C.J. wrote:anamericaninbangkok wrote:You mean if you don't have sex you won't die?
I'm living proof, that if you don't stick your little soldier in a vuh-jay-jay for 10 years, YOU WILL LIVE!
That urgent desire to get some is an illusion put there by western govenment's PO programs. There's no need to rush.
anamericaninbangkok wrote:I've had two Filipina GF's. The first was young and sweet but called me 50X a day to see what I was doing. She said she called me all the time because "she missed me." Yea, right.
Did you give her a chance? What happened? Let's just say I'm talking to a filipina right now who calls me a lot. I don't mind it.
anamericaninbangkok wrote:The second would have sudden emergencies all the time. I finally told her to take a hike because she had too many emergencies and she needed to learn how to fend for herself.
Same thing, I talked to someone who apparently got affected by a hurricane there, started with a B I think. Barely knew her, very hot, but she was asking for money. I'm like "if you got hit by a hurricane, how are you still here?"
I'm not one of these guys who needs his girl calling him every minute of every hour of the day. I would be in the middle of playing pool, make my shot, answer the phone, tell her I can't talk, and 5 minutes later she would call. I would still be playing pool until finally I would just say, "I'll call you when I get home." She was a young and a hottie but I just don't want to feel I need to be at the beckon call of a woman's emotions. Once you give in, then they think they can do it over and over again. I told her many times, I'm not doing anything wrong; maybe I'm working, maybe I'm in a restaurant, whatever. But she was spending every bit of spare cash (and other cash) to call me. Sorry, that's not love, that's obsession and/or desperation. Filipinas love getting married but frankly, they really turn me off with the "low budget, maybe we will get married one day, I'm a good girl" bullshit games they run. I don't need the games, I don't need to waste the time, and I don't like dealing with children. The reason I married my wife is that she's a WOMAN. Granted, when I met her she was a young woman but she doesn't pout or beg for money or do any of the things many Filipinas do.
The last one was a ring card girl/model. She was hot, for sure, but Filipina models are a dime a dozen. One day she calls and says, "If I don't pay my rent ($400) I'm going to get evicted." I said, "Oh, that's too bad. You've been working. What did you do with all your money." Of course, she responded by saying she had to pay for her mothers this or that and she had no money. I told her, "Sorry, if you had told me a month ago maybe I could help you. I'm not sending you money on a moments notice. A couple of days later she called. No mention was made of the rent. When I asked if she paid it, she said, "my sister's friend loaned me her tuition money so I didn't get evicted. But I still need to pay it back."
I'm not a flipping bank. Money is hard to come by and if it were a one off and it was truly genuine, I would have helped. But I can smell the bullshit a mile away. So I dumped her ass.
