Winston wrote:publicduende,
That's not true. Hookers do have a choice. I've been rejected by many Russian and Polish hookers, and even by some Filipina bar girls. They are human and have preferences too. You forget that.
Yes it's a business to them, but why do you think it's IMPOSSIBLE for a Filipina bar girl to actually LIKE a guy who barfines her? Why do you think it's impossible for there to be any affection or chemistry? Just because you paid for something doesn't mean it is strictly business. Life if often a mix in shades of gray. You forget that.
Any decent guy who has spent a lot of time with Filipina bar girls will tell you this: It's not love or business, but somewhere in between.
Only guys with little or no experience (like you perhaps) would say that it's all a business and nothing more. That should tell you something.
Like me, Mr S and Ladislav told you before, the way to know if a bar girl likes you is if she sees you outside of her work, or contacts you a lot. Body language says a lot more than words do.
Ask Ladislav. He has more experience in this than even I do.
You also forget a few things:
1) Poor Filipinas genuinely do like nice guys, as long as they are of higher economic status.
2) Women are genetically programmed to submit to men of higher status. A Western guy is seen as high status in the Philippines, therefore, even hoes will submit to him by giving him love and affection. It's in their genes to do so. The love they give though, is more of a "survival based" type of love rather than romantic based, in that it doesn't make you feel vulnerable since it was too easy.
3) For most guys, it is not easy to sleep with non-pros. It is not in a woman's nature to sleep with a man outside of a relationship. They are not hardwired for casual sex with no strings attached. You can't just have sex with a non-pro like picking a product off a supermarket shelf. So give these guys a break. Stop condemning them for going for pros.
4) Bar girls get jealous when a guy they like, even a customer, barfines or flirts with another girl. If they were all business, why would they be jealous?
As to Roosh, why doesn't he try to help guys who are seeking love, romance or marriage? Why limit himself to players? Isn't he human? Doesn't he need love, romance or affection too? WTF? Or is he a sociopath?
Does he make his living only off of selling his ebooks? If so, that is an unstable income stream. Why doesn't he sell ads or use Adsense? He has a ton of traffic and is losing out by not doing so.
Winston, you're smashing the wrong door here. I am
not condemning the conduct of people who always go with pros or prefer pros (or bar girls) to normal girls, however promiscuous they might be.
All I am saying here is that:
1) having sex with a pro and having a relationship of any kind (even as simple friends with benefits) with a non-pro are two different experiences;
2) Roosh has clearly been boasting his "bang ABC" guides as uniquely researched and refined tools to be able to bed good looking non-pros in countries like Colombia, Poland and now Ukraine. If he is the first to give up and admit that most of his readership aren't even interested in applying his advice and taking some effort to bed those standard hotties found in a bar or on a street, then
what's the point with buying his eBooks anyway? However reasonably priced his material might be, isn't buying something that not even the seller can guarantee being useful, just plain insane?
Then I think there's a confusion here between receiving a genuine expression of love from a Filipina bar girl. We all know that most bart girls don't like what they do. Most of them have babies to support back in the province, have been devastated by family tragedies and other occurrence our Western spoiled minds can't even begin to fathom. It's only logical that some of them will see some of "us", especially the naturally good-hearted and naive, as potential saviours, or just feel attracted. Well, in that case the bar girl is obviously dismissing her "cap" of a sex industry professional and becoming a standard young woman again, with all we can imagine as a consequence.
I am not saying Filipina bar girls are sex machines programmed to serve clients during their working hours and then switch off completely. It just seems obvious to me that obtaining their services as part of a money exchange is not exactly the most challenging thing a young man could do. I for one would prefer the challenge of seducing a non-pro...which takes time and effort. All good things are worth the wait, right?

And if Roosh's guides cannot be of help, I would rather get some dust off what I learned when I was a teenager in my hometown.