Girls ditching their friends when they're in a relationship

[MattHanson1990]

So here is a legit reason why I HATE being friend zoned. It's because most American women ditch their friends when they get a boyfriend. This happens a lot in high school, but sadly it continues into college and even beyond. For instance, a typical AW has plans to meet her friends at the mall or something, but her boyfriend asks her to go on a date so she ends up cancelling on her friends to be with her boyfriend.

I know of one instance where a friend who is a girl ditched me for her boyfriend. This girl I met in mid-August 2012 was very funny and made me laugh more than anyone else did, so I ended up developing a crush on her. I wanted to be more than friends with her because I wanted her in my life forever (I believed being more than friends is the best way to keep someone you care about in your life), but she put me in the friend zone. Then July of last year, she got a boyfriend, and we started drifting apart; we completely drifted apart by November as she didn't reply to my text messages for two weeks and then gave me short answers when she finally texted me back.

So as you see, most American women put their friends on the back burner and always choose their boyfriends over their friends, and this is clearly why I hate being friend zoned. By being more than friends, a girl and I would have a much higher chance of staying close with each other due to the stronger bond compared to just being friends. However, I have some female friends who I'm close with, and they can balance their significant others and outside relationships; but in America, girls who balance their boyfriends and friends are a rare find.

[SilverEnergy]

I don't blame the women.

If you were friends with my woman, I would tell them to stop hanging out with you too.

Most men secretly want to sleep with their female friends, waiting around hoping that they break up with their boyfriends so they can go in for the kill.

I wouldn't want my woman having male friends either.

Remember, like Tom Leykis says, women don't have male friends.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Don't waste your time by being friends with girls in a relationship. And don't act so surprise when they "ditch" you. It's natural behavior. I don't want my wife hanging around with straight male friends without me being around, so I can get the girls' motivation.

People in relationships are naturally somewhat protective or possessive of their significant others. I know I am! Don't waste your time keeping a girl in your life who you want to be with, but who is taken. it's not going to happen. You never made your move and another dude made his. He won, you lost. Move on.

While you are in the business of moving on, move on BIG time. Move on RADICALLY. Move on from American women altogether and seek ways to go abroad. This website isn't called "Happier At Home With Local Women" but Happier Abroad.

Per bold, I've been saying that for years on-end. Thank you, Marcos. I'd also like to say that what's wrong with your girl having male friends, regardless of the before-you-have-met or after-you-two-have met?

With American women, they are going to trick behind your back if they feel they want to do so. You can actually put your foot down in most other countries, and the girl will not disrespect you behind your back nor to your face about you putting your foot down on her extra-relationship behavior with people.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Don't waste your time by being friends with girls in a relationship. And don't act so surprise when they "ditch" you. It's natural behavior. I don't want my wife hanging around with straight male friends without me being around, so I can get the girls' motivation.

People in relationships are naturally somewhat protective or possessive of their significant others. I know I am! Don't waste your time keeping a girl in your life who you want to be with, but who is taken. it's not going to happen. You never made your move and another dude made his. He won, you lost. Move on.

While you are in the business of moving on, move on BIG time. Move on RADICALLY. Move on from American women altogether and seek ways to go abroad. This website isn't called "Happier At Home With Local Women" but Happier Abroad.

I don't mind having male friends around my woman as long as the woman I'm dating isn't a brother or a n$%#$%r lover. Those type will slept with your male friend if he's Black or African or Afro-European or whathaveyou.

Latino dudes....are more respectable in other countries as long as you haven't disrespected them first.

But stateside, I know a Black person whom was about to sleep with a Dominican chick, and he got co.ckblocked by his Hispanic male friend because didn't want to see miscegenation happen. *sigh*

[MattHanson1990]

Don't waste your time by being friends with girls in a relationship. And don't act so surprise when they "ditch" you. It's natural behavior. I don't want my wife hanging around with straight male friends without me being around, so I can get the girls' motivation.

People in relationships are naturally somewhat protective or possessive of their significant others. I know I am! Don't waste your time keeping a girl in your life who you want to be with, but who is taken. it's not going to happen. You never made your move and another dude made his. He won, you lost. Move on.

While you are in the business of moving on, move on BIG time. Move on RADICALLY. Move on from American women altogether and seek ways to go abroad. This website isn't called "Happier At Home With Local Women" but Happier Abroad.

American women ditch both male AND female friends when they're in a relationship. Simply speaking whenever AW have a boyfriend, they ditch ALL of their friends. And sadly enough, there are a lot of AW who ditch their friends for their boyfriends the whole time they're in relationships, not just the so-called "honeymoon phase", meaning they won't ever come back at all if they get engaged and married. I think AW ditching their friends for their boyfriends is a big part of the individualistic society we live in.

In contrast, foreign women usually don't ditch their friends for their significant others because friendships in other countries are more meaningful and last much longer; I wouldn't mind being "friend-zoned" by foreign women.

[E Irizarry R&B Singer]

Don't waste your time by being friends with girls in a relationship. And don't act so surprise when they "ditch" you. It's natural behavior. I don't want my wife hanging around with straight male friends without me being around, so I can get the girls' motivation.

People in relationships are naturally somewhat protective or possessive of their significant others. I know I am! Don't waste your time keeping a girl in your life who you want to be with, but who is taken. it's not going to happen. You never made your move and another dude made his. He won, you lost. Move on.

While you are in the business of moving on, move on BIG time. Move on RADICALLY. Move on from American women altogether and seek ways to go abroad. This website isn't called "Happier At Home With Local Women" but Happier Abroad.

American women ditch both male AND female friends when they're in a relationship. Simply speaking whenever AW have a boyfriend, they ditch ALL of their friends. And sadly enough, there are a lot of AW who ditch their friends for their boyfriends the whole time they're in relationships, not just the so-called "honeymoon phase", meaning they won't ever come back at all if they get engaged and married. I think AW ditching their friends for their boyfriends is a big part of the individualistic society we live in.

In contrast, foreign women usually don't ditch their friends for their significant others because friendships in other countries are more meaningful and last much longer; I wouldn't mind being "friend-zoned" by foreign women.

@Matt, what's so ironic about being friend-zoned by FW is that if FW friend zone you, they'll will typically try to hook you up with one of their female friends whom may be hawt-er than she is! This happened to me in the Philippines when girls weren't digging me. #NoProblemo I remember when I was in Melboune, VIC (Aussie-land) in 2007, and I met this fat-Caucasian Aussie chick on an online-dating site...and when we met, she & I have conflicted in person more than I would have liked that to have happen. I got over like a fat rat when I went to her bestie's house party, and that bestie became the first New Zealand, first slim "Caucasian" with blue eyes and blond hair girl I have ever "smashed". I couldn't believe how big my c.ocks had grown when I saw her naked. Exhilirating would be an understatement.

I mean, in the U.S. of Gay, I would have never, ever been able to smash a girl like that. Even Canada was easier to date the attractive White women types. There's something foul in the water in the U.S. of Gay.