First off, i'm never; EVER dating an American woman again. I'm avoiding them like the bubonic plague. If i'm attracted to one, i'm going to smack myself into sense. The majority of American women got issues. The following are:
-Unapproachable. I realized while reading Winston's info why i've always been nervous when I see an attractive American woman. They look stuck up (they are), they'll reject me (most American women reject most of their admirers), they have this vibe that if you approach them something bad is going to happen to you, etc. Rejection IS going to happen, but it's higher with American women. American women do have this shield around them and I noticed it with over 50%+ of the women of my college. Nervousness comes from the look that American women have.
-Easily turned off by men. American women get approached by many guys and I know at least one of the guys has to have the combination of looks and personality. Somehow, they get turned off (making them picky).
-Stubborn as a bull. If they're in a bad relationship, they break up with the guy, then go back out with him. Sometimes multiple times. If it isn't working, you need to give up. So, why do you keep dating a guy that keeps hurting you? American women are also stubborn because when one guy does bad, they think that all guys suck. They don't realize that the nice guys were trying to talk to her, but she brushed them off for some reason. Another thing that angers me is when they say something like "I would date you, but you're too nice." Come on, man!
-Selfish. They want the man to do everything and they want you for your money.
It's difficult to find a beautiful woman in this country. The women that do come to me are unattractive because they are heavy set, have messed up skin, have messed up teeth, unattractive face (eyes, teeth, etc), unattractive hair style, etc. I AM not lowering my standards because I believe you should date someone that is attractive on the outside and on the inside. There is a lack of quality dating options in America.
There are more single men than single women. It is evident in my college because most women I tried or hinted that I was interested; there was another guy trying to hint he was interested. That sucks when you find out you have competition. I don't want to do things in competition. That is another reason why i'm avoiding American women. It may be more than one guy trying to show he is interested
.I wanted to talk about America. Everything is higher in America. The debt, costs of living, health care, food, the prison population, the rate of mental illness, crime, unemployment, the rate of rejection, obesity, etc. Something needs to be tweaked where these problems are minimized or completely gone. People are dealing with issues in America and America will bring the worst out of people. I wish I can move out one day.
I wanted to talk about mental illness. That is where bullying comes into play. I noticed in America that there is a HIGH rate of verbal and physical bullying (news, experiences, etc). People bully other people because they are insecure about themselves and they're trying to pick on others to make themselves feel good. Insecurity=mental illness. The American men and women that bully people need to evaluate themselves to see what is wrong with them. They're probably too disturbed to do that.
I wanted to talk more about American women. The attractive American women never come to men (especially nice guys). They have this "oh you're the guy, you're supposed to make the first move." Man, there needs to be equality. It should be either way.
This is what i've noticed about American women and America. If America was tweaked in thousands of ways (the political system, the costs of things, the food that makes people obese, having an equal class, etc), America would be a better place to live. The women would be WAY diferent.
