the country, so that desirability factor might have some truth to it.

[traveller]

Especially in Illinois, a divorce/dumping is, for the guy, only a drop in or loss of income away, or even a loss of job away.

[Adama]

Money attracts gold diggers. It doesnt attract wonderful women.

Think of it this way. Since some believe in evolution, I will use this illustration. In prehistory, was there great wealth to show off to women? Was there a "monetary supply"? Did the richest men have the largest accumulation of peacock feathers? What distinguished one man as being wealthy while another was just merely of average income? If evolution is true, then the financial theory makes absolutely no sense. Women could not evolve to prefer men with money, because there was never such a thing as money or any kind of distribution of wealth enabling the average man to seem wealthy until just recently in human history.

I think that is a psychological trick they are using on society. Or it is just a bunch of scientific dorks getting together and guessing at what women must really want (because they are sex starved manginas who put women on a pedestal and overvalue them).

That's because men who don't know anything about women think that women are truly interested in men for money. No, the woman who is interested in the rich man isnt interested in rich men. She's only interested in the rich part; the money. She doesnt like the man. When a woman likes a man for his money, she only likes his money. She doesnt like him.

How much money did the farmers in the 1800s have to spend on the women they got? How about those feudal servants in Europe? Without much money (if that is true), how did those servants find wives?

How is it that MANY of the broke men we see around have no problem finding wives? Even rotten AWs will marry some of these poor blokes.

This all tells me the financial theory of women preferring rich men over normal men is complete bunk.

Women like men because men have what women want, and that is themselves! DUH! I know, you can't believe this. How could women like men without any other motives? Well because that's how it was supposed to be from the start. Just like men like women simply because women are feminine and have ladyparts, so women like men because they are masculine and have manparts.

Now back to your regularly scheduled programming.