American women want nothing to do with you if you are single

[GoingAwol]

Young American women despise single men! they hate us! If you go into any restaurant in America you'll notice that the female waitresses will ignore tables with single men and linger at tables with man/woman couples . And if you go to parties/social gatherings here you'll notice that women linger around guys that are already taken or guys that already appear popular with women. To women, the fact that you are single means you are unattractive and undesirable and they want nothing to do with you. So you are punished for being single and the longer you stay single the less desirable you become and it becomes nearly impossible to escape your singleness. So if you have been single for a few years and haven't been seen out with women and don't have pictures of yourself with women on facebook you can pretty much forget finding a woman to date because it probably ain't gonna happen unless you get extremely lucky or divine intervention takes place. Young single American men like myself are pretty much f***ed in the U.S dating scene.

[Adama]

Just tell them you've been dating but you havent found the right one yet. They don't have to know you've been single.

Women do like to go sniffing where another woman has been, but that doesnt mean that single guys have no chance.

The problem you may encounter, is that you may not know what you're doing. Once you figure out what you're doing and how to do it, it will never come into their minds to question whether you lack experience with women or how many women you've been with.

There also could be other reasons why waitresses will linger around where other women have been. Those women could be somewhat uncomfortable around the opposite sex. I can imagine being a waiter and having to wait on single women. It might just be easier for women to get along with groups that have women in them. And many interactions with younger men may lead to those men becoming interested, when really she was just trying to work. If you were a waiter, you wouldnt want to accidentally act too friendly toward the wrong woman, and then have that uninteresting woman come back everyday to hit on you.

[Adama]

When I think about women, I don't imagine them to be picky and bitchy. When I think of women, I imagine they are cowardly. That is the real reason behind most of the behavior that men receive from them.

They're flaky because they are insecure and afraid. It isnt because they're being bitchy (although in the end the two don't feel different from receiving end at the male perspective). It just comes across as bitchy because they're stupid. They want to make it seem like there was something wrong with the man. When really it is just because they are cowards looking for a way out, and any reason will do. The smallest reason will be magnified into terrible proportions. Or general and vague reasoning is given, usually something subjective, which can not be fixed. But really, it is because the woman is afraid, but they will never admit it.

In other words, it's usually female psychological weakness, rather than contempt for men.

[GoingAwol]

Adama,
I once talked to a woman that used to be a waitress and she flat out told me that women try to avoid single male customers as much as possible because they might *gasp* try to flirt with them. And I disagree..... American women definitely have contempt for single men. I have seen it and encountered it firsthand.

[Adama]

Adama,
I once talked to a woman that used to be a waitress and she flat out told me that women try to avoid single male customers as much as possible because they might *gasp* try to flirt with them. And I disagree..... American women definitely have contempt for single men. I have seen it and encountered it firsthand.

You got to think about it for a second though. Let's say you're a happily married man, and you work as a waiter. Let's also suppose that you get lots of female customers who want to hit on you. You're happily married. You dont want to flirt with random women. You also dont want to lead them on. You're taken. Do you want lots of women constantly trying to hit on you when you're trying to remain faithful to your wife or your girlfriend?

It could just be that women dont want to flirt with every man that walks through the door. Some men will get offended and take it personally. Other men will just realize that they may not be that woman's type, or that she's already taken. Those men do not take a woman not flirting with them personally.

I'd imagine that being a waitress is similar in some way to being a stripper. Those women are going to get hit on by lots of men, if they are in the sweet range of attractiveness. Do you think it might get annoying after a while? Especially if you don't have the hots for those people hitting on you?

Besides, why take it personally when you hear that waitresses don't want to flirt with male customers? If you hooked up with a woman who happened to be a waitress, would you want her flirting with her male customers all day?

[Adama]

And if you go to parties/social gatherings here you'll notice that women linger around guys that are already taken or guys that already appear popular with women. To women, the fact that you are single means you are unattractive and undesirable and they want nothing to do with you.

I dont think that's it at all. I think women are almost programmed to go after the popular man. Not because he has the most testosterone, or the most pebbles stored in his cave, or any other manly trait. I think that women are just programmed to want the men that already have women. Hang in with me here for the real clincher: because secretly they want to be part of a real man's harem.

That's why you see all the women cling to bad boys so much. They want a real man, and they want to see if that man is a real man or not. If you already have a woman under subjection, the other women, who secretly want to be dominated which is why they want bad boys, will come to sniff you out to see if you can be their man, because deep down they are craving a real man to come lead them. Just most men believe in equality, and put women on a pedestal. Women lose respect for those men, because they value them too highly.

[Zambales]

The first thing to do if you're interested in a girl is to be totally honest with yourself. "Am I good looking enough for her?" If the answers no you've got no chance unless she gets to know you of her own free will. Go about your business and leave her alone to make her own mind up. If she's interested in you, you'll see the signs - but this can take weeks or maybe months.

If the answers yes, you've got to realise women have varied tastes, and just because some women find you attractive doesn't automatically mean the girl in question will. Again, back off and watch for the signs.

A lot of women like guys who are not in their face from the moment they're noticed for the first time. After all, they do the choosing, so give them time and let them. Also, hanging around like a loner giving off anxious vibes or coming across as the sleazy type, and basically you're cutting your own throat.

Lastly, and this is so true. If you're not looking for a woman, a woman will most likely come to you.

It's all about the vibes.

[traveller]

Young American women despise single men! they hate us! If you go into any restaurant in America you'll notice that the female waitresses will ignore tables with single men and linger at tables with man/woman couples . And if you go to parties/social gatherings here you'll notice that women linger around guys that are already taken or guys that already appear popular with women. To women, the fact that you are single means you are unattractive and undesirable and they want nothing to do with you. So you are punished for being single and the longer you stay single the less desirable you become and it becomes nearly impossible to escape your singleness. So if you have been single for a few years and haven't been seen out with women and don't have pictures of yourself with women on facebook you can pretty much forget finding a woman to date because it probably ain't gonna happen unless you get extremely lucky or divine intervention takes place. Young single American men like myself are pretty much f***ed in the U.S dating scene.

If American women continue to despise single guys, they'll really forfeit a future boyfriend big time!

[GoingAwol]

And if you go to parties/social gatherings here you'll notice that women linger around guys that are already taken or guys that already appear popular with women. To women, the fact that you are single means you are unattractive and undesirable and they want nothing to do with you.

I dont think that's it at all. I think women are almost programmed to go after the popular man. Not because he has the most testosterone, or the most pebbles stored in his cave, or any other manly trait. I think that women are just programmed to want the men that already have women. Hang in with me here for the real clincher: because secretly they want to be part of a real man's harem.

That's why you see all the women cling to bad boys so much. They want a real man, and they want to see if that man is a real man or not. If you already have a woman under subjection, the other women, who secretly want to be dominated which is why they want bad boys, will come to sniff you out to see if you can be their man, because deep down they are craving a real man to come lead them. Just most men believe in equality, and put women on a pedestal. Women lose respect for those men, because they value them too highly.

I pretty much agree with what you are saying in regards to American womens mindset. But...... You don't seem to understand that American women are incredibly stupid and what they consider to be real men usually aren't real men.

[GoingAwol]

[quote="Zambales"]The first thing to do if you're interested in a girl is to be totally honest with yourself. "Am I good looking enough for her?"




That's impossible to tell because looks are highly subjective.

[pete98146]

The first thing to do if you're interested in a girl is to be totally honest with yourself. "Am I good looking enough for her?"




That's impossible to tell because looks are highly subjective.

Another issue with American women is that the goalposts move as they get older.

Young women will be drawn to the handsome, challenging, alpha male only because they want good looking children.

However, once the attractive children are birthed, if that handsome husband doesn't provide her the standard of living that she is expecting, he's served with the divorce papers and she's back on the market. Her virtual hand will appear to drop out of the sky and yes the goalposts are moved. This time around, she's looking for money.

I've seen this first hand. I'm in a networking group in which one of the gals (very attractive 5'10" girl with slender figure) just blurted it out after one of our meetings. "My next boyfriend or husband must have money." As long as he's loaded, she's not nearly as concerned about his looks. Hey at least she's honest!

[Lorenzo]

The first thing to do if you're interested in a girl is to be totally honest with yourself. "Am I good looking enough for her?"




That's impossible to tell because looks are highly subjective.

Another issue with American women is that the goalposts move as they get older.

Young women will be drawn to the handsome, challenging, alpha male only because they want good looking children.

However, once the attractive children are birthed, if that handsome husband doesn't provide her the standard of living that she is expecting, he's served with the divorce papers and she's back on the market. Her virtual hand will appear to drop out of the sky and yes the goalposts are moved. This time around, she's looking for money.

I've seen this first hand. I'm in a networking group in which one of the gals (very attractive 5'10" girl with slender figure) just blurted it out after one of our meetings. "My next boyfriend or husband must have money." As long as he's loaded, she's not nearly as concerned about his looks. Hey at least she's honest!

+1 Very true

It helps if he not only has money but is SUBMISSIVE to her, older women want a yes man.

[pete98146]

The first thing to do if you're interested in a girl is to be totally honest with yourself. "Am I good looking enough for her?"




That's impossible to tell because looks are highly subjective.

Another issue with American women is that the goalposts move as they get older.

Young women will be drawn to the handsome, challenging, alpha male only because they want good looking children.

However, once the attractive children are birthed, if that handsome husband doesn't provide her the standard of living that she is expecting, he's served with the divorce papers and she's back on the market. Her virtual hand will appear to drop out of the sky and yes the goalposts are moved. This time around, she's looking for money.

I've seen this first hand. I'm in a networking group in which one of the gals (very attractive 5'10" girl with slender figure) just blurted it out after one of our meetings. "My next boyfriend or husband must have money." As long as he's loaded, she's not nearly as concerned about his looks. Hey at least she's honest!

+1 Very true

It helps if he not only has money but is SUBMISSIVE to her, older women want a yes man.

Women get away with MURDER in this country. If a man gets a divorce and he proclaims, "I want a young girlfriend/wife with a nice tight a** and a bit pair of t*tties he gets instantly labeled as a pig who objectifies women. We can't win...

[Adama]

I've seen this first hand. I'm in a networking group in which one of the gals (very attractive 5'10" girl with slender figure) just blurted it out after one of our meetings. "My next boyfriend or husband must have money." As long as he's loaded, she's not nearly as concerned about his looks. Hey at least she's honest!

There are women like that, but there are other women who are good, who don't advertise how good they are. What I am saying is, just because a f'n betch is outspoken about her greed, it doesnt mean every woman is just like her. It just means that the women like that have no shame and broadcast how shallow they are. The good women don't advertise how good they are. They simply exist. They don't blow smoke up people's butts. So they don't get noticed.

In fact, I think it is a good thing that women like your example exists, as you said. These women are truthful. They are truthful not because they are genuine or honest, but because they have no shame whatsoever. So they will broadcast it. Which means she will tell you upfront every red flag you need to be aware of.

In other words, when she says she's after money, that is good, because men of wealth who are looking for love know to steer clear of her. If the man is listening to what a woman has to say, he will pick up exactly what she plans to do with him. These women are not going to hide it, because they aren't ashamed.

The beotches will often rat themselves out. They will tell you who they are, what they value, what they have done to men in the past, etc. All you have to do is open your ears and heed the woman's warnings.


Now just because the stupid, shameless betches broadcast how shameless they happen to be, it doesnt mean they represent the majority of women. They just make you feel as if the majority of women are that way, because these shameless betches are the most vocal.

[Adama]

Women get away with MURDER in this country. If a man gets a divorce and he proclaims, "I want a young girlfriend/wife with a nice tight a** and a bit pair of t*tties he gets instantly labeled as a pig who objectifies women. We can't win...

Good. Let them say those things. Remember. The only reason why anyone would say that is because they are jealous. The men are jealous they are incapable of getting young, hot women. The women are jealous because their days of youth and hotness are over. So really, even though you would think they are trying to shame you, they secretly admire you. They just hate that it's you and not them.

Besides, people today praise homosexuals and all kinds of weirdos. If they are praising Caitlyn Jenner, it is probably a good thing if they denounce you. That probably means you're a normal person, as opposed to all the abominations they want us to believe are normal. So when the wicked sickos of the world who uplift filth spit on your name, you know you are on the side of right.