Do the typical Asian and Hispanic really have it that bad?

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » August 7th, 2013, 7:14 am

in the USA. As a black man, it seems like the white man is more friendly and less threatened by these two races. White girls that are strongly opposed to dating a black guy will be more willing to date an asian or a hispanic. It just seems like yall are less hated.

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » August 7th, 2013, 7:44 am

Don't post in the topic if you don't like the topic. Race relations has a lot to do with global dating and relocation. Go on sosuave.com if you want to drink that pua kool aid with your fellow buddies.

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » August 7th, 2013, 8:02 am

Some magical force is not forcing you to look or post on this topic

mguy · Post by **mguy** » August 7th, 2013, 9:36 am

yes, whites have a complex with black men, I have noticed this. I think there is an element of fear.

Asians (they take our women in droves) so its worse in this regard, but Asians can bank on reputation as model minority. Hispanic seems to be good but there is that immigration issue. Both Asians and Hispanics are seen as upwardly mobile.

In terms of dating? I think all minorities are getting more acceptance over time. Black men have the advantage of girls who are looking to date black men. Overall, honestly, well behaved black men have it worse and thus have more incentive to move abroad than the rest.

Repatriate · Post by **Repatriate** » August 7th, 2013, 10:10 am

I think when it comes to business or education asian men are accepted and taken seriously but not really when it comes to mainstream social acceptance. The difficulty curve is much steeper than any other minority race because asian men have little niche appeal in mainstream U.S. culture.

Blacks are more polarizing but there's always that percentage of white women who either want to experiment with black men or want the black stereotype. Plus the more open minded white women view blacks as the more acceptable minority to date. A lot of white American guys are definitely threatened by black men though. If you look at the whole penis stereotype they try to play down the huge black penis while simultaneously playing up the small asian penis in the same conversation. It's comical how that works.

Hispanics are a mixed bag I think. If you're more white looking then you can adapt easier. I don't think a lot of white women think too much about what ethnicity someone is as long as they look and sound white. Just look at those Boston bomber scumbags. A lot of young white women think the younger one is cute and he even made it onto the cover of Rolling Stone. That's how little rational thought is given to these things...

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Btw for any black guys reading this have you tried going down to some state like Florida? There's a lot of slutty horny white trash in that state and it's a party place. It seems like it'd be simple for a well put together black dude to go down there to Ft. Lauderdale, Miami, or Tampa Bay and have pretty good success. There also isn't a huge black population to compete with.

Mr.Darcy · Post by **Mr.Darcy** » August 7th, 2013, 12:16 pm

Ya I'm going to Miami this week. Are people tall over there because I'm around 6ft1 and built muscular

Moretorque · Post by **Moretorque** » August 7th, 2013, 2:06 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:Ya I'm going to Miami this week. Are people tall over there because I'm around 6ft1 and built muscular

The Gals in Miami are thick. It is a melting pot of thickness.

zboy1 · Post by **zboy1** » August 7th, 2013, 2:10 pm

Insanity is too much of a whiner and I've deleted some of his filthy rants on this thread. I've banned him from this forum.

Moretorque · Post by **Moretorque** » August 7th, 2013, 2:11 pm

insanity wrote:Is HA turning into one big race discussion??? ItÂ´s really annoying...CanÂ´t you visit some nazi forums to discuss these things?? This is about global dating

All the boarders around the world are being erased by our rulers, RACE IS AN EXTREMELY valid issue because we the people are not being involved in this process, they are just doing it.

kai1275 · Post by **kai1275** » August 7th, 2013, 2:44 pm

I think race topics are okay as long as they justify the time spent on it for others to learn things. In the end these topics need to help facilitate "PLANNING" to either go abroad or whatever. What bothers me far more than Insanity going crazy over race topics, is the lack of seriousness from Darcy. When are you going to put something together man? If you already have weak game and no decent amount of "PUA" technique, why in the f**k would you think of going to Miami? You could spend less money somewhere else outside the US than Miami, and have p***y coming out of your ears.

If anything your topics are so rife with similar complaints, they actually should just get merged into one. You seem to have ignored every HA poster that has given you any advice and that is sad because it seems like more guys here like you alot for reasons I just cannot understand why.

Moretorque · Post by **Moretorque** » August 7th, 2013, 4:00 pm

kai1275 wrote:I think race topics are okay as long as they justify the time spent on it for others to learn things. In the end these topics need to help facilitate "PLANNING" to either go abroad or whatever. What bothers me far more than Insanity going crazy over race topics, is the lack of seriousness from Darcy. When are you going to put something together man? If you already have weak game and no decent amount of "PUA" technique, why in the f**k would you think of going to Miami? You could spend less money somewhere else outside the US than Miami, and have p***y coming out of your ears.

If anything your topics are so rife with similar complaints, they actually should just get merged into one. You seem to have ignored every HA poster that has given you any advice and that is sad because it seems like more guys here like you alot for reasons I just cannot understand why.

You have only been here 4 months and you already have 751 for posts. I thought I posted alot.

kai1275 · Post by **kai1275** » August 7th, 2013, 4:29 pm

Moretorque wrote:
kai1275 wrote:I think race topics are okay as long as they justify the time spent on it for others to learn things. In the end these topics need to help facilitate "PLANNING" to either go abroad or whatever. What bothers me far more than Insanity going crazy over race topics, is the lack of seriousness from Darcy. When are you going to put something together man? If you already have weak game and no decent amount of "PUA" technique, why in the f**k would you think of going to Miami? You could spend less money somewhere else outside the US than Miami, and have p***y coming out of your ears.

If anything your topics are so rife with similar complaints, they actually should just get merged into one. You seem to have ignored every HA poster that has given you any advice and that is sad because it seems like more guys here like you alot for reasons I just cannot understand why.
You have only been here 4 months and you already have 751 for posts. I thought I posted alot.

Unlike most, I contribute stuff. Check out my dating guide sometime.

I also lurked here for 2 years in the past and had nothing to offer anyone here because I was still learning things. So 4 months ago was not my first time in HA. Don't worry, I won't be around for much longer anyways, like 2 more weeks. I'm just doing my part to give back to HA, that helped me in the past. Maybe you can step up and take my place when I go on leave/hiatus soon?

Repatriate · Post by **Repatriate** » August 7th, 2013, 4:33 pm

Damn Kai, you really shouldn't stop posting you have some pretty valuable points of view especially when it comes to being black in China.

AnonymousAmerican · Post by **AnonymousAmerican** » August 7th, 2013, 4:44 pm

for mexican-americans (latin-americans aren't a monolithic group), here in California, overall, we don't have it bad. however, for all men, getting descent good women IS HARD in the US. we all have it bad in that regard.

aozora13 · Post by **aozora13** » August 7th, 2013, 5:09 pm

kai1275 wrote:I think race topics are okay as long as they justify the time spent on it for others to learn things. In the end these topics need to help facilitate "PLANNING" to either go abroad or whatever. What bothers me far more than Insanity going crazy over race topics, is the lack of seriousness from Darcy. When are you going to put something together man? If you already have weak game and no decent amount of "PUA" technique, why in the f**k would you think of going to Miami? You could spend less money somewhere else outside the US than Miami, and have p***y coming out of your ears.

If anything your topics are so rife with similar complaints, they actually should just get merged into one. You seem to have ignored every HA poster that has given you any advice and that is sad because it seems like more guys here like you alot for reasons I just cannot understand why.

+1

I agree with stop dating American women. Usually it seems that all of them somehow have the same characteristics. Possibly you might find a foreign women in Miami (Cubans, other groups from the Caribbean and other countries). However, most are going to adapt to the American way of life and would be for the most part in Miami pretty materialistic. Darcy, as Kai mentioned, I believe you should see if you are able to do an international exchange. Possibly a summer exchange or study abroad for Summer 2014. You might not get your true love (sorry had to add that) but you will at least be able to live in a different culture and meet interesting people. You might even have fun with girls while doing study abroad. You can PM me about a program for young professionals and college students who do 3-18 months internships in other countries.

After graduating you need to see what type of girl you want to date/marry whatever. I think that you need to focus possibly on building skills for yourself while in school. I thinik the summer or semester abroad option is good if you can afford the cost. I wish I was able to do study abroad. I have heard about it and sometimes it can lead to a life and employment after graduation if you are able to finish school in that country. I know of white woman (Anglo) who studied in the UK and graduated and works for a British company. It is not my ideal place but it is an example. There are plenty of black members here at HA who have worked in other countries and been able to meet interesting women. I am not sure about long-term/marriage but on average, they were not as materialistic and wanting to quickly mark you as undesirable as in the US.

So in short, you need to see if you can possibly study abroad for a semester at least and/or do a summer abroad option if you think it can help you with credits even non-major since it will give you experience that most Americans do not have since most of them stay in the country to do Bachelor/Master studies.

@Kai

Yeah, I am glad you and JamesC(?) who is another black member who contributed to the channel. It is good that non-Anglo guys can give their perspective. I might have to PM you for more help with other things.