Loris wrote:VERY NICE....they are way better than prudish american wanna be paris hilton princesses.....TO ME THE DIFFERENCE WHITH THE GIRLS ABROAD IS THAT THE FEELINGS ARE REAL....THERE IS NO NEED FOR PICK UP LINES ETC....BECAUSE EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IS NATURAL....YOU KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK WINSTON MAYBE YOUR ACTIONS WILL SPREAD MORE AND MORE AND HOPEFULLY AMERICA WILL ONE DAY REALISE THAT TRUTH EXISTS OUTSIDE ALL MOLDS , PRUDISH RULES AND PATTERNS....
So true Loris. I notice here in America that when girls talk to each other, they are on a density level that I just can't connect with. There is simply no easy comfortable way to hold an open, direct natural conversation with them. It's hard to put your finger on it, but they are like different creatures. You know what I mean?
Yeah in the Philippines, on a date, I can just say "I like you" and she will say "I like you back" and the kissing, cuddling, etc. will progress naturally from there. But in the US, it's like you have to play this "undefined game" and even if you play it, it still feels awkward, cause in America, everyone wants to just work, consume and mind their own business. You know what I mean?
It's very unnatural here. I also see now that the media has brainwashed people into thinking that all they need to be happy is to work and consume and mind their own business. But most people I see around me in America look fat, grumpy and irritable, and live in fear and paranoia. So the media and culture must be based on lies.
Every time I turn on the news, the anchor talks about the economy and I can see that he assumes and believes that all you need to be happy is to have a job. Forget that you have romantic, social, sexual and psychological needs. As long as you have a job, all your needs are fulfilled. That's what they assume and preach. It's not true though.
Other expat sites only talk about economic issues too, like jobs and buying a house overseas. This is the only one that focuses on romantic, social, sexual and psychological needs. I wonder why. Am I the only normal person?
Why do other sites and media assume and believe that a job is all you need to be happy and all everyone wants? Maybe cause when you work and consume, you contribute to the economy, but when your sexual, romantic, social and psychological needs do not help the economy, so they ignore it? Is that?
This is a sick society. I see that now more than ever before.
As an Indian philosopher once said:
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti