First I would like to link to a great article about chinese women:
http://chinese-culture-symbols.com/dati ... ese-women/
Let's think about this for a minute. There are women at KTVs who charge money for simply sitting down next to you and talking to you. There are a ton of KTVs here in China, I pass two just on my way to work, and each KTV has a bunch of women who charge for this "service". Since there are so many KTVs, each with a bunch of these women, that means a significant number of VERY desperate lonely men utilizing this "service". That alone should give you a hint as to how much power Chinese women have over men. I have 2 chinese friends who admit to having utilized this service and they both pretty much admitted that they did it just to enjoy a brief moment of female companionship.Many Chinese girls seem to imagine in fact, that to be taken out by a male and have dinner and a movie paid for without any chance of a potential relationship, is their God given birth right. Apparently (and this comes from the horses mouth) what they are giving is the pleasure of their scintillating company, and the grace of their presence, not to mention giving him good ‘face’!
Personally, I can do without ‘face’, and could do with a bit more of ‘the other’, if you catch my drift. In Chinese Karaoke bars, KTV, you can pay for a girl to sit beside you and ‘entertain’ you. Now, I’m not alluding to anything sexual here when I say ‘entertain’, I mean they apparently entertain you by merely sitting there and sometimes making conversation and perhaps singing a song if you ask them to.
I once tried it out of curiosity with a group of friends. The girls were brought into the room and you pick one, pay money and she plops herself down beside you. I felt so uncomfortable and actually bored (she was no conversationalist, in Chinese or English), that I ended up ‘entertaining’ her! I paid for the privilege of entertaining her… somethings not quite right with that picture now is there?
Chinese women are far more picky than american women. Even the least attractive women in this country have standards that many men could never live up to and end up dating guys who are both much more physically attractive than themselves as well as of a higher socioeconomic status than themselves.
Another thing is Chinese men are expected to shave their faces, both by women and society as a whole, but chinese women are not expected to shave anything, and most don't.
Things are so bad that a lot of chinese men prefer western women. Here is another great article wrt chinese women:
http://www.ministryoftofu.com/2010/11/m ... e-popular/
Personally, I find western women generally more friendly than chinese women. If you don't like western women, you'd really hate Chinese women. I can't think of a single nice thing to say about Chinese women.
I'm here in China just for work though, Chinese women don't want me and I fully expected this. I'm simply an indifferent observer reporting what I see.