Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
@publicduende It's not easy to encounter girls without boyfriends otherwise I would have one.
That is probably true. It's also true that, in the age bracket you're looking at, most girls are still too young and immature and not really looking for a long-term relationship. You fix that by simply looking at young women in their mid to late 20, perhaps even early 30s. I bet you will find plenty more looking for a serious man to love and settle with.
Given that, the only thing remaining is to be that "serious man". Give her socio-economic and emotional security by giving yourself those two things first. It's really
that simple,
@Tsar.
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
I get plenty of girls showing me interest and most are from EE and teens. I'm sure if I was in one of the countries where I get interest, I could get one of them to meet me. I even had some girls talk about sexual fantasies with me. All these are girls 15-19, so don't think I am not having a good amount of success.
It's just a matter of getting one IRL in my current locations because the sanctions prevent me from traveling to the best locations.
It was a trial and error. I won't follow advice that would make me unhappy.
If by "interest" you mean single-line replies to your chat messages on dating sites or forums, that's something, but still very far from getting to know that person. IRL all of you is exposed, all of you is invested. Keeping up the lie, the "digital filter" is almost impossible. It's the ultimate testing ground and, as far as I am concerned, it's the ultimate
training ground.
You should consider that.
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
I don't find Filipinas beautiful or intelligent enough for me. I won't be going outside Europe or to any incompatible cultures. I tried to tolerate incompatible cultures, listen to terrible advice to stop pursuing the best girls in the world, and it made me unhappy. Third world conditions are everywhere outside of Europe. The Philippines would be more expensive to replicate any comparable quality of life that exists in Europe. Sorry, but I'm not dealing with Asia's Mexico or any other places.
That you don't like Filipinas physically, I can understand, in fact, I already got the message. All I am saying is that the Philippines are such an easy country to get a girl in, whether for mindless sex or marriage, that even you will find it easier to date and learn something about how to approach girls in real life. In terms of training grounds available in the world, it's the kindergarten. If you didn't have any education, where would you start from? Primary school or college?
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
Europe is safe, has pleasant people, more trusting people, highly intelligent people, and isn't lackeys to America. Any hot Filipina will have greater demand by everyone and most hot Filipinos want the local men or Korean guys, not White men!
It's a stereotype. There are dumbasses and bums in Europe, too. The literacy levels are plunging everywhere in Europe, especially in the "southern" countries (Italy, Greece, Spain and Portugal, etc.). For what it's worth, it's the US that are still going strong in attracting the best talents not only from Europe but from around the world.
Not really true, that hot Filipinas will want a Korean guy. Many hot Filipinas routinely marry Western or Caucasian men. Sure, if it's a hot jet-set woman you've got to have something going on for yourself. Isabelle Daza here is an actress, model, and daughter of former Miss Universe (herself a "girl next door" turned model and actress). She married a foreigner, a Frenchman I think, who is not only decent looking but also a proper expat, a Country Manager for some multinational I can't remember.
In the end, like everywhere else, if you want the cream of the crop, you must have something going on for yourself. It's just that, in the Philippines, there are so many cute girls who are single and very open to dating a foreigner. Try that in China, or Japan, or, worse, Thailand, without collecting an album of the worst scammers.
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
If I am going to race mix, I want the Top 5% of any non-White.
And, precisely, who are you to lay that claim? Are you yourself top 5% of the US gene pool? Again, step off your personal cloud.
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
If I am sticking with Whites, then I want the Top 20%-25% of White females. And among White Females, only EE girls are worth anything to me!
Most non-EE Whites are just too unattractive or boyish or feminist for me...
Yes, but it so happens that, by nature
and nurture, you will never be able to get a top 20-25% of white females (whatever that might mean) unless you
practice.
Tsar wrote: ↑May 21st, 2022, 12:15 pm
I am comfortable in Europe. Eventually, if I keep working on myself, I will get a girl, because I vibe with the location.
Finally got there. Working on yourself primarily means understanding your limits and working on them. From what I can see from your posts here, you seem to harbour totally naive ideas about women and perhaps the real world. You should put yourself out there, unconditionally and without expectations, and work your way to wherever you want to be.
You might not like my tough love but it is what it is: you're way, way down and you're quite late in the game. That doesn't mean you can take massive shortcuts (dating in the Philippines is already a substantial shortcut, in more than a way), you still need to pace up and take things one step at a time.
I still believe a first step is to establish yourself socially and financially. You say it would be difficult to replicate any quality of life in a third world country. If you don't have a steady income, no country will give you a decent quality of life. Weren't you complaining about food in Bulgaria giving you worms, or some sort of skin condition?
Work on acquiring skills that will allow you to work remotely. The era of digital nomads surviving on copywriting (or so they claimed) is well over. Try hard skills like software development or development operations ("DevOps"), or web design if you are more creatively inclined.