Even an American woman's parents expect any man she ends up with to spoil their daughter.

[Mercury]

Who do you blame when your kid is a brat?
Pampered and spoiled like a siamese cat.
Blaming the kids is a lie and a shame.
You'll know exactly who's to blame.
The mother and the father.

And in America, even parents of American women don't want their daughter dating any man unless he can financially afford to live in Hidden Hills, California and give her the kind of life lived by movie stars and famous Hollywood celebrities. And in case you were wondering what kind of place Hidden Hills is, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hidden_Hills,_California