In that regard you may have a point. There are a few examples where I am glad that she said 'no.' As I look back, I sometimes think 'what was I thinking?' On the flipside, there were some sweet/cute/juicy (not fat) 2nd/3rd generation italian girls I could have tried.Adama wrote:Is this for real? What kind of job does she have? What kind of men do you think she goes for?Taco wrote:
See the men on sites like these are all upset that women dont seem to want them. But take a look at what most women are. Do you really want them? That's the real question. Rejection is a hidden blessing. To be rejected from a walking garbage can is never a bad thing. In fact, if you were about to fall into a garbage can but you were rescued, would you be upset that you didn't have a chance to fall in like all those "studs" before you? Or would you wake up and rather be thankful that at the last moment you were pulled away before you could get trapped in filth that can't be washed away? At least having escaped, you still have your life, and a chance for a good one with a good woman.
One can look at it another way. Being turned down is nothing to be proud of. So being turned down by "garbage" would be an insult. A guy can say to himself "damn, I can't even get garbage to take notice. It's bad enough I'm ignored by fine wine, but now I'm getting flipped off by expired rootbeer!" There's two ways you can look at it. Then again, western chics ignore you regardless. I've read clips written by russian/eastern european women who were surprised to see a good looking guy sitting alone being completely ignored by every woman who walked in the bookstore/cafe.