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[MattHanson1990]

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[Ghost]

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[fightforlove]

Ghost, if you have any information on expatriating, living, work opportunities in Mexico, could you PM them to me as well? I'm currently communicating online with a few Mexican women and will be making a brief trip later this month to meet at least one of them. If I decide to pursue one of these girls, I will probably need to move down there at least temporarily and could use any tips on how to go about it.

[travelsouth]

If you don't want your sister's advice don't mooch off her. Clearly if she's making you get a job you are doing just that. If you are a sharp guy you can figure out how to play the bills and do your thing. Live in El Paso if that's your thing. Cross the border all you like.

[MrMan]

Matthanson1990,

If you don't have a job, how do you live? Are you living with your sister and living off of her? Are you staying with your parents and she thinks your mooching?

I don't have a problem with your doing something you like for a living if you can find a job. But one way or another, you need to do something to earn money unless you are rich.

If you have a college degree, English teacher jobs in Asia may be easy to get. Some of them don't pay well. I think it's still possible to get $1800 to $2000 a month Korea, plus airfare there and back, a room in an apartment and maybe some benefits (health, etc.) I worked a one-year contract there once. You need a degree for that. If you had some kind of qualification, you could probably teach in Mexico, too. English teaching is probably the easiest way to work in a foreign country without being considered a direct competitor with local workers. In many foreign countries, English isn't the native language, and a lot of these countries want native speakers to teach their people. There are also countries that hire expats for niche roles, usually very experienced expats.

If you do get a degree, get one that prepares you with some job skills, for example accounting, chemistry, engineering, etc. You could also consider a trade. If you can get in with a union in some parts of the country, that's a way to go, and you can get paid during training. At least it used to work that way for electricians, carpenters, and pipe fitters and steam workers in their unions. These are jobs that pay well that most women do not want to do them.

[QuestionMark]

Good on you for deciding to cut ties with your sis. A lot of people don't understand that just because someone is related to you by blood, doesn't mean that they're good or you should have them in your life.

[re85with]

You are not the only one, Matthanson1990.

I am not really close to most of my family members either. I have a bunch of cousins, aunts, and uncles on both my mother's and father's sides. I kind of look at them I same way I look at strangers at a local store.

I had some American women trying to flirt, talk, or play games with me at my previous job. I could not clean the women's bathroom(s). I also could not clean the window ledges of the outlet mall stores.

...White women impatiently shouting, yelling, threatening, and getting angry with me because I had to clean the women's bathroom(s).

...Black women making sexual/romantic moves on me while I am trying to get window ledges/trash cans clean.

The female customers were becoming worse since Summer 2016. Fortunately, I resigned, went on my trip to Dominican Republic and met real, beautiful black women. Now, I am living in a new state and starting a new job.

Life moves on to better things and better people. And it feels great.

Forget those sorry excuses for women and go to real women who are going to treat you right and like a man.