The saying "don't be too nice"

[MattHanson1990]

I've always gotten this advice for dating women, and even one of my friends said this automated line when I mentioned to him that I was interested in this Mexican girl in El Paso, Texas. As I mentioned on one of my other posts, this Mexican girl is like foreign women, being that she's friendly, open, feminine, and down to earth, and yet I get told by one of my friends "don't be too nice". WTF? This only applies if you're interested in Americanized women, and this saying says a lot about how nice guys finish last in the US dating scene; however, nice guys finish first in El Paso.

"Don't be too nice" really means "don't be your authentic down to earth self".

Why should I not be "too nice" with this Mexican girl when she's CLEARLY like a foreign woman? Just this past time I was in El Paso, I gave her a compliment, and she appreciated it. If she was Americanized, she would've been crept out.

[jamesbond]

American women clearly don't like "nice guys" they prefer guys who are thugs and assholes.

[starchild5]

Women love a good Challenge..Not a good guy....I hope everyone reads Doc Love Articles on Askmen...Its the best

[droid]

It applies everywhere and with everyone, but at different levels.

[MattHanson1990]

American women clearly don't like "nice guys" they prefer guys who are thugs and assholes.

The American women who are sweet, feminine, and down to earth but rare and always taken don't go for bad boys. It's the ones who are stuck up, dress slutty, and act masculine, who go for thugs and assholes; they're bad girls themselves. Now Chicagoland girls are the most dysfunctional AW since they go for actual bad boys - breadstealer guys.

As far as the Mexican girls in El Paso, most don't go for bad boys, from what I experienced. A lot of the girls there are sweet, feminine, and down to earth, and they are the norm in El Paso unlike anywhere else in America. El Paso being one of the LEAST Americanized cities says a lot.

[jamesbond]

[traveller]

American women clearly don't like "nice guys" they prefer guys who are thugs and assholes.

The American women who are sweet, feminine, and down to earth but rare and always taken don't go for bad boys. It's the ones who are stuck up, dress slutty, and act masculine, who go for thugs and assholes; they're bad girls themselves. Now Chicagoland girls are the most dysfunctional AW since they go for actual bad boys - breadstealer guys.

As far as the Mexican girls in El Paso, most don't go for bad boys, from what I experienced. A lot of the girls there are sweet, feminine, and down to earth, and they are the norm in El Paso unlike anywhere else in America. El Paso being one of the LEAST Americanized cities says a lot.

It certainly appears that pretty much all the Gulf Coast cities, and not to mention of course the southern one third of Florida, seem the least Americanized. And indeed, in fact, Illinois ladies in general, not just Chicagoland ladies, are the most dysfunctional ones on the continent of North America. From experience, even New York City people were a lot nicer than Chicago people! And you certainly are right on, Matt. Chicagoland ladies from the suburbs, even from as far west as the Fox River, they're totally going for actual bad boys; robbers, gang bangers, mob guys, drug runners, car thieves, burglars, guys who would shoot and murder a driver for his luxury stretch limo, party bus, and whatever she wants. It's gotten to the point where even approaching within less than 30 feet of that cute gal you might see for instance window shopping on Michigan Avenue, hanging out near Buckingham Fountain, playing in the Crown Fountain at Millennium Park, doing selfies at the Cloud Gate bean in Millennium Park, or whatever, is as likely to get a single guy gunned down, murdered, and then robbed by that woman's new boyfriend/fiancee/husband and/or his gang of bandits as beating and pounding a hornet's nest with a baseball bat is likely to get a person swarmed and stung by a bunch of angry hornets!

[MattHanson1990]

American women clearly don't like "nice guys" they prefer guys who are thugs and assholes.

The American women who are sweet, feminine, and down to earth but rare and always taken don't go for bad boys. It's the ones who are stuck up, dress slutty, and act masculine, who go for thugs and assholes; they're bad girls themselves. Now Chicagoland girls are the most dysfunctional AW since they go for actual bad boys - breadstealer guys.

As far as the Mexican girls in El Paso, most don't go for bad boys, from what I experienced. A lot of the girls there are sweet, feminine, and down to earth, and they are the norm in El Paso unlike anywhere else in America. El Paso being one of the LEAST Americanized cities says a lot.

It certainly appears that pretty much all the Gulf Coast cities, and not to mention of course the southern one third of Florida, seem the least Americanized. And indeed, in fact, Illinois ladies in general, not just Chicagoland ladies, are the most dysfunctional ones on the continent of North America. From experience, even New York City people were a lot nicer than Chicago people! And you certainly are right on, Matt. Chicagoland ladies from the suburbs, even from as far west as the Fox River, they're totally going for actual bad boys; robbers, gang bangers, mob guys, drug runners, car thieves, burglars, guys who would shoot and murder a driver for his luxury stretch limo, party bus, and whatever she wants. It's gotten to the point where even approaching within less than 30 feet of that cute gal you might see for instance window shopping on Michigan Avenue, hanging out near Buckingham Fountain, playing in the Crown Fountain at Millennium Park, doing selfies at the Cloud Gate bean in Millennium Park, or whatever, is as likely to get a single guy gunned down, murdered, and then robbed by that woman's new boyfriend/fiancee/husband and/or his gang of bandits as beating and pounding a hornet's nest with a baseball bat is likely to get a person swarmed and stung by a bunch of angry hornets!

There's only one reason Chicagoland girls are going after criminals. The job market in the Chicago area is a joke as it favors women. Women are getting paid more than men, more companies are hiring more women and fewer men, and men are getting cuts in their paychecks or losing their jobs and remaining unemployed. This movement towards an all-female workforce is hitting Chicago harder than anywhere else in America.

[traveller]

There's only one reason Chicagoland girls are going after criminals. The job market in the Chicago area is a joke as it favors women. Women are getting paid more than men, more companies are hiring more women and fewer men, and men are getting cuts in their paychecks or losing their jobs and remaining unemployed. This movement towards an all-female workforce is hitting Chicago harder than anywhere else in America.

Another reason Chicagoland girls are going after guys that get their $350,000+ annual incomes, their luxury sports vehicles, and all else, through crime and illegal drugs; they want to be able to be lazy and stay indoors all 8,766 hours a year. And they are totally unbending in their standards that the man is to do every single thing for him and her, as well as earn no less than ten times what she earns.

You are certainly right about one thing. More and more women are getting higher paying jobs, not just in Chicagoland, but all across the entire United States of America. In some regions, there are allready families in which the dad stays at home and takes care of the kids, basically in which the dad is "Mr. Mom." But in Chicagoland, not only are there no Mr. Moms, but Chicagoland women are literally selling their souls to Satan to make sure that there is no Mr. Mom in her family! And indeed, the male workforce is apparently shrinking nationwide. Apparently, in some areas of the country it seems, women are handling it very well, even allowing the husband to stay at home with the kids if any and be Mr. Mom. But in Chicagoland, they aren't letting that happen at all.

In fact, take a look at this article here. http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/30/busin ... .html?_r=0

[MattHanson1990]

There's only one reason Chicagoland girls are going after criminals. The job market in the Chicago area is a joke as it favors women. Women are getting paid more than men, more companies are hiring more women and fewer men, and men are getting cuts in their paychecks or losing their jobs and remaining unemployed. This movement towards an all-female workforce is hitting Chicago harder than anywhere else in America.

Another reason Chicagoland girls are going after guys that get their $350,000+ annual incomes, their luxury sports vehicles, and all else, through crime and illegal drugs; they want to be able to be lazy and stay indoors all 8,766 hours a year. And they are totally unbending in their standards that the man is to do every single thing for him and her, as well as earn no less than ten times what she earns.

You are certainly right about one thing. More and more women are getting higher paying jobs, not just in Chicagoland, but all across the entire United States of America. In some regions, there are allready families in which the dad stays at home and takes care of the kids, basically in which the dad is "Mr. Mom." But in Chicagoland, not only are there no Mr. Moms, but Chicagoland women are literally selling their souls to Satan to make sure that there is no Mr. Mom in her family! And indeed, the male workforce is apparently shrinking nationwide. Apparently, in some areas of the country it seems, women are handling it very well, even allowing the husband to stay at home with the kids if any and be Mr. Mom. But in Chicagoland, they aren't letting that happen at all.

In fact, take a look at this article here. http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/30/busin ... .html?_r=0

Women clearly caused the Great Recession, and it's hard for men to get ANY kind of job these days, even crappy minimum wage jobs anyone can do.

Heck, even man hating feminism was the reason behind NAFTA two decades ago.

[jamesbond]