Women that liberally use words such as 'creep'

[mattyman]

There's been many times in public places where I've overheard conversations in public between girls about guys approaching them. One thing I have noticed is the liberal use of words such as 'creep' and 'weirdo'. I've also noticed that women who liberally use such language to talk about men seem to have had the the following things in-common;

[*]They seem to talk in theses rising-intonation, attitude-filled voices
[*]they look feisty and bitchy
[*]they look like they'll blow-up if you accidentally make eye-contact with them
[*]They don't look laidback or approachable
[*]They often look grouchy

Has anyone else noticed a correlation between these things?

What do you guys think of women who liberally use such language? Doesn't it make them sound cruel, unpleasant and mean-spiritied? Don't you find that hideously unattractive?

[Feldeinsamkeit]

It's the arrogance of power. The behaviour you describe reflects, in my judgement, the belief that men - or at least men she is not sexually attracted to - should not these days even have the right to solicit their attention and attempt to woo them. As to the linguistic terms you referenced, "creeps" and "weirdos", these are nothing but shaming terms used to browbeat men whom they don't find sexually appealing. It's almost as if such men are supposed to know they're "not her type" and to stay away - this would certainly fit with the scowling, bitch-faced demeanour you also mentioned towards average guys.

However, were an alpha "bad boy"/rich/famous guy to approach them using the very same lines, it wouldn't be described as "creepy" anymore but would suddenly be transformed into "romantic" and "charming" - perfect evidence of both modern female hypocrisy and hypergamy in action.

[Johnny1975]

Oh what fun it would be if women like that knew what men really thought of them (even those who succeed with them). It's a shame that women can lead lives in which almost no one tells them how utterly pathetic they are (the pathetic ones, I mean). It's like watching a talent contest and someone comes on who is terrible but everyone claps and you're like, what the f**k? If they had to hear what men think of them, and they had to hear it repeatedly, long term, I think they'd fall apart.

[Feldeinsamkeit]

Oh what fun it would be if women like that knew what men really thought of them (even those who succeed with them). It's a shame that women can lead lives in which almost no one tells them how utterly pathetic they are (the pathetic ones, I mean). It's like watching a talent contest and someone comes on who is terrible but everyone claps and you're like, what the f**k? If they had to hear what men think of them, and they had to hear it repeatedly, long term, I think they'd fall apart.

That's what the culture of Anglosphere feminazi-infused political correctness prevents, though; by means of it women are shielded from having to take any responsibility for their selfish and obnoxious behaviour. Men need to "grow a pair" and to point out that the Empress is indeed wearing no clothes, aside from a pair of slutty fishnets.

[Johnny1975]

That's true. The problem is that most males are too blinded by p***y to want to say anything. They have no standards. I don't think it's going to happen. What can and will happen is that more men will just ignore them. But what really needs to happen is for the ones who can succeed with them do it too. It's easy for these stupid women to laugh at a bunch of so called losers like us, but if the alphas went elsewhere, and joined us, that would change everything. personally I don't care what happens, as long as I can find a decent female.

[mattyman]

Also, how come I've hardly seen any Polish, Russian. Korean, Japanese or even Spanish girls talking about guys in this way? Nor have I seen any of those other correlated behaviours.

What really sickens me is that on various forums for social anxiety, I've come across threads from guys talking about how they're too afraid to approach and talk to girls for fear of being seen as a 'creep'. Isn't that f***ed-up? What's more, they think that if they are seen that way, they deserve it. It's really quite sad when you hear about the ways some of these people have been treated, or that most of their experience has been with women like I describe. Those hang-ups and worries that these guys develop about being seen as a creep or weirdo, which are THE main source of their approach anxiety are a direct result of this, or being in circles where they haven't known anything else of the opposite sex.

"Oh what fun it would be if women like that knew what men really thought of them (even those who succeed with them)"
On this bombshell, I wonder why there's so many people who are disillusioned? I wonder, especially with those guys who seem to be serial womanizers, that their impressions of women in general are rather negative and cynical without much positive to say? My ex-boss was a case in point.

"That's what the culture of Anglosphere feminazi-infused political correctness prevents, though; by means of it women are shielded"
That's definitely playing a part in why this behaviour is so common and why you don't see it so much, if at all amongst foreign students. The thing is, what can we do about political-correctness? It's political correctness that's ruining society, dom't get me started on multi-culturalism. You just need some little tosser to disagree with your opinoins or points, throw a few labels, silence your point, and that effectively makes said tosser the right?

"That's true. The problem is that most males are too blinded by p***y to want to say anything. They have no standards." Haha, you can say that again mate. I also think that this is part of the problem. I think that there's a vicious circle at play. Too many men seeing a piece of p***y as the solution to all their loneliness-related problems (because they've had it drummed-into them that the carnel act will fulfill ALL their desires for connections, emotional intimacy, purpose, acceptance, belonging etc.) that are spoiling things for those of us who simply want to meet a nice girl. There's just too many guys like that, which give women like I've described the ammunition for all the anti-men sentiments and the negative atitudes towards men. This of course, leads to more people feeling lonely and frustrated. This only perpetuates the cycle.

The only common denomitators I can see is this mentality that a piece f p***y will cure all the problems of lonelines, for men that have no standards and, political-correctness that shields women from criticism, which only serves to foster appalling behaviour, which only makes the problem WORSE.

[Ghost]

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[Temprano26]

A friend told me treat female dogs like female dogs, meaning don't treat them at all. I have run into these women that glare at me just for talking to them and I just walk away.

[Feldeinsamkeit]

Try turning the tables on them in a conversation. Refer to a time when a female did something you found creepy. Proceed to watch the hamster spin. It's quite hilarious.

Yes, give them a taste of their own medicine, indeed.

Something that I often, although not consistently do, these days is as follows: When walking down the street and a woman around my age approaches me from the opposite direction, I turn my head away and look anywhere but in her direction before she gets the chance to give me that arrogant, nose-tilted-in-air quick head flick so beloved of UK women.

In other words, snub them before they can snub you. It both protects your own sense of self-worth - by not allowing her invalidating behaviour against you to take place - and helps enact the karmic process of, "What goes around, comes around". And, furthermore, as a psychiatrist friend once remarked to me, "There's nothing more that a narcissistic/sociopath hates than to be ignored."

[jamesbond]

That's true. The problem is that most males are too blinded by p***y to want to say anything. They have no standards. I don't think it's going to happen. What can and will happen is that more men will just ignore them. But what really needs to happen is for the ones who can succeed with them do it too. It's easy for these stupid women to laugh at a bunch of so called losers like us, but if the alphas went elsewhere, and joined us, that would change everything. personally I don't care what happens, as long as I can find a decent female.

Exactly, most men in Anglo countries have little or no standards. They put women on pedestals and treat them like they are princesses. This further inflates the ego of these women to the point where they will turn down every man who is not "perfect."

Just wait until these women hit their 30's and start losing their looks. The closer they get to age 40, the more desperate they will become to find a husband. Then they won't be so arrogant. However, from their late teens to late 20's, they will have men eating out of their hands.

[Johnny1975]

That's true. The problem is that most males are too blinded by p***y to want to say anything. They have no standards. I don't think it's going to happen. What can and will happen is that more men will just ignore them. But what really needs to happen is for the ones who can succeed with them do it too. It's easy for these stupid women to laugh at a bunch of so called losers like us, but if the alphas went elsewhere, and joined us, that would change everything. personally I don't care what happens, as long as I can find a decent female.

Exactly, most men in Anglo countries have little or no standards. They put women on pedestals and treat them like they are princesses. This further inflates the ego of these women to the point where they will turn down every man who is not "perfect."

Just wait until these women hit their 30's and start losing their looks. The closer they get to age 40, the more desperate they will become to find a husband. Then they won't be so arrogant. However, from their late teens to late 20's, they will have men eating out of their hands.

I wonder if there will be a name for them, like Generation Lost.

[jamesbond]

This picture says it all regarding young, good looking women in Anglo countries.