Immigrants that move to America and then hate Americans...

[Temprano26]

Not all of them of course. Many of them are very polite and humble such as most immigrants from India but then there are those that settle in America and then they avoid Americans like we have a disease. Is anyone else sick of this?

I am seeing a girl from Bangladesh and as I was told her family would not approve of us being together because they are so conservative that they refuse to acknowledge that there are thousands of cultures in this world besides them. This girl is really sweet, really good to me and she loves meeting diverse peoples. I like women that are exotic for one thing and the other thing is she is just genuinely easy to get along with far more than these American women that we are all so sick of. I am just really heartbroken and bitter right now.

I love diversity and I would love to welcome everyone no matter what country or creed or skin color but instead they throw my welcome back at me. They can't even look me in the eye. I want to co-exist with different peoples and listen and develop an understanding but nobody wants to do that anymore. So many live their entire lives in this narrow narcissistic mindset that their culture is the only one that inhabits this planet. They take every bit of material wealth they can and then they go back to their countries having not expanded their minds one inch. Being conservative seems to entail having one's head in their ass their entire life.

America is not a melting pot of diverse peoples coming together. It is a raceless mess of different cultures that don't like each other and some of whom are taught to hate anyone with different skin color.

So in reality, don't you think we are part of a very small minority of adventurous people? Global citizens if you will who choose to expand our horizons rather than follow the herd?

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Not all of them of course. Many of them are very polite and humble such as most immigrants from India but then there are those that settle in America and then they avoid Americans like we have a disease. Is anyone else sick of this?

I am seeing a girl from Bangladesh and as I was told her family would not approve of us being together because they are so conservative that they refuse to acknowledge that there are thousands of cultures in this world besides them. This girl is really sweet, really good to me and she loves meeting diverse peoples. I like women that are exotic for one thing and the other thing is she is just genuinely easy to get along with far more than these American women that we are all so sick of. I am just really heartbroken and bitter right now.

I love diversity and I would love to welcome everyone no matter what country or creed or skin color but instead they throw my welcome back at me. They can't even look me in the eye. I want to co-exist with different peoples and listen and develop an understanding but nobody wants to do that anymore. So many live their entire lives in this narrow narcissistic mindset that their culture is the only one that inhabits this planet. They take every bit of material wealth they can and then they go back to their countries having not expanded their minds one inch. Being conservative seems to entail having one's head in their a** their entire life.

America is not a melting pot of diverse peoples coming together. It is a raceless mess of different cultures that don't like each other and some of whom are taught to hate anyone with different skin color.

So in reality, don't you think we are part of a very small minority of adventurous people? Global citizens if you will who choose to expand our horizons rather than follow the herd?

Ironically, Canada is better, and the UK and NZ are way better in this regard: they actually mix better in those countries. Asian-Canadian (CBC's) women actually date Bengali, Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani, Nigerian, Ivory Coast, etc. guys that you might seen an iota in NYC and maybe Calif, but that's it for the U.S. of Gay of "DIEversity".

The U.S. of Gay has some of the ugliest immigrant women anyway. #LiveToWork --> #LeaveTheMatrix All in together now...repitanlo!!!

But seriously though, once again, some of the worst and most ignorant of immigrants come to America anyway. The only Latinos that come here with some education usually move to the Boston Metro area (upper-class Brazilians), San Antonio (upper-class to rich Mexican nationalists)/Houston, and California (people from Asia with some ed and cred).

But everywhere in between, mediocre Spanish and Asian groups (including Middle East and India) congregating among themselves unfortunately.

[zboy1]

Underneath America's mantra of "diversity," simmering racial tensions exist very prominently in many ethnic neighborhoods. It's not all 'happy-dovey' as diversity-lovers like to think it is in America...

And, yes, E_Irizzary is right when he says most immigrants tend to 'stick' to their own and like to stay in their own neighborhoods. That's very much the case in places like New York City.

Temprano, South Asians are virulent racists and don't like it when their 'women' go date or marry interracially; they're very different than East and SouthEast Asians in that regard. Unlike those aforementioned groups, South Asians expect their women to stay within their own race--or get ostracized if they don't. That's why you rarely see Indian/Pakistani/Banglideshi females date outside of their race...

[Temprano26]

Yeah, you're right. I came to that conclusion myself.

The best thing about our relationship is I had a really nice Valentine's Day with that girl.

[starchild5]

I'm Indian and with all the Negatives we talk about America....It still have many stuff going on except the government..People in America are still great and cherish humanity..

Unfortunately, the PTB have done with America...so the influx of more retarded immigrants...

Bangladesh was part of India, and culture is same..take my advice..DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE yourself thinking, your gf parents will start liking you...

"Culture" = Zombie Minds....You need to move away as far away as possible, otherwise you get corrupted as well.

I just want to tell you....YOU ARE RIGHT....We are wrong...Our so called great culture is good for Hollywood not for real life..They will never approve of you...There are 100s of honor killings happening in India every year. Its hard been a guy and trying to fall in love with a girl you like here...There are so many equations here against men that its impossible to do even two things right...either you can get a job and get arranged marriage or you fall in love and be miserable due to you taking extreme steps to run away from your family

DO NOT..I repeat DO NOT fall for "Culture" "Conservative" crap....Its just Zombie Minds....YOU ARE RIGHT ...trust me as an Indian....If you really want her in your life for ever...PLAY BY YOUR RULES. Period.

[Temprano26]

That is interest you say that, starchild. To admit that your culture is in the wrong. Are you male or female? What is the PTB?

[somedude]

I'm Indian and with all the Negatives we talk about America....It still have many stuff going on except the government..People in America are still great and cherish humanity..

Unfortunately, the PTB have done with America...so the influx of more retarded immigrants...

Bangladesh was part of India, and culture is same..take my advice..DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE yourself thinking, your gf parents will start liking you...

"Culture" = Zombie Minds....You need to move away as far away as possible, otherwise you get corrupted as well.

I just want to tell you....YOU ARE RIGHT....We are wrong...Our so called great culture is good for Hollywood not for real life..They will never approve of you...There are 100s of honor killings happening in India every year. Its hard been a guy and trying to fall in love with a girl you like here...There are so many equations here against men that its impossible to do even two things right...either you can get a job and get arranged marriage or you fall in love and be miserable due to you taking extreme steps to run away from your family

DO NOT..I repeat DO NOT fall for "Culture" "Conservative" crap....Its just Zombie Minds....YOU ARE RIGHT ...trust me as an Indian....If you really want her in your life for ever...PLAY BY YOUR RULES. Period.

I agree with you on the culture. I've run into this many times and it is so annoying, "oh my family won't accept you because you are not part of our culture (or skin color, or religion, or etc.).

[somedude]

That is interest you say that, starchild. To admit that your culture is in the wrong. Are you male or female? What is the PTB?

PTB/TPTB = The Powers That Be, eg govt. or whatever

[Temprano26]

So you see what I am saying, somedude. I haven't been fond of America lately but at least I try to be respectful to people around me.

How would they feel if I traveled to Bangladesh and got alarmed by the presence of brown people? They stay here and yet they hate everybody.

[ChampionKaji]

If you consider Blacks American, most immigrants that come to the US hate Americans (Blacks).

[somedude]

So you see what I am saying, somedude. I haven't been fond of America lately but at least I try to be respectful to people around me.

Yeah, I'm the same way. I do my best to to remain respectful even if they piss me off or if I simply disagree with their views. If I feel it's a waste of breathe I'll just laugh things off and change the topic, else I may politely disagree and explain my viewpoint. The latter seems like a waste of time anymore, like when a girl that I'm not even interested in tells me she cannot date outside of her race/culture.

I've been country shopping lately, trying to find that happier abroad place that fits me. Maybe I'm just jaded but most countries all seem the same to me anymore in terms of quality of life issues and social enigmas.

[zboy1]

So you see what I am saying, somedude. I haven't been fond of America lately but at least I try to be respectful to people around me.

Yeah, I'm the same way. I do my best to to remain respectful even if they piss me off or if I simply disagree with their views. If I feel it's a waste of breathe I'll just laugh things off and change the topic, else I may politely disagree and explain my viewpoint. The latter seems like a waste of time anymore, like when a girl that I'm not even interested in tells me she cannot date outside of her race/culture.

I've been country shopping lately, trying to find that happier abroad place that fits me. Maybe I'm just jaded but most countries all seem the same to me anymore in terms of quality of life issues and social enigmas.

If you really think that then...well, you've obviously never stepped-foot outside of the USA. Dude! It's completely different outside the Anglosphere, trust me.

[Jester]

Movie about this, if its of interest to anyone

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102456/

[somedude]

So you see what I am saying, somedude. I haven't been fond of America lately but at least I try to be respectful to people around me.

Yeah, I'm the same way. I do my best to to remain respectful even if they piss me off or if I simply disagree with their views. If I feel it's a waste of breathe I'll just laugh things off and change the topic, else I may politely disagree and explain my viewpoint. The latter seems like a waste of time anymore, like when a girl that I'm not even interested in tells me she cannot date outside of her race/culture.

I've been country shopping lately, trying to find that happier abroad place that fits me. Maybe I'm just jaded but most countries all seem the same to me anymore in terms of quality of life issues and social enigmas.

If you really think that then...well, you've obviously never stepped-foot outside of the USA. Dude! It's completely different outside the Anglosphere, trust me.

Oh I've been outside the US, I was referring as a whole vs just the toxic woman/culture issues that exist in the US. There are things I enjoy doing that can really only be done in a westernized country, unfortunately. I own aircraft and guns as one example, those things just cant be enjoyed as much without allot of bribery/connections in another (non westernized) country, if at all.

There are pros and cons to all places, and almost all of them require shuffling this list around. Do I give up some of my lifelong hobbies and ambitions for a less toxic culture and a pretty face that has less chance to become an evil face? or do I keep dealing with the toxins Riddick style and keep my hobbies and doing the things I love to do and to hell with the pretty faces?

There's also business red tape, visa issues, taxes etc. that's part of the pro/con list. In some respects the red tape is more toxic even though the people there may be friendly and the work environment itself more lax. So it's a huge trade off.

I traveled around for several years and lived overseas in one place for more than a year, and while I truly loved the experience, I found myself missing being able to take my bird across country to visit friends and family, or my rifle out in the back 40 to blow up pop bottles, or in some cases riding an ATV to go fishing. However I did not miss the toxic societal issues that plague the USA heh

So as you can see I'm a bit torn, although I do continue to keep my mind open and keep shopping around. At some point I'll probably decide one or the other items on my list isn't worth it and make a decision

[Temprano26]

Somedude, I recommend Costa Rica but that is because it was the place for me. A beautiful green country with a lot of friendly people. Only real issue is keep your belongings chained to you.

Also how am I supposed to play by my rules with this Bangladeshi girl?