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@MarcosZeitola, my good buddy and wingman every time we hit the Cynicism FairMarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 18th, 2022, 12:18 amShe's average with the heavy make-up and painted-on-eyebrows but I'd like to see her in the early morning sans make-up for an honest assessment... she's average indeed, but barely.
And I'm not sure if I even buy her claim of not being after the guy's money or greencard since she messaged him first on Facebook, completely out of the blue, and it is obvious from the guy's pictures that he's unwell and may not be long for this world. Still its kinda mean... but they do the opposite, too; if you are a handsome man and your female partner is less attractive as you are. This is the way of the world, sadly. People are mean creatures.
I think it's a good story to show the various incels in here, with expectations bars high up in the stratosphere, that everybody gets somebody at least loving and caring from a Philippine experience. Sitting on their asses and moaning, while daydreaming about harems of model-looking virgins, ain't gonna help them.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 18th, 2022, 12:57 amI'm genuinely happy the guy found someone despite looking like he recently survived Auschwitz, but I gotta say I see little reason not to be cynical lol. They all win, in this scenario, though. So that's kinda neat.
If I may add, the biggest problem of these people is that they can't size up their dreams. If my childhood dream had been to become an astronaut (it was not, obviously), growing up I should have known that I had to train as a jet pilot first. And that dream is simply not at everybody's arm's length. You can be the most genius engineer in the world, if you don't comply with certain physical and physiological requirements, goodbye. Your dream is over and you'd be better off replacing it with another, smaller, more "affordable" dream, lest be frustrated forever.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 18th, 2022, 1:33 amSome men would rather die alone with their dong in their hand and a computer screen their sole companion, rather than settle for less than the high school dream of "perfection" they have conjured up in their minds. No use in trying to talk sense into them... but it is rather sad. You can get quite close to reaching dreams with little effort. But not with zero effort. Even in the good old days they so admire, success and hot brides were not handed out like candy in the streets.
Whatever of these outcomes will happen, I am sure the guy will be happy anyway. Companionship and at least the semblance of love, even for a few short years, is better than complete solitude, feeling his own physical limitations like an insurmountable curse.Shemp wrote: ↑October 18th, 2022, 3:28 amI only watched 10seconds of the video, so o don't know the whole story. If and when she decides to get pregnant, she will almost certainly cheat. Personally, if I was that guy, I'd actually drive her myself to another town on Friday afternoon while she was fertile, rent a motel for the weekend, encourage her to get pregnant with the best looking above-average intelligence man (or men if she wants to try several guys) she can find at the local nightclub or while walking around in the day (just make sure he's white), then drive her back on Sunday, because I smart sure wouldn't want a child looking like me if I was that guy.
If she cheats with a guy she knows in the town where they live, she might fall in love and then it's a sad story of divorce rape and milking this poor ex-husband for child support without giving companionship or anything else in exchange.
Sacrosanct words. And what they say, our heart will grow fond of a not-so-great-looking girl who shows us some genuine love, or at least affection, and it will suffer from a hot girl who clearly doesn't give a darn about us.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 18th, 2022, 4:27 amI told @Tsar this quite a few times, too; we have our preferences and that's understandable but ultimately, being with someone less-than-ideal is a lot better than never having anyone. At least for the time being. Plus a lot of rich older men had "starter wives"; someone who will do "for now" to be replaced at a later date when ones finances allow it.
