Repatriate wrote:Rooshv forum is filled with twats and gelled hair sociopath frat boy types but I have to say that they are doers and not whiners on there. Even Rooshv is much more accomplished than Winston is and at least tries to live by his coda. I'm guessing age has a lot to do with it.
HA is mostly older men (average age 40 maybe) who seemed to have discovered the concept of HA later in life or after multiple failed relationships or being beaten down by U.S. society. Whereas Rooshv forum is filled with young blood that is more optimistic and has discovered the way much earlier in life. This means a lot of HA posters tend to be much whinier and pessimistic. Plus i'm finding that HA forum posters still have a lot of mangina tendencies. It's as if this forum's purpose is for mangina types to vent and whine about the U.S. because they will never ever travel or leave the U.S. nor do they have the balls to try it.
Roosh forum also tends to have some pretty interesting info but they are guilty of group think in a lot of ways. Plus at its root they still mostly exhibit artificial and superficial American macho man tendencies and their forum is often a place where various guys showcase their lays to impress other men.
I don't know why people bash Rooshv the man so much though. I still haven't seen anyone piece together a concise reason why he's so abhorent.
Have to agree. The most successful people in life, if you look at them - are happy where they are at and have gratitude; they make the best with simple things where they are...whether they are not to their liking, or subpar; they don't complain. It's not blaming others or anything, this is just what I've noticed. I've got some people close to me, where I noticed... it doesn't matter where they're at - they have a sort of simple attitude that says "I'm grateful where I am at, I don't need anything to be a particular or specific ways...." and they just continue living. They usually end up happier somehow, because they are not trying to fight the environment, bitter or wrangle and manipulate things......plus they (those) hate their environment, so won't let anything good happen to them.
Roosh is full of degenerate scum bags, but at least they have young blood.
I'm at the point where I'm going to start being grateful....maybe, it's too late. Maybe not. We'll see...I don't think so. An attitude like that, is hard to cultivate for most people on here, who are bitter and upset and want to be elsewhere. It's not blaming - I completely understand it, but life is life and that's that.
If you want to be somewhere else you should move. I went to China, the worst place in the world, in my opinion - and would never go there again. I could've gone to Russia, the middle east Mediterranean, or Latin America and be happier I believe.
But you have to work on being happier where you are.
Misery and happiness are only states of mind.