Epidemic of Male virgins in America

[Ghost]

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[MrMan]

i go to a very small baptist church here in Edmond, OK and until i lost my virginity about a year 1/2 ago i had no idea how many guys were virgins in my church (and of course, not by choice) i was one of about six guys who were virgins (one got married) but there are still four guys who are virgins there (two of them are over 30) .....thats about 70% percent of the unmarried guys there who are virgins (yeah everyone else is either a kid and we have a bunch of married men there).....playboy did an article in 2011 that showed 40% of men and women in america are still virgins between the ages of 18-24.....that shows that men are now sex starved in america and finding it almost impossible to get a girlfriend

What kind of church do you go to where you and your fellow male single church members are not virgins by choice. You guys need to repent.

churches in US of Gay where there are no good women who want a man like in indonesia where you found yours with ease

I didn't find her with ease. I had to wait a long time, or it seemed like it to me, before I met someone I wanted to marry.

Sure, when I moved to Indonesia, women suddenly seemed particularly interested in me. There was also a female stalker with mental problems who wanted to marry me. That got difficult at times. It wasn't easy. I was there a couple of years before we had our first conversation (we figured out we'd met briefly a year earlier.)

[newlifeinphilippines]

i go to a very small baptist church here in Edmond, OK and until i lost my virginity about a year 1/2 ago i had no idea how many guys were virgins in my church (and of course, not by choice) i was one of about six guys who were virgins (one got married) but there are still four guys who are virgins there (two of them are over 30) .....thats about 70% percent of the unmarried guys there who are virgins (yeah everyone else is either a kid and we have a bunch of married men there).....playboy did an article in 2011 that showed 40% of men and women in america are still virgins between the ages of 18-24.....that shows that men are now sex starved in america and finding it almost impossible to get a girlfriend

What kind of church do you go to where you and your fellow male single church members are not virgins by choice. You guys need to repent.

churches in US of Gay where there are no good women who want a man like in indonesia where you found yours with ease

I didn't find her with ease. I had to wait a long time, or it seemed like it to me, before I met someone I wanted to marry.

Sure, when I moved to Indonesia, women suddenly seemed particularly interested in me. There was also a female stalker with mental problems who wanted to marry me. That got difficult at times. It wasn't easy. I was there a couple of years before we had our first conversation (we figured out we'd met briefly a year earlier.)

What were the issues you found with the other women? Would you agree that most indonesia women aren't that attractive and the ones that are very good looking generally are hard to get for foreigners? It seems like only leeching gold diggers or the borderline girls or psychos want foreigners in south east asia.

[matthewcoury]

More American women are going pro using websites like "Seeking Arrangement" where they get paid up to $3500 per "date". That's another reason most guys are still virgins.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/

HOLY CRAP.....its SUPER expensive prostitution with no guarantee of sex......we're doomed here....abandon ship

[Bane]

I didn't succeed until I went abroad. That showed that the problem wasn't me (the individual) - it was that I lived in a rotten society.

My whole outlook… summed up in two short sentences. May I use this in my signature?

[Ghost]

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[FusionX20]

More American women are going pro using websites like "Seeking Arrangement" where they get paid up to $3500 per "date". That's another reason most guys are still virgins.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/

HOLY CRAP.....its SUPER expensive prostitution with no guarantee of sex......we're doomed here....abandon ship

It's not really that surprising to me at all, websites like these are in a growing number but finally, a few men which are a minority are waking up realizing how they're manipulating men. Steve Hoca talked about the concept of renting women, paying money through the roof out your pocket with no guarantee of any companionship, sex or anything; there are no rules in place when it comes to women, they do what they want.

I compare this to the night club situation, a girl can take advantage of any guy, as many as she wants, take all his money and get free drinks then tell them all to go f*** themselves. Then go back home with her bf..

It's so sickening now'days there are even ads on porn websites stating, "fat or ugly women need sex, so click here" idiotic crap like that.. They realize how sexually oppressed guys are that they will make these scamming ads to try and get guys money. We MGTOW's have woken up and don't fall for that crap anymore, but the majority of men unfortunately still buy into these scams.

[matthewcoury]

It's so sickening now'days there are even ads on p**n websites stating, "fat or ugly women need sex, so click here" idiotic crap like that.. They realize how sexually oppressed guys are that they will make these scamming ads to try and get guys money. We MGTOW's have woken up and don't fall for that crap anymore, but the majority of men unfortunately still buy into these scams.

I have seen that...."tired of getting turned down by bitches? have sex with a fat girl"....tells you its an epidemic.....time to abandon ship

[Forerunner]

I didn't succeed until I went abroad. That showed that the problem wasn't me (the individual) - it was that I lived in a rotten society.

But you did not actually succeed, did you? You went to the Philippines all excited and you found a girl you thought would be good to you, be it ended up being one big disappointment and her family screwed you over and stole from you. To say that you 'succeeded' in the Philippines seems a gross overstatement, as you got taken advantage of and as a result became very bitter about the country as a whole.

You did not find a decent woman in America (hardly a surprise reading all the rants here) but then again, you also didn't find a decent woman abroad either. What you got was sex, but with it came an empty wallet and crushed dreams. You went from one rotten society to, in your words, another. Hardly a success.

I still lost my virginity in Asia. And f***ed a few girls. My ex-gf did deceive me and her family robbed from me, but at least I learned from it. And I was able to get women over there, so, yes, it was a success.

Hey Ghost what parts of Asia did you go to, I really want to take a trip to N.E. Asia specifically China, where would you recommend me going. People are always advocating the Phil's on here and many Filipinas are nice to me I have talked to many of them before. But what i really dislike about some of these women is they are very materialistic and on top of that they idolize this toxic culture in the West

[Forerunner]

It's so sickening now'days there are even ads on p**n websites stating, "fat or ugly women need sex, so click here" idiotic crap like that.. They realize how sexually oppressed guys are that they will make these scamming ads to try and get guys money. We MGTOW's have woken up and don't fall for that crap anymore, but the majority of men unfortunately still buy into these scams.

I have seen that...."tired of getting turned down by bitches? have sex with a fat girl"....tells you its an epidemic.....time to abandon ship

I think the ship has already sunk LOL. We are all just trying to float to get on board to a raft , boat or something that floats

[Forerunner]

Male virgins above a certain age are usually nature's way of weeding out the weak, the indecisive and the unfit from procreating. Not counting those who remain virgins for religious reasons who may very well marry and have families of their own at one point.

The type of man who cannot get laid and instead whines about his lack of action from behind his cosy chair & desk at home, is not the type of guy that Mother Nature and God intended to procreate in the first place. A male virgin often is a man without drive or passion, without power or conviction. He does a lot of contemplating, complaining and reflecting, but very little to actually combat the situation he is in. He cries over what he lacks, but does very little to make up for it.

A male virgin in his twenties or older is seen as a defective human being by most. And harsh as this may sound, there is a lot of common sense in that. Because if you live in a country with an abundance of sluts and easy, immoral women, there really is no reason for you not to get laid and your inability to do so hints at a problem on your part.

The virgin Western male is a male who failed to adapt to a society that is corrupt, and who simultaneously refused to leave said society for greener pastures. He wants his cake and eat it too, but never takes the walk to the bakery so he remains hungry.

Please tell me why you think its because a lack of social skills because honestly the way I see it many people who are social such as myself can't meet descent people to talk with especially when it comes to the women here in Good ol America. They seem to know more about celebrity gossip, reality tv,, & pop culture which I don't give a crap about. Talking properly having great speaking skills gets you nothing especially with most women because they hate a men that is competent they see it a threat actually. I am not just a guy that wants to get laid with any girl I have standards however my standards are realistic I want a descent average looking girl not asking for too much. Most girls in the states lack substance when I talk to them they are very superficial fake etc they have no depth hence why I can't connect with most women here.



I will agree that many men are puzzified but can you really blame them its the toxic culture that has a big majority of the say in this women are constantly put on a pedestal here just look at the movies nowadays in hollywood where you have the men always chasing to get the women he wants to the end of the earth then to find out she does not like him at all she rejects him because he does not meet her flawed desires. Social conditioning like that changes the mindset of the weak-minded conformist type of people especially with women since we all know they tend to follow a lot of the time.


No need to conform to a trashy degraded society that is toxic and in decline why set your bar so low by banging these chicks here if they don't fit you pragmatism of how women are supposed to behave if you give into to this you are defeating the sole purpose of HA. The more men who wake up to this stop just going after women with just only looks to offer and nothing else the faster the house of cards falls (feminism). Instead choose women who you want to have sex wisely meaning if you say you don't like women who are anti-feminine why would you want to have any relations with one. Sadly to say this but many men are not about to do this here in the US of Gay

[FusionX20]

Male virgins above a certain age are usually nature's way of weeding out the weak, the indecisive and the unfit from procreating. Not counting those who remain virgins for religious reasons who may very well marry and have families of their own at one point.

The type of man who cannot get laid and instead whines about his lack of action from behind his cosy chair & desk at home, is not the type of guy that Mother Nature and God intended to procreate in the first place. A male virgin often is a man without drive or passion, without power or conviction. He does a lot of contemplating, complaining and reflecting, but very little to actually combat the situation he is in. He cries over what he lacks, but does very little to make up for it.

A male virgin in his twenties or older is seen as a defective human being by most. And harsh as this may sound, there is a lot of common sense in that. Because if you live in a country with an abundance of sluts and easy, immoral women, there really is no reason for you not to get laid and your inability to do so hints at a problem on your part.

The virgin Western male is a male who failed to adapt to a society that is corrupt, and who simultaneously refused to leave said society for greener pastures. He wants his cake and eat it too, but never takes the walk to the bakery so he remains hungry.

That's exactly what Chris Arnett says, aka theplayersupreme guy. I think it's a bunch of confirmation bias. Dismissing that looks matter the most b/c of the brainwashing, a guy could be super strong and still ugly or socially challenged.

[Ghost]

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[droid]

It's so sickening now'days there are even ads on p**n websites stating, "fat or ugly women need sex, so click here" idiotic crap like that.. They realize how sexually oppressed guys are that they will make these scamming ads to try and get guys money. We MGTOW's have woken up and don't fall for that crap anymore, but the majority of men unfortunately still buy into these scams.

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Excellent observations.

[Forerunner]

I didn't succeed until I went abroad. That showed that the problem wasn't me (the individual) - it was that I lived in a rotten society.

But you did not actually succeed, did you? You went to the Philippines all excited and you found a girl you thought would be good to you, be it ended up being one big disappointment and her family screwed you over and stole from you. To say that you 'succeeded' in the Philippines seems a gross overstatement, as you got taken advantage of and as a result became very bitter about the country as a whole.

You did not find a decent woman in America (hardly a surprise reading all the rants here) but then again, you also didn't find a decent woman abroad either. What you got was sex, but with it came an empty wallet and crushed dreams. You went from one rotten society to, in your words, another. Hardly a success.

I still lost my virginity in Asia. And f***ed a few girls. My ex-gf did deceive me and her family robbed from me, but at least I learned from it. And I was able to get women over there, so, yes, it was a success.

Hey Ghost what parts of Asia did you go to, I really want to take a trip to N.E. Asia specifically China, where would you recommend me going. People are always advocating the Phil's on here and many Filipinas are nice to me I have talked to many of them before. But what i really dislike about some of these women is they are very materialistic and on top of that they idolize this toxic culture in the West

I've been to China, Philippines, Thailand, Singapore, and Malaysia. There's no way to recommend where to go. It depends on what you want. If you go to Asia, you'll will have to demonstrate yourself to be a good guy in order to find a good woman. And even then it may not work. Materialism and careerism are rampant in East Asian countries. Don't monger good girls. (Not that it will likely work. A lot of guys go to places like Philippines and think they are mongering normal girls. And then they are actually mongering sluts and hookers that give free service to foreigners off the clock.) I now view the Philippines as hopelessly third world, corrupt, and promiscuous. China is not a promiscuous society. But it is more materialistic and careerist than the Phils.

thanks for the sound advice but I am not looking for a one night stand or quickie looking to find a nice girl to hang out go out on some dates get to know, start a relationship with, have some fun in their country. A lot of guys on here complain about women being sluts but they are no better for example Will N. Dowd etc