Would Winston be happier abroad in Europe?

[momopi]

Well true. White women are picky about looks and don't think I'm their physical type usually. But that wasn't my point earlier momopi. My point is that dressing up in a suit or staying in a nicer hotel is NOT gonna make any difference. I'll tell you a story. ethan_sg can confirm it.
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However, that applies to Asian women because Asian women are more materialistic. In Europe, white women are not that materialistic. They are more into backpacking, the outdoors, camping, staying in hostels, spirituality, self-improvement, etc. If you dated European women more or had European female friends, then you would understand what I mean. They definitely aren't as materialistic as Asian women are and thus wouldn't be impressed at all if you stayed in a nice hotel.

We're targeting European women who are open to dating Asian men, likely already have interest in Asian culture and entertainment (which influence standard of beatify for Asians).

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Of course, if I exercise and work out and use good cosmetic products and get plastic surgery, that will improve my looks. But only slightly. A lot of white women just don't like Asian men, especially if they are short.

Do you believe that being taller and better looking would improve your chances?

(Not "in general" or "other guys", I mean YOU specifically).

[publicduende]

But publicduende, when I first went to Eastern Europe in 2003, even though I was 30, and looked ok, still the girls I met were not into me romantically. So age has never made much of a difference for me. In fact it's helped me because the older I got the more money I had and the more wisdom and maturity I had, and the better I was at charming girls. I told you all this before, remember? So these obstacles such as age aren't as relevant as you think. If I wasn't their romantic type when I was 30, then age is not the issue here.

Also, like I said before, even without any romantic partners, or if every girl only likes me as a friend, still it's BETTER to be in a culture you fit into better. It's better for your HAPPINESS and MENTAL HEALTH to be in a culture you fit into better, than one that you don't. So this is about mental health too, not just romance. And as we all know, your mental health is very important too. So I am looking at multiple factors here, not just the dating factor. In Asia all that matters is money and practical things. There is no soulfulness like in Europe. So that is the main issue for me. It's not just about the girls. Do you understand? I want to be in a place where I fit into better with the collective culture and people. It's essential for good mental health. It's not healthy to only focus on women and dating. Life is about a lot of things, not just about girls.

Of course, any place, even a great place, is gonna get old after a while and the grass starts to look greener on the other side (that's what eurobrat is experiencing right now). So you may need to alternate between places every 6 months. For example, live in Europe for 6 months and then live in Asia for the other 6 months.

Furthermore, as I said before, when you FIT into a culture and VIBE with it, you also become more attractive and confident to women, than if you don't or are a misfit or have bad chemistry/energy with the local culture. That's a big factor too. That's why, if you watch my videos and photos in Russia, you will notice that I appear a lot more confident than usual, and hence more attractive and charming as well.

Why is your perception always so narrow? lol. Why do you never consider these factors too? Even after I repeat them many times? lol

This is not about one or two factors, this is about many factors.

Not to sound overly cynical but, if they didn't want you back then, what makes you think your situation will have gotten better?

If anything, Europe is more in a socio-political crisis now than when you first visited Easter Europe, 10+ years ago.

Look, let me tell you this as a European. Maybe the US or Taiwan are an absolute desert of human interaction, but Europe isn't that much better. You might have met a few European renegades in Angeles, with much free time in their hands, and gotten the impression that they are soulful, deep, friendly, engaging, et cetera.

When you finally travel to Italy, or Spain, or Germany, or wherever else, and you realise that you will meet the same kinds of people as in the US - preoccupied with their daily routines, going back home exhausted and watching TV and not have to think too much about who runs the planet or whether Sgt. Pepper has hidden Satanist references - then Europe will lose that romantic allure that it seem to have on you.

Eurobrat went into Europe - Italy and then Germany - with the same good ideas and good intentions. He invested 1+ year of his life in each country and discovered that, much to his chagrin, even young Italian men can be just as distant, uninterested and cliquish as the folks back home. Yes you could always strike the occasional "enlightened" conversation with someone who feels like talking about girls or conspiracy theory, but if I was you I wouldn't want to put an entire continent, or country, or community, on a pedestal.

When you went to Russia as a young man, Russia was still poorer than it is now. There was the excitement of the discovery on both sides. Yes you might have felt more confident because of the novelty effect and because Russian girls are actually brought up not to be totally rude b*tches towards strangers. Even impeccably dressed office Filpinas you meet down the streets of Makati won't reject or ignore you if you politely start a nice conversation. I give you that.

Yet, your problem seem to be that of anyone moving to another country to settle, like EB did. In order to settle in a new community you need to gain respect of that community. Europe is not that different from the US in that sense: you will need to have a social/professional identity, get yourself a social circle who will be the foundation of your network. Forget about using dating sites or Twitter in Europe: you will get little or nothing out of it, and certainly not what you're looking for.

If you go to Italy with the sole intention of "feeling closer to your true self", or having a better vibe, you're up for a big (and expensive!) disappointment. Like everywhere else in the world, it's always about the image you project to other people. Your status, realised or potential.

[eurobrat]

No offence Winston but you'll get eaten alive in a place like Ukraine. The asian guys I saw there sating looked young 35 and under and looked like they had money/style that was attractive to the local women there.

At the end of the day who knows if those guys are getting used (they probably are), from what I know with the girl I went out with even admitted Ukrainian women like dating foreigners for a fling but may continue to have lovers in their hometown who speak their language and are their personal beta orbiters.

I highly suggest you do not come to Europe with romance in mind, my 2 cents.

[Winston]

Do you believe that being taller and better looking would improve your chances?

(Not "in general" or "other guys", I mean YOU specifically).

Of course looks matter. But I cannot change my height. Even if I wear high heeled shoes, that only adds one or two inches and women can tell that you are wearing high heeled soles. Come on. This is shallow and trivial. I can tell you don't have a lot of experience with women. They look at your whole package and judge on that. They don't base their attraction on little things like this. Also I cannot be something or someone I am not. I've got to be the best me.

Women tend to be attracted to my charm and personality, not clothes or material things or petty things. Watch all my video clips in Russia and you will see. White women aren't like Asian women. They look at the overall package. And I don't get along with shallow types anyway. If you aren't their type, you can't do much about it. You are talking too much like a PUA guru which we all know is useless and doesn't make any difference unless she is on the borderline to liking you.

[Winston]

@publicduende and @momopi,

We seem to have a misunderstanding. Or rather, you seem to have a false assumption here. Let me spell it out clearly for you.

The primary reason I wanna go back to Europe is not because of women and dating. The primary reason is because I like/love European culture 1000x more than Asian culture. And my soul/personality fits in better too. The women/dating part is just a side benefit that may or may not happen. But that's not the primary reason. Why are you two acting deaf and dumb and not understanding me? How much clearer can I make this? Don't you understand basic English?

You keep WRONGLY assuming that I'm going to Europe only for the women. WTF? I never said that. So why do you keep assuming that?! Stop it man.

Let me repeat it again: The primary reason I wanna go back to Europe is not because of women and dating. The primary reason is because I like/love European culture 1000x more than Asian culture. And my soul/personality fits in better too. And again: The primary reason I wanna go back to Europe is not because of women and dating. The primary reason is because I like/love European culture 1000x more than Asian culture. And my soul/personality fits in better too. Do you understand now? How many times do I need to repeat this?

I am a eurofile, not asiaphile. I fit in with European culture and people much better. I have more in common with people there.

Plus i hate the hot humid sticky weather in Asia. Im so f***ing sick of it! We dont even have aircon in Taiwan except for the bedroom! Id rather be in cooler drier air. Im suffering everyday unnecessarily now! I shouldn't have to be here and suffer! I absolutely hate asian weather! Too f***ing hot! Im so sick of it! I don't mind dry heat like in the desert but humid heat is the worst.

The thing is, when you talk to Europeans, you notice they have a REAL SOUL. It feels like talking to a REAL SOUL that can think and is intellectual and very down to earth. Sure each European country is different, like you said publicduende, but one thing I notice is that the people do have a REAL SOUL in general. You don't get that sense in Asia. Not even in the sweet natured laid back vibe of the Philippines. In Asia, the people have more of a hive mind and group soul or animal soul. They don't have the same consciousness or individual soul. It's different. I'm tired of talking to people with no soul. The larger the group is, the more animalistic in consciousness they become. I heard Wayne Bush talking about this in his podcast. I talked to @Ghost about this and he fully understands and relates. Why can't you publicduende?

I'm tired of being in cultures filled with organic portals. See here:
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https://www.bibliotecapleyades.net/cien ... ortals.htm

Publicduende, why are you so closed minded about Europe? You are discrediting yourself by acting like a know it all and like God. How do you know I won't be happier there? You don't know me that well. And you don't know Eastern Europe either. Haven't you seen my video clips in Russia? If so, you should see that my soul is more alive there and I have more chemistry with the people and culture there. You said I shouldn't hang out with prostitutes in Angeles all the time, so what's wrong with meeting normal people in Europe?

You aren't God. You don't know my destiny. Maybe the universe has a surprise in store for me there. Some people get lucky and meet their soulmate by chance when they enter a new country. Sometimes the consciousness of the region bestows gifts on newcomers like that, if the gods of that region like you. I seen that happen. Newcomers can be greeted with good luck or new friends/dates right away, if the gods of the culture like you and want to give you a welcome gift. Sometimes the universe opens new doors for you when you go to new places, if it likes you that is. How can you know whether that will happen or not? Everyones luck and blessings and karma is different.

You can't say what will happen or what won't. You don't know me. You aren't God. And you aren't psychic. You are just a closed minded guy with a strong bias and opinion and does not know his limitations. You aren't wise or broad minded. You are acting more Asian than European.

Even if Europe isn't what I imagine, it's not gonna be like USA or Asia. It's different. There has to be some nice women and nice culture left. People exaggerate. I don't go by what people say, or what the news say, because everyone exaggerates and BSes. I go by what I know and what I see and what I experience.

Did you consider that maybe you're WRONG publicduende? Why you acting like an arrogant American? You don't know what's good for me or right for me, or what my destiny is.

I've been wanting to go back to Europe again since 2006. I even had a return ticket there. But I can't organize my f***ing time. f**k. So I'm still stuck on 2006. I'm not living in the present year ok? My mind is stuck in the past. I'm sorry you don't like that, but it's the truth. I'm not in the f***ing present moment. Time moves too f***ing fast. I don't accept it. I don't accept or bend to reality. I try to make reality fit into my plans. I still want to go back to the Europe I saw in 2005. Otherwise I will never know and regret it.

It's only a 14 hour flight. Why can't you let me go and experience it myself? Why can't you let me follow my heart?

Just because Eurobrat had one bad experience doesn't mean Europe is ruined. Last year his experience was more positive. Why should I base my life decisions on what Eurobrat says? Maybe he's not credible. Maybe he's got mental or personality problems. We don't know. But I'm not gonna base my life decisions based on what one man says based on only ONE EXPERIENCE. GET REAL MAN! ARE YOU DAFT MAN?????????

We seem to be different publicduende. So even if you're a smart man, you don't seem to relate to me or understand me well. Thus I have to take your advice with a grain of salt. I'd rather listen to advice from someone that understands me better and doesn't have to be told the same thing over and over hundreds of times. If you have to constantly repeat something to someone, it's a bad sign that you aren't on the same page.

Thus your opinion isn't as credible, since you don't understand or relate to me and you don't know me. And your soul may be different from mine.

Also if I'm tired of Asia, why should I continue to stay here?

I told you, it's best to spend 6 months in one area and 6 months in another area, so things don't get old. The grass is gonna look greener on the other side after a while. That's what eurobrat is experiencing right now. But he doesn't have the wisdom or maturity to realize it. He seems very emotional like an AW. Thus he's not acting rational or credible either.

There's nothing wrong with going where you love and trying it out. Thus it's VERY UNWISE for you to tell other men what to do. Notice that I do not tell other men what to do or pretend that I know what's best for them. Because that's stupid and unwise and I am not stupid and unwise. No man knows another man's path or destiny. That's why I don't tell other men where to go or what to do or what's best for them. Because only God knows what's best for them. We don't. So when you pretend that you know what's best for me, you're talking out of your ass publicduende, literally. See what a fool you become when you do that??? Even a religious freak like @Adama is wise enough to understand this.

Your pessimism publicduende, is illogical and unjustified, especially since it's based on the wrong premise that I'm going there just for girls. When in reality, I'm going there because I like European culture 1000x more than Asian cultures. Plus the vibe is more positive too.

If you can't understand English, then I definitely don't consider your opinion credible. Especially since you don't get me.

One more thing publicduende. My experience with Europeans is not based on expats in Asia. No way. It's based on lots of experiences since 2002. On buses, trains, planes, email, in Russia, hostels, restaurants, couchsurfing, hospitality club, etc. It's based on meeting Europeans in a lot of places since 2002. Not on a few European expats I met in Asia. Come on man. You are full of FALSE ASSUMPTIONS. It's f***ing annoying! QUIT JUMPING TO WRONG CONCLUSIONS! SMART PEOPLE DON'T DO THAT!

[Winston]

No offence Winston but you'll get eaten alive in a place like Ukraine. The asian guys I saw there sating looked young 35 and under and looked like they had money/style that was attractive to the local women there.

At the end of the day who knows if those guys are getting used (they probably are), from what I know with the girl I went out with even admitted Ukrainian women like dating foreigners for a fling but may continue to have lovers in their hometown who speak their language and are their personal beta orbiters.

I highly suggest you do not come to Europe with romance in mind, my 2 cents.

No offense @eurobrat. But you don't know me. We've never met. You are just speculating. And it is illogical for you to generalize of all Europe, Russia and FSU just based on one girl. You are looking foolish and discrediting yourself when you do that. It makes no sense. Plus I've met 400 to 500 FSU girls, so I know them WAY WAYYYYYYYYYYYYY better than you do and am way more experienced too. You are like a young immature jedi wannabe, whereas I am a fully trained experienced jedi. lol.

Also the other guys here who live in Ukraine said you're wrong, such as watts and retiredfrank. Their experience trumps yours.

Also we are all different people. What goes for you doesn't go for me or everyone else. We are different people, different age, different personality, etc. You can't speak for me and I can't speak for you. Wise men do not pretend that they know it all. Only fools do that.

I told you, romance is just a side benefit. My real purpose in going to Europe is because I like European culture 1000x more than Asian cultures and I've been wanting to go back since 2006. I'm also tired of Asia. Just like you are tired of Dublin, Ireland.

I told you, every place gets tiring after a while. Unless you love routine. You need to live in multiple places to keep things fresh.

We are not looking for a place that will be "happily ever after". We are looking to keep variety fresh and new experiences coming in.

Also Eurobrat, you lost credibility when you said "FSU girls are not sweet". But then I posted 3 videos of FSU girls that are VERY SWEET, which DEBUNKED your claim totally. You should have apologized and recanted for making such a bogus false statement. But the male ego never likes to admit that they are wrong. Instead, you acted blind, deaf and dumb and ignored the videos. That definitely DAMAGES YOUR CREDIBILITY. Honest intelligent broad minded men don't make statements like "FSU are not sweet" and then refuse to retract it when proven wrong.

I challenge you to prove your statement. Show me videos of FSU girls that are not sweet. How many can you find? The video you sent me of your Ukraine girl ironing your shirt seemed sweet too. So all we have is your word that they aren't sweet. No proof. In contrast I have tons of hard proof. I posted three of them earlier in this thread. YOU LOSE. I WIN. What I say makes more sense and I have the proof. You don't. You have words only.

[Winston]

@publicduende
Question for you. So if my soul/personality doesn't fit in China, Taiwan, Philippines or Hong Kong, then where do I fit in best then in your opinion? You can't down Europe and have no better suggestion. Plus I don't like hot humid weather. Right now it's hot and sticky here and making me suffer in Taiwan. And the house here doesn't have aircon running all throughout the house like the house in America does. So I'm suffering and in pain now and having a hard time even writing this. I f***ing HATE hot humid weather! How many times do I have to say that? I prefer cooler drier climate like Europe or USA.

Even @Mr S is f***ing tired of being in the Philippines and he's been there since 2004. Are you gonna tell him to stay there too? If he had the money and time and wasn't attached to his daughter, he would be in Eastern Europe too. So even he understands. So why don't you?

You have no better solutions. And you are not understanding my point.

[publicduende]

@publicduende
Question for you. So if my soul/personality doesn't fit in China, Taiwan, Philippines or Hong Kong, then where do I fit in best then in your opinion? You can't down Europe and have no better suggestion. Plus I don't like hot humid weather. Right now it's hot and sticky here and making me suffer in Taiwan. And the house here doesn't have aircon running all throughout the house like the house in America does. So I'm suffering and in pain now and having a hard time even writing this. I f***ing HATE hot humid weather! How many times do I have to say that? I prefer cooler drier climate like Europe or USA.

Even @Mr S is f***ing tired of being in the Philippines and he's been there since 2004. Are you gonna tell him to stay there too? If he had the money and time and wasn't attached to his daughter, he would be in Eastern Europe too. So even he understands. So why don't you?

You have no better solutions. And you are not understanding my point.

@Winston

There is absolutely nothing that stops you from visiting, spending 2 weeks or 2 months or even settling permanently (Visa status permitting) in any of the places you mentioned above.

My (and maybe Eurobrat's) bitter conclusion is that there is no such as a "HA haven". No place on earth is better than any other. The UK are a great place to live in if you love to comply with all sorts of rules about how you work, how you socialise, how you date and love, even how you die. The Philippines is a place full of written rules that are never applied and can be circumvented by anyone with power, or money, or cunning. In between you have almost 300 countries, each sitting somewhere in this wide spectrum. And, as you know, weather can be hot and humid or -25 degrees most of the year.

What we HA-ers, old and new, should perhaps sober up to and start drilling in our skulls is that most traits that are common to humans will be present in every society, perhaps in different quantities and forms, yet everywhere. The social respect that comes from being, or at least being perceived as, a decent man with a successful business/work platform and enough financial security to buy himself clothes and a car, afford to read and take time off to travel and absorb new knowledge. All this is pretty much UBIQUITOUS. Most men and women, and girls, the hot ones and the less hot ones, in every society will tend to respond favourably to the model of a man who is well-adjusted to the daily rituals of society.

You may abhor it all you want and call it a sign of herd mentality, or dumb mediocrity and conformism. It doesn't take a professional shrink to understand that your ego feels extremely good when you have a chance to proclaim your status of free thinker and distance yourself from the rest of the world. As you yourself claimed, you ended up choosing the intellectual stance of a "truth seeker" and a "free thinker" not because you were naturally drawn to it, but because kids around you bullied and made you feel like an outcast. A very common reaction especially in teenager is that of wearing that scarlet letter as a sign of proud distinction: "if I have to be an outcast, then I'll be the best outcast the world has ever seen".

You may be interested in all sorts of deep philosophical, alternative and controversial topics and read about them to exhaustion. The fact remains that, in most of society's eyes (and this applies to the Philippines as much as the US, this much I can guarantee you!) your time spent honing this kind of knowledge, coupled with the fact that you don't have a daily job that people perceive as a proxy to personal success, is something negative. Something to frown upon. And this applies to men and women alike, the latter camp being always on the look for the pack leader, the Greater Conformist they can reliably lean on.

In short Winnie: wherever you go, whether it was Europe or Africa, there you are, because of your personality, your personal situation and the kind of values that you hold and project when people go beyond that superficial conversation and start to know you a bit better.

I know it sounds silly and obvious, but such is my conclusion: stay how you are and you'll feel (or be) a misfit anywhere. Change and give in yourself, at least partly, to the rules of the majority - yes, the one you so despise - and you will see you'll be a fit anywhere. Regardless of female beauty levels, temperature and humidity conditions and number of oak or mango trees per square kilometer.

[momopi]

Do you believe that being taller and better looking would improve your chances?

(Not "in general" or "other guys", I mean YOU specifically).

Of course looks matter. But I cannot change my height. Even if I wear high heeled shoes, that only adds one or two inches and women can tell that you are wearing high heeled soles. Come on. This is shallow and trivial. I can tell you don't have a lot of experience with women. They look at your whole package and judge on that. They don't base their attraction on little things like this. Also I cannot be something or someone I am not. I've got to be the best me.

Women tend to be attracted to my charm and personality, not clothes or material things or petty things. Watch all my video clips in Russia and you will see. White women aren't like Asian women. They look at the overall package. And I don't get along with shallow types anyway. If you aren't their type, you can't do much about it. You are talking too much like a PUA guru which we all know is useless and doesn't make any difference unless she is on the borderline to liking you.

1. It is possible to increase your height through surgery. In South Korea the procedure is avail at several major hospitals including Samsung medical in Seoul. The procedure is performed at least 600 times a year in SK. Many Korean male stars are 6’ tall and let’s just say not all of them are naturally 180cm. The procedure is costly in money, pain, and risk. In worst case you may be crippled.

2. As we have already discussed the target group is European women who are open to dating Asian men. They may be into Asian culture and cinema which influence Asian standard of beauty and “Asian expectations”. You already know this.

3. In the study of Physiognomy we recognize that people judge others by their appearance, which leads to sexual stereotyping and sexual selection. By changing your appearance you may also alter your “fate”, for those who believe in pre-destination.


You already know that when a women looks at a man’s “whole package” it includes looks, physical build and height. It’s up to you to seek every advantage, such as hiring a personal trainer to gain more athletic build in 6 months. It’s cheaper and less risky than height increasing surgery. But if you are unwilling to put in the effort, then you accept lower chance of success.

[momopi]

The primary reason I wanna go back to Europe is not because of women and dating. The primary reason is because I like/love European culture 1000x more than Asian culture. And my soul/personality fits in better too. The women/dating part is just a side benefit that may or may not happen. But that's not the primary reason. Why are you two acting deaf and dumb and not understanding me? How much clearer can I make this? Don't you understand basic English?
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I've been wanting to go back to Europe again since 2006. I even had a return ticket there. But I can't organize my f***ing time. f**k. So I'm still stuck on 2006. I'm not living in the present year ok? My mind is stuck in the past. I'm sorry you don't like that, but it's the truth. I'm not in the f***ing present moment. Time moves too f***ing fast. I don't accept it. I don't accept or bend to reality. I try to make reality fit into my plans. I still want to go back to the Europe I saw in 2005. Otherwise I will never know and regret it.
It's only a 14 hour flight. Why can't you let me go and experience it myself? Why can't you let me follow my heart?

1. You prioritized (choose over) going to Taiwan, China, Las Vegas, Philippines, and Thailand instead of Europe.

2. As we have already discusssd in another thread, if you want to go to Europe then make it your primary goal and objective. This means making the hard decisions to rank your goals:

Primary
Secondary
Tertiary
Quaternary
Quinary
Senary
Septenary
Octonary
Nonary
Denary

Respond back with your list. Not being able to “let go” of some goals as lower priority means you will continue to be stuck in 2006.

[Winston]

Also @publicduende and @momopi. You forget something. Even if i have no romance in Europe, there are always girls and women who will befriend me and show me around for friendship or language/culture exchange or basic hospitality. Because european and russian girls are very open and curious and social with foreigners and decent looking strangers, like me. They arent closed like NE asian girls or limited to introductions through friends. So i wont be lonely or without company. And there will be a sense of social connection too.

This is well demonstrated and shown in my videos. And if u traveled around europe more Publicduende you would know this. I get a sense that neither of you do any cold approaching or start conversations with strangers. Right?

In europe girls will stop and hear you out if you say "excuse me miss". Unlike chinese countries where they will ignore you as if you were a ghost and invisible and dont exist. Huge difference.

You see, European girls are different than American or Chinese girls in that they will still hang out with you if you are interesting even if theyre not romantically interested in you. But American and Chinese girls are all or nothing. They wont just hang out with a guy if they are not serious about dating him or marrying him. So they arent cool and open like Euro girls or FSU girls are. Thats a huge difference i experienced firsthand. And women themselves concur with this difference too.

In summary, i like european culture more because:
1. I like its history and architecture and old towns.
2. I like museums and castles.
3. I like european folk music.
4. I like colder cooler weather and its fresher air.
5. The energy and vibe is more positive and my soul can feed off it which makes me feel more alive and positive and in my element too.
6. The mentality of europeans is more similar to mine. Whereas asians believe that the object of life is making money and having a career, europeans believe the goal of life is to have a rich variety of experiences, which is how i think too.

In contrast, in Asia:
1. The architecture is drab and ugly with no soul. All that matters is money and practicality. Soul doesnt matter.
2. Most cities are polluted. Because productivity and profit are all that matter. Air quality doesnt.
3. The weather sucks and is usually hot and humid, the worst combination. I detest hot sticky air.
4. NE asian girls look very cold, overly serious and uptight. That turns me off. I like people who are laid back and carefree and open. So our vibes conflict.
5. The people are purely pragmatic and practical. And their conversation is limited to practicality only. They seem to have a hive mind and dont understand why I'm not connected to it.

Theres the big picture in a nutshell. So you see theres a lot more to it than girls. You should not move to a country just for the girls or stay in a country you dont fit into just for the girls. Dont you agree? Im sure @Mr S would agree too.

Have you considered all this Publicduende? Are u a thinker too? Do you think, ponder, reflect and introspect?

Anyone who sees the above lists will agree that europe is far better for a freethinker and freespirit. Unless you are an asiaphile and connected to the asian hive mind, which i am not.

Even dianne agrees with me. Shes tired of the Philippines and would much rather be in Europe or a cooler and more interesting climate.

So its foolish Publicduende for you to debate this. Your opinion is only true for u and right for u. Not for others. And u should be more humble and less arrogant and not pretend to be God.

The universe is full of surprises and has surprises around the corner if you keep moving forward in life and you are attuned to higher forces and dimensions. Why do you presume to know where the universe will bestow its gifts for others? Why does it have to be the Philippines or Asia? Because you are in Asia and biased toward it? Lol. You act like you can read the mind of God and thats foolish. You dont know a man's destiny or where the universe will bestow its blessings, good surprises and opportunities. Be honest and admit that.

Did you consider that maybe i have more knowledge and wisdom than you? That maybe I'm an older soul than you? That maybe i have a lot more past lives in Europe than you? Why do you have a hard time understanding or relating to others?

Do you even read my words or do you erase them from your memory banks?

[gsjackson]

Also @publicduende and @momopi. You forget something. Even if i have no romance in Europe, there are always girls and women who will befriend me and show me around for friendship or language/culture exchange or basic hospitality. Because european and russian girls are very open and curious and social with foreigners and decent looking strangers, like me. They arent closed like NE asian girls or limited to introductions through friends. So i wont be lonely or without company. And there will be a sense of social connection too.

This is well demonstrated and shown in my videos. And if u traveled around europe more Publicduende you would know this. I get a sense that neither of you do any cold approaching or start conversations with strangers. Right?

In europe girls will stop and hear you out if you say "excuse me miss". Unlike chinese countries where they will ignore you as if you were a ghost and invisible and dont exist. Huge difference.

You see, European girls are different than American or Chinese girls in that they will still hang out with you if you are interesting even if theyre not romantically interested in you. But American and Chinese girls are all or nothing. They wont just hang out with a guy if they are not serious about dating him or marrying him. So they arent cool and open like Euro girls or FSU girls are. Thats a huge difference i experienced firsthand. And women themselves concur with this difference too.

In summary, i like european culture more because:
1. I like its history and architecture and old towns.
2. I like museums and castles.
3. I like european folk music.
4. I like colder cooler weather and its fresher air.
5. The energy and vibe is more positive and my soul can feed off it which makes me feel more alive and positive and in my element too.
6. The mentality of europeans is more similar to mine. Whereas asians believe that the object of life is making money and having a career, europeans believe the goal of life is to have a rich variety of experiences, which is how i think too.

In contrast, in Asia:
1. The architecture is drab and ugly with no soul. All that matters is money and practicality. Soul doesnt matter.
2. Most cities are polluted. Because productivity and profit are all that matter. Air quality doesnt.
3. The weather sucks and is usually hot and humid, the worst combination. I detest hot sticky air.
4. NE asian girls look very cold, overly serious and uptight. That turns me off. I like people who are laid back and carefree and open. So our vibes conflict.
5. The people are purely pragmatic and practical. And their conversation is limited to practicality only. They seem to have a hive mind and dont understand why I'm not connected to it.

Theres the big picture in a nutshell. So you see theres a lot more to it than girls. You should not move to a country just for the girls or stay in a country you dont fit into just for the girls. Dont you agree? Im sure @Mr S would agree too.

Have you considered all this Publicduende? Are u a thinker too? Do you think, ponder, reflect and introspect?

Anyone who sees the above lists will agree that europe is far better for a freethinker and freespirit. Unless you are an asiaphile and connected to the asian hive mind, which i am not.

Even dianne agrees with me. Shes tired of the Philippines and would much rather be in Europe or a cooler and more interesting climate.

So its foolish Publicduende for you to debate this. Your opinion is only true for u and right for u. Not for others. And u should be more humble and less arrogant and not pretend to be God.

The universe is full of surprises and has surprises around the corner if you keep moving forward in life and you are attuned to higher forces and dimensions. Why do you presume to know where the universe will bestow its gifts for others? Why does it have to be the Philippines or Asia? Because you are in Asia and biased toward it? Lol. You act like you can read the mind of God and thats foolish. You dont know a man's destiny or where the universe will bestow its blessings, good surprises and opportunities. Be honest and admit that.

Did you consider that maybe i have more knowledge and wisdom than you? That maybe I'm an older soul than you? That maybe i have a lot more past lives in Europe than you? Why do you have a hard time understanding or relating to others?

Do you even read my words or do you erase them from your memory banks?

Winston, I'm right with you on all of this. Going from Thailand to Croatia -- one of the most beautiful European countries -- in 2014 was liking going from hell to heaven. But one thing: You might find it a little more difficult in Europe to make friends with girls now because so many of them are phone zombies. At least in Romania, almost all of them constantly have their noses buried in the damn things, often with ear plugs in. So cold approaching now often involves an element of interruption.

[momopi]

Also publicduende and momopi. You forget something. Even if i have no romance in Europe, there are always girls and women who will befriend me and show me around for friendship or language/culture exchange or basic hospitality. Because european and russian girls are very open and curious and social with foreigners and decent looking strangers, like me. They arent closed like NE asian girls or limited to introductions through friends. So i wont be lonely or without company. And there will be a sense of social connection too.
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Irrevelent if you fail to prioritize going to Europe and stay stuck in 2006.

Yes, things happen -- I wanted to attend Red Velvet New York concert in June this year but couldn't due to schedule conflict, so I booked tickets to Momoland concert at Staples center next weekend instead. Either way I'm going to get my fix. I wouldn't wait a decade then complain about it.

[Winston]

Check this out. El_Caudillo concurs that Europe is better for intellectuals and is the most intellectual continent, based on his experience too.

[8/2, 12:57 PM] Winston: Which european countries have u been to?
[8/2, 12:58 PM] El_Caudillo: Ive been to bulgaria serbia hungary greece switzerland england scotland
[8/2, 12:59 PM] Winston: So u know what i mean right? U have talked to people there and they are more soulful right?
[8/2, 1:00 PM] El_Caudillo: Europe is most intellectual continent yes
[8/2, 1:00 PM] El_Caudillo: Followed by south america
[8/2, 1:00 PM] El_Caudillo: In my opinion and subjective experience
[8/2, 1:01 PM] Winston: Isnt japan intellectual too?
[8/2, 1:01 PM] El_Caudillo: Maybe japan is but they dont let outsiders in as far as i know
[8/2, 1:04 PM] Winston: So Japan is just book smart. Not open minded or soulful smart.

[Winston]

Btw @publicduende i dont agree that people everywhere consider you a bum if you don't have regular employment from an employer. Lots of people nowadays make a living online through a website, ecommerce, vlog channel or blog. So its a new fad and popular now. Especially with travelers and freespirits. Im sure you know that. Sure Chinese women havent caught onto it yet and they still a real job is necessary to look normal. Some Chinese women told me that too. But in western countries online business is a new trend.

Im sure you know all this so why did you say the world will look down on you if you dont have a real job or are nonconformist? No one calls themselves a conformist anyway. That's a word only nonconformists use. But conformists dont see the world in terms of such labels.