Winston's take on Taiwanese people

[Winston]

Several obvious proofs that social skills have NOTHING to do with attracting women or love/romance:

1. Look at most attractive couples in public. They act like normal people. They do not have any particularly good social skills nor are they super skilled in talking or persuasion. Their verbal skills tend to be average or even below average. Nothing special. Also, most married men in America in your local neighborhood are just average men with wives. They don't have amazing social skills, just average.

2. Many American women like the strong silent type, not the talkative type, because the strong silent type lets the woman do all the talking. For example, if you look like Arnold Schwarzenegger, and are strong and silent, women will like you. You don't have to be a skilled talker or orator.

In contrast, you could be Danny Devito and have a great personality and be funny and very talkative, but women will still not be attracted to you romantically or sexually because you aren't their type.

3. If you are Tom Cruise, you don't need any social skills at all. All you have to do is smile, be agreeable and polite, and go with the flow, and women will still love you or like you.

4. Social skills only matter in business and politics. For example, in the business world you gotta be articulate and polished, and present a professional attitude and persona, and talk to people with tact and diplomacy. Same in politics of course. You gotta tell people what you wannt hear if you wanna get far in politics or business or sales, etc. That's what Bill Clinton did during his 1992 campaign, as we all know, he told everyone what they wanted to hear. Thus social skills and communication skills matter only in politics or business. Not with women.

But with women, it's all about whether you are their type or not. It's very subjective. Two guys with the same looks and personality could experience totally different results with women, because attraction is mysterious and often intangible and cannot be pinned to something logical like looks or money or even charm or personality. There's no linear logic to it. No consistent pattern that can be identified. It's very mysterious. Most women love their man "just because they do", not because of something he has or something that can be pinned down logically or concretely. That's the way it is.

Think about it.