If America Is Unfree, Unfriendly, & Crazily Expensive, Then Why Do People Want to Live There?

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If America Is Unfree, Unfriendly, & Crazily Expensive, Then Why Do People Want to Live There?

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I don't get something. If you think about it America is very Unfree, Unfriendly, and Super Expensive compared to other countries. It's actually less free, less friendly, and a lot more expensive than other countries if you think about it. Yet all media is afraid to say this. Most other countries are freer, friendlier, and cheaper than America. So why then do Americans want to stay there and never leave, and why do many foreigners want to move there? It doesn't make sense if you think about it. Let me elaborate.

1. In America people are unfriendly and mean spirited and cold and insensitive and don't care about you. There's no warmth or sincerity or closeness or relaxness. Only cold distance and paranoia. No human connection at all. Hard to make friends. Feels unnatural and against the grain and awkward. Americans are only friendly and open in the movies but not in real life. In most other countries people are friendlier, nicer, warmer, and more open. The women and girls are friendlier and more approachable too and hence easier to date. There's no artificial battle of the sexes between men and women. Americans are only friendly when they're working in customer service. But off work they want to be left alone and become closed off. Russia is the opposite. People are grouchy and rude at work but more friendly and social and fun loving after work. No one dares to talk about this for some reason.

2. Cost of living is super expensive and you are expected to leave huge tips in restaurants. Especially in California. Prices are outrageous and healthcare costs can bankrupt you in an emergency. Rent prices are ridiculous and look like a joke. In most other countries cost of living is either reasonable or low. Hence you are freer abroad.

3. America does not feel free at all even though it claims to be. Everything feels uptight and controlled and strict. The US has more laws than any other country in the world. You can look this up on Google. How can a free country have the most laws and rules in the world? Also the US prison population is now at 2 million, double of what it used to be. How can that be in a country that's the alleged "leader of the free world"? America being the land of the free has got to be the biggest lie in world history. In addition the paranoid vibe in America blocks social connection and makes you feel unfree as well, plus it degrades mental health and creates social anxiety too. It's not the fault of the victim like new agers falsely claim. When you travel the world you notice that other countries feel a lot freer than America. America only claims to be free but doesn't give you actual freedom. Other countries make u feel freer but do not BS about it. America is truly the king of BS. It is fake, crazy, and self-delusional, and tries to project their craziness onto other countries.

In short America claims to be friendly and free but is not actually friendly or free, and does not feel friendly or free at all. It is also far more expensive than other countries too. Even Japan has lower cost of living and no one expects tips there.

So basically everything is better in other countries. There's more freedom, friendlier people, and lower cost of living. So here's the question then: Why do all the top podcasters on YouTube and in the media, claim that America is the greatest and freest country and that no one wants to leave America and everyone wants to come to America? That's very weird and the opposite of what they should be saying. For example, Patrick Bet David, Tucker Carlson, Lex Fridman, Young Turks, Megyn Kelly, and thousands of other podcasters all say that. They say they would never want to live anywhere else than the USA.

Am I missing something that everyone else knows? Or are they all NPCs who are programmed to trick me and make me feel insane for stating the obvious truths above? After all if we are in a simulation like the matrix then we can't rule out that many or most or all people around us could just be video game characters programmed to say and do certain things with no thought. They may claim to be freethinkers by going after low hanging fruit like extreme crazy woke liberals and insane government policies. But they never consider any of what I say above. Are they in a different reality than me or am I missing something that everyone knows and sees?

Also how come normal people and normies and neurotypical people don't ask these kinds of questions? Do only neurodivergent people see these obvious things? If so does that mean neurodivergent people are smarter? Or is everyone an NPC and can't see the obvious because they aren't programmed to? Even if I go on YouTube and make a video about this it's not gonna get millions of views like the top podcasters are getting.
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Keep in mind that the high cost of living isn't the only problem in the US. It's also very unfriendly and unfree and has a depressing negative vibe too. That's a quadruple whammy. So to elaborate, the four problems with America are:

1) High cost of living and inflation are outrageous and crazy. The media mentions this but not the other 3 below. Food can be bought cheaply at Walmart but housing and rent prices are outrageous and unaffordable and unreasonable.

2) Unfriendly people who are not open to meeting people or making friends, and are paranoid and closed off and not socially open at all. You can't go out and meet people and have fun everyday like you can in Europe like I showed in my videos. People also have an inner asshole in their psyche that turns me off too and rubs me the wrong way and feels creepy. Women are not approachable or friendly at all. Not even a little. There is no human connection at all. Only loneliness, boredom, isolation, and depression.

3) Highest number of laws in the world. And very strict and controlling too. Other countries have far fewer laws and are not as uptight or controlling as America. 2 million people are in jail in America. No country has that many people in jail. So America is less free than almost all other countries. The land of the unfree, not the land of the free. Keep in mind that America does NOT actually give you any freedom. It only TELLS you that you have freedom. So the words and reality do NOT match. Real freedom means to be free to be yourself and do what you love, not to vote in an election in a democracy, like how America defines it.

4) Depressing empty vibe and energy. There's nothing to do but go to Walmart. No dating life and no social life. Boring as hell. I can't go out and meet people and have fun everyday like I did in Europe and Russia and Philippines and Thailand. Nothing to do but go shopping and go to work. Life feels empty and meaningless there. Boring and lonely too. No action. Half the time I don't even wanna get out of bed. There's no blissful happy vibe to wake up to in the morning like there is in the Philippines. Only emptiness and meaninglessness in America.

Do you see what I mean? Have you noticed any of the above? That's the big picture. A quadruple whammy. There's no reason to live there unless you have a good paying job or career. But even that's not worth the trouble of the four things above.
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Because it is safe, they know how it all works even though they know it's not great, they couldn't handle being a foreigner. It takes a special kind of person to be a long-term expat and most people aren't cut out for it which is why people back home are unhappy, they are simply stuck there because they don't have the mental or cultural plasticity to make it somewhere else or be happy somewhere else.

America is shit, the UK is worse and I imagine Australia, NZ and Canada to be similar. I had dreams of moving to Australia when I was a kid but glad I never made the move.

You want to take a read of the forum British Expats on why people move back from Australia to the UK even though they had good reasons to leave the UK, the food isn't the same, the pubs are different etc - silly things that shouldn't matter but matter to people who aren't natural expats, they want something better, something different but aren't capable to make the change to fit around it rather than have a country/culture fit around them.
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yick wrote:
May 27th, 2025, 7:42 pm
America is shit, the UK is worse
America is fine. The UK is fine.

You are the problem. That's why you can only get along in third world communist countries
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Voyager1 wrote:
May 29th, 2025, 4:38 am
yick wrote:
May 27th, 2025, 7:42 pm
America is shit, the UK is worse
America is fine. The UK is fine.

You are the problem. That's why you can only get along in third world communist countries
Says the man who spent 15 years as a sex tourist (and an illegal one in Russia) and the Ukraine.
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I was asked in a bar once, "Are you a sex tourist?" I said, "No, I'm a tourist who likes sex." :lol:

yick you jealous little limey
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Voyager1 wrote:
May 29th, 2025, 4:54 am
I was asked in a bar once, "Are you a sex tourist?" I said, "No, I'm a tourist who likes sex." :lol:

yick you jealous little limey
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I helped a University girl with her tuition in exchange for sex. The sex was wonderful. Does that make me a "sex tourist"? If it does I AM ONE!
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yick wrote:
May 29th, 2025, 4:56 am
:lol: :lol:

So happy!
So happy you're off to a third world country because you failed in U.K.
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