Winston wrote:Why do foreign girls change so much when they come to the US? It's like they turn so unfriendly, snotty, hostile, nasty and have a strange aversion to flirting, which in their home country was considered natural and normal. It's really weird. It's like they become demon possessed or something. I wonder if there's more to it than just the culture.
Anyhow, I sent the following taboo questions to some Asian American girls on OKCupid who were obviously Americanized based on their photos, expression and words. I have no idea if they will address them though. It must be awkward for them to receive such questions since no one would dare ask them, as they are so taboo and no-holds-barred.
If any of you know any foreign girls who became spoiled or nasty when they came to the US, maybe you can forward these questions to them too, to see if they'll address them honestly.
It is possible it is demonic possession. Why not?
It is also possible that they are quickly brought up to speed by the females that are already here. They inform them what they can get away with while they are in relationships. Then there are all the manginas who hit on them, inflating their egos.
Keep in mind that in most of the world, the women actually have to do something to make things work. That is, for every move a man makes, the woman also has to make a move. This is natural escalation (positive kind, not the kind leading to confrontation or altercation).
Here in the states, the onus is completely on the man. Most men just never know the difference and just do what they've been taught. But with American men going far beyond what men are supposed to do to get and keep women, it simply spoils these immigrant women rotten within 6 months flat.
Also, if people are sweet and kind where she comes from, it will be a rude awakening when she gets here and gets treated like crap by other "human beings". Kindness and being nice are crimes in the USA. So adapt or perish.
Then there is all the hate that will dumped on them for being foreign, for being more attractive than average, etc.
But none of that should really matter if you brought her here as your wife. The primary thing I have against immigrant women is that it instantly grants them rights and privileges greater than men. That means that on her whim, she can claim sexual harassment, rape, assault, domestic violence, or whatever, and everyone will believe her and come to take the man away. That is what pisses me off the most more than any changes in their personalities.
Bane wrote:I think a lot of the girls who come over here who are nasty were already nasty in their home countries.
Not all foreign girls change and become Americanized when they get here. Those who are able to resist Americanization abroad have a better chance to continue to resist it here. I have seen plenty of examples of this from some of my students from Asia, as well as some of the Asian people I work with.
On the other hand, many of them nowadays are already Americanized in their home countries thanks to the pervasion of the American media and pop culture everywhere. Workers who I see and interact with from Asian countries are already socially and morally bankrupt when they get here.
In short, the biggest problem is the continued acceptance and exporting of American culture abroad, not the actual physical location of where the culture originates.
I agree. If she was listening to rap music, dressing like a gangster, hanging out at Irish/ expat bars in her home country, then you are already dealing with an Americanized woman who is just dying to live in the USA. Kinda like the same way the men here who want families want to move to a Patriachal country which supports men and families.
Winston wrote:I've seen such examples as well. But where does all the unfriendliness, hostility, coldness, and aversion to flirtation come from exactly? How does someone get that way? It's like they are possessed or something. How does someone suddenly turn cold and hostile? It's scary. Where does that vibe come from? It seems inhuman.
Why are women so corruptible? It's like they are open to the demons of the land easily taking control of them.
And why does flirting suddenly become evil to them? How does that happen?
Think Different wrote:Most women have weak personalities and prefer to follow the herd. When they see snotty AW all around them, getting whatever they want, with the State to back them up, they want to fit in too, and take on that persona.
That is how Satan seduced Eve in the Garden of Eden. It may be a fairy tale to some people, but if it is, it serves as a wonderful illustration as to women's true nature.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.