MrMan wrote: ↑January 2nd, 2020, 2:48 pm
Winston wrote: ↑January 2nd, 2020, 11:55 am
The major drawback I don't like about Filipinas though, even if they are nice, is that they don't act classy and do not even try to. I find that in Cambodia, Thailand or Indonesia, even if the girls are poor, they still make an effort to act and appear classy. But Filpinas do not make that effort and don't seem to care. They seem to not mind showing you how low class or gross or uncivilized they are, without shame or self-respect. That's a big turn off to me. Some guys don't mind it, but for me it's a turn off. My girl Dianne is an exception though, she acts very classy and has self-respect. But very few Filipinas act like that.
I have never been to the Philippines, so I do not know what you mean. I've only known expats and second or third generation in the US or Indonesia or elsewhere, which is probably a higher economic class or at least more highly motivated. What do the poor Filippinas do? Burp and pick their noses in public?
Lol. Not exactly. Filipinas eat very little. Not enough to need to burp. lol. But what they will do is order an expensive meal and take only one or two bites and leave it, for the waiter to throw it away, not even caring that they just wasted your money and acting like everything is free. That to me is shameless and uncivilized. They are also inconsiderate in that sense and don't think about your feelings, and if they do something stupid, they don't act shameful or bashful or guilty. They just never think about it or realize that they made a bad impression. They act like everything is free as long as they aren't paying for it, so it doesn't matter if they waste your money or order a meal without eating it, etc. Or they bring friends and don't consider that it puts a financial burden on you to make you pay for it, nor whether it's rude to bring other people to make foreigners pay for them without considering that the foreigner may not like it. It's very dumb and low class and the fact that they act clueless about such things, is a big turn off, as if they are mere animals who cannot consider other people's feelings or basic consequences. They just do whatever feels good, like animals almost, without any consideration for others.
It's not just what they do, but the way they carry themselves. They don't try to impress you or please you or make a good impression. They just don't give a shit. Totally lazy and with the "don't give a shit" attitude. It's not that they are spoiled, they just don't care and don't consider others. It's the way they carry themselves too, not just what they do. Just no class. They don't care if they make a bad impression on you. That's a turn off after a while. Civilized women don't do that.
So this is about their attitude, not just their actions. Or they ask for money and loans shamelessly, even if they barely know you. It's just stupid to ask a stranger or new friend for a lot of money or hundreds of dollars as if it was all free. And again, when they do so they don't care that it makes them look bad. They just do it. They don't care how stupid it makes them look or if it turns you off.
Even during sex, they just go through the motions and do the minimum. They don't care if you enjoy the sex or not, because they don't care to please you. Not all of them, a few do please you, but a large percentage of low class girls are like this.
And of course they never say anything clever, witty or original. All they do is ask for loans, as if money is all that matters. At least white girls can say intelligent things, even American women can if they want to.
Besides sex, there's nothing in common with them. They don't connect with us mentally or spiritually, so we cannot grow with them. They are just sex objects that give mediocre sex. Very few are gems, and if they are gems, they are taken quickly. That's why they are disappointing after a while. But hey, SE Asian women are not intellectual in general, so you cannot expect any spiritual or mental connection with them. Some guys though, like davewe, may not care about stuff like that, but I do.