Well, for me, Chilean women work better than Mexican women. In fact, I am quite popular with Chilean women both physically and in personality. With Mexican women, physically I am popular, but once they see my personality, I am too different from most of them.fschmidt wrote:I am ethnically Jewish but I don't follow Judaism, I follow the Old Testament.Tapatio89 wrote:You are Jewisht if I may ask? I ask because you said a Hebrew term. Anyway, I agree with you that Mexican men also have those flaws equally as Mexican women (lying, spendthrift, idealistic, etc), but I am not like that. I am very careful with my money and only spend what is needed. My Mexican friends think I am a miser, but I do not care as they often complain when an emergency comes and they spent all if not most of their money carelessly.
I might be young but I am not stupid, and I lived in the US for 14 year, so I think I know about the United States, mate. I am aware the US was not like that before the feminist movement. But not enforcing some of the laws here in this country it is a problem as I think it is important that the fathers here are obligated to pay child support instead of being irresponsible. Well, Chilean women are not as bad as American women and have met plenty. And also in comparison to Mexican women, more reliable and honest. A woman can be femenine and still be responsible and reliable. For me, Mexican and most Latin women do not work for me not because of physical beauty (they are beautiful like Asian and Arab women are my type too), but my mentality/ethics/values and theirs are like night and day.
Yes Chilean women are not as bad as American women, but they are much worse than Mexican women.
You are making an unforgivable mistake in supporting the idea of child support. This puts the entire burden of responsibility of the men, as well as supporting sluts and their bastard offspring. Ideally sluts and their children should starve to death and the men who got them pregnant should be castrated, but I am just dreaming here.
Please tell me what you think caused your mentality/ethics/values to be different from other Mexicans.
How so is it an unforgivable mistake? You are confusing apples with oranges. I am not saying sluts with men, but men married to wife, and you know that here in Mexico, most Mexican men are irresponsible with wives or girlfriend regardless of the man´s social class. It is important a father should be responsible of his children instead of acting like an inept idiot or in other words, a loser. Why do I say this? Because my dad who is Mexican did to my mum, and never was involved with me or my sister, and this affected us a lot, particularly my sister. My sister does not trust AT ALL Latin men. My sister´s type of men are Asian men as she likes more the introverted, intellectual, reliable, responsible men, and generally, Asian men are more responsible than Latin men I will admit to that.
Hmmm, where I will start to explain to you I am not typical Latino man.
Well, first, I am not extroverted or party type of person. I am rather introverted, serious, and I do not like dancing nor interested in dancing or night clubs as I think they are a waste of money when I can save it for more important and practical matters (traveling, buy a flat or home, or start a business).
Second, I am very careful with my money and I find ways to save money and enjoy it long-term (like disconnecting everything at my home except the refrigerator and plug it back the next day. I do this because my electric bill lowers by 50%, thus I enjoy more my money and save more).
Third, I am direct in my speech and honest about things unlike most Mexicans who are indirect and often are freeloaders, parasites, and lazy (I dislike those type of people).
Fourth, I am loyal to my wife and I have been faithful in all my relationships (In fact, many Mexican girls are jealous of my wife because they see I am not like most men here, and in their mind, the foreign woman got better luck than the Mexican girl. But, what those Mexican women will never admit is that most of them choose loser type of men, and good, reliable men are not their type until they have children and the loser bf or husband abandon them. That for me is stupid and pathetic).
Fifth, I am almost all the time punctual and do not follow Latino concept of time.
Sixth, I do not worship blond/American/Nordic women/people nor I think they are good looking because they have blonde hair, blue eyes and white skin (honestly, I find them quite ugly, and the women look and act too masculine for my tastes, dress plain, and/or fat), nor I feel inferior next to a blond/American/Nordic person as I am quite capable of success like they do and in many cases, have been more successful than them.
Seventh, I value ethics in all aspects and not amoral like most people here.
Eighth, I am not shameless/cynical like most Mexicans are but I prefer to be a calculating type of person as I consider cynical/shameless people quite retarded and so easy to defeat.
Ninth, I am organized.
Tenth, I am ambitious and goal oriented in all aspects of my life, and I know what I want in life and persistent to get it.
Eleventh, I am a committed person not only with my wife, but in all aspects (job, payments, friends, etc)
Twelvth, I rather lose with honour that win by cheating. Most Latin péople cheat and do not care to win even by using dishonest tactics.
Thirtheenth, I want to change my country for the better rather than be a coward and immigrate and not change things back home no matter how difficult the task is.
Fourteenth, I do not throw trash in the street.
Fifteenth, I am not easily impressed by superficial things.
Sixteenth, though I am romantic, passionate and quite sexual, I am responsible and use my head to avoid unwanted pregnancies unlike most people here who are reckless and use passion irresponsibly.
Anymore reasons, my friend?
Cheers!